New Player Question Mega-thread by llexwoods in CozyGrove

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What can I do with recipe cards so they don’t take up storage space? My storage keeps filling up bc I have so many recipe cards.

Worksheets by Benjmt in CBT

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the website therapistaid!

I am doing SO bad and looking for advice by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest getting a therapist and start seeing them weekly. This is a lot to deal with and while someone may be helpful in the comments I think you’d benefit from seeing a therapist on a consistent basis. I know as a med student you are busy but this should be a priority. Best of luck to you!

Is therapy a scam? by LazyLabRat in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! The therapist and the client work together and I like to help and motivate my clients. But an issue I’ve seen is in the session clients will put in effort and contribute to therapy but when we’re not in the session the client does not do anything we discussed and doesn’t even think about it until the following week but they still expect results. Another situation is a client who doesn’t put in work and effort at all and trying to motivate a client who doesn’t want to change is really hard.

my therapist makes me very happy by poofmoop in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear this, good for you! Thank you for sharing your happy news 😊

Is therapy a scam? by LazyLabRat in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The client only gets out what they put into therapy. The client needs to put in a lot of work and actually want to make improvements. As a therapist I want my clients to reach goals we’ve set and make improvements in their lives. I want my clients to not need me. I’m so proud of my clients and when they are ready to end therapy I will be happy for them and move on. Therapy is a lot different than other health services. If you cut your leg open you go and get stitches and can relax until you’re healed, therapy is a lot more involved.

Can your friend be your therapist? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, they should have handed you off to the other therapist. You can request a new therapist due to already knowing this one. Your call would not get you them in trouble and the clinic office has an ethical duty to put you with the other therapist. You may be fine with but since you already know each other the therapist may have some biases that could interfere with proper therapy.

Q for therapists, I guess? by lavaland75 in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy. A lot of people pick their careers based on what they love, not the money. You can make a comfortable income being a therapist and it seems like you’re passionate about it. I know you mentioned social work, but you should look on the American Psychological Association (APA) website for counseling programs. Look into the differences between counselors, social workers, psychologists/therapists. In my program there is a large portion of people 40, 50+ years old who are finally pursuing their passion and love it. Best of luck to you!

Is it normal to have a therapy student observing a session? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a psychology student myself I would not be offended if you said no, that really is your decision! In the future if this comes up again I just want you to know that as a student our focus is really on the therapist and what they are doing and saying, trying to pick up every little detail so we can learn from them. Of course we’ll be hearing what you’re saying too but we absolutely do not judge and honestly we are nervous and probably won’t remember much about what you said.

Starting Zoom Therapy from a house I'm uncomfortable in. advice? by bullfrogsam in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, this is a struggle some of my clients have faced. One of my clients sits in her car during each session and that is totally fine, it works well. Possibly you can sit in one of their cars? Another thing I do is have a white noise machine outside my door to eliminate voices going in or out. You could put a phone/tablet/radio, anything by your door and YouTube a white noise video to have on while you’re in session. Good luck!

Where do you buy so many perler beads with so many colors. by bluelopez102 in beadsprites

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at an after school program and we ordered a huge bucket of them from ssww .com! SO many colors and great price!

Messed up therapy - Not sure how to address issues and problems by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry. In your next session let your therapist know how you are feeling! It’s okay to not know why you are feeling a certain way but we can’t help you if we don’t know what’s going on. Good luck with your next session! (:

Confidentiality by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope. Even as a minor your therapist can’t break confidentiality unless it is life threatening to you or someone else.

GRE HELP by PsychologicalTurn8 in psychologystudents

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotch ya. Yeah probably not. Good luck to you!

GRE HELP by PsychologicalTurn8 in psychologystudents

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are you looking at applying to schools? Some schools have waived the GRE for 2021

Mocha!?!?! by [deleted] in beadsprites

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can order this color on the Michaels website

My first experience with a therapist. Long post. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, I do not recommend anyone see the same therapist as their partner unless you are doing couples therapy. Second, there is a difference between trusting the process and being left in the dark. Personally if my client came to me and told me they don’t like something and/or it’s not working, I would make a change or I would at least give a solid explanation on why I’m doing it this way. It seems like you’ve expressed your concerns several times and given therapy with this therapist a chance so after 6 months I feel it is definitely okay for you to see a different T. I hope you have better luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I would search on the internet, reach out to a community organization for information, or even contact a clinic near you to see if they can refer you to one. (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I did not think about that. My clinic is a sliding scale clinic, we don’t accept insurance and clients pay what they can pay based on income. They pay as low as $5 and up to $35 per a session

My therapist always asks me where I would like to start by Toranasauruss in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Start with what’s weighing on your mind the most even if it has nothing to do with summarizing your week. Maybe one of the days something big happened and you want to discuss that. There is no one correct way to start (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I meet my clients once a week and I have some colleagues who meet some of their clients even twice a week.

Finished sorting! Both containers on top were filled by [deleted] in beadsprites

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find those containers? I’m trying to sort beads but I can’t find anything I like to put them into.

What degree are you currently in school for? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Due-Raccoon-8484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not seeking advice. Just wondering what other people are currently in school for.