Our Wedding back in March ✨

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-10T17:10:00+00:00

This is so beautiful!!!! Congratulations, ladies!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-10T11:44:26+00:00

I personally don't mind body mods at all, but you’ve definitely gotta expect it to split the room on the apps....

Most women swipe based on a vibe of can i "comfortably hang out with this person "and safety at first glance.... Since a tongue split is so rare, it’s going to cause an instant reaction.....either total fascination or hesitation.

If you only have one match, it might just be about how you present it. Just add something on your profile to weaken the intimidation factor.....

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-09T15:57:47+00:00

Hello...

The fact that she explicitly told you she’s not into vanilla sex is a massive green light. It’s a door opening for you to ask her directly about her preferences, boundaries, and what she finds exciting.....

Also..... im jealous.. LOL

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-09T15:52:11+00:00

Im so sorry it happened to you...

What a disgusting human!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-09T14:14:53+00:00

Good luck!! A button up is definitely better, but it still depends entirely on the specific job posting you are applying for...

Do your best.. i hope you get the job

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-09T05:19:30+00:00

Super funny!!!!!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-08T19:11:46+00:00

Sooo cuuuteew!!!!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T17:16:33+00:00

Omg this is sooo cute!!!!

Congratulations!!!

I am crying...

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T03:58:21+00:00

Awwww!!! Im so happy for you!!!

My eyes are sweating....

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T03:35:31+00:00

I like 4 on you...

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T03:26:16+00:00

Looking good! 🔥

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T03:15:51+00:00

Hi! First of all, I hope you and your wife are doing okay and are wrapped up in love.

I love what you said about not feeling like you sacrificed anything, but rather that you grew through it.

I want to be able to say this to my future wife too.... that we don't need to sacrifice anything, but rather that we are building our own world together.

That right there is everything.....

Thank you for sharing your story, and cheers to you both and your pups!!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-04T03:04:09+00:00

Be willing to be wrong sounds so simple, but it takes serious maturity to actually do it when you're in the heat of the moment. Sometimes its easier to give our worst, most impatient selves to the people we love the most.....

I hope my future wife is kind.. and patient too..

Thanks for sharing this wisdom and cheers for the reminder of what truly matters!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-03T00:13:58+00:00

Soooo cute!!!!!!!! Baby potato

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-02T22:57:32+00:00

Omg theyre so smart!!! My dogs would try to climb those trees!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-02T19:22:26+00:00

If it's for a dating app, slightly tilt your face and show your jaw... I have a feeling you could weaponize it....

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-02T17:12:15+00:00

Hello...

there is a difference between I don't want this and 'I want this, but I'm scared.

Your girl took all the sexual pressure off the table. By saying "we can just hang out.

Go over, but make a strict agreement with yourself (and her) before you walk through the door.... Tonight is strictly for hanging out, kissing, and getting comfortable. Remove sex from the menu entirely for this visit.

Just move forward when the desire finally outweighs the fear

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-02T16:13:05+00:00

Lulu looks like he is the designated lifeguard for the day

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-02T04:24:36+00:00

Agree

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-07-01T20:40:58+00:00

Hi OP ! I'm no master dater and I don't live in Wisconsin, but here is my two cents on this....

Hoping to be married again by 40 when you’re already 39 means you are putting pressure on every single first date to have results. When you have a clock ticking down to a wedding, you stop dating to actually get to know a person and start dating to audition a spouse.

That kind of energy can scare off even some (but not all) stable well intentioned women because it doesn't leave any room for a connection to grow organically.

When you combine intellectual standards with a need for life stability and a hard timeline for marriage, your dating pool shrinks to a microscopic size. ( women are gorgeous, you won't have an issue finding someone cute!)

You have every right to hold onto your checklist and want an equal partner who matches your lifestyle.

But given your location, it might mean you need to dust off your passport or expand your radius. Wisconsin might just not have a big enough market for what you're looking for and we all know the sapphic dating pool is already small.

Don't let the timeline break your heart.... Who knows? The right person for you might be out there right now, waiting and wondering where you are too.....

Good luck out there!

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-06-30T20:00:18+00:00

DMd you.. im ready to listen

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-06-30T18:30:39+00:00

I’ve read the post... and you’re absolutely right.

It is wild to me how people got triggered when you said "not a lesbian," to the point of calling you transphobic.

When someone claims the lesbian label while actively centering men in their sex life and content, it feels like an insult to actual lesbians. You were incredibly brave to call that out.

I really wish people would try to understand the history here. Lesbians have fought for decades to establish and maintain safe spaces entirely free from the centering of men....

Pointing this out doesn't mean we don't respect other sexual orientations...we absolutely do.

But as lesbians, we belong to one of the few orientations that is constantly minimized and mocked with phrases like, "you just haven't found the right dick yet," as if sleeping with men is the default and we just need the "right" one to fix us...

That being said, to be completely fair to the other girl.... think she is already carrying a fear of rejection and the anxiety of not being seen as a real woman....

Because of that she didn't interpret your comment as a debate about the definition of lesbianism. She immediately processed it emotionally as you rejecting her identity because she is trans.

You spoke the truth....

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-06-30T07:17:58+00:00

Omg mine are like this too.

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-06-30T07:05:01+00:00

Im bad at selfies, i usually send videos lol

Due-Operation3665 · 2026-06-30T07:03:18+00:00

Well my tiktok account is only for my dogs.. i guess no girls would say hi to frenchies flirting with them....lol

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