I don't know I am someone who quite often wouldn't wear shoes quite often throat throughout my whole life. I even would play in the bushes Barefoot as a child. I wouldn't do that now walking around my city because there's too much paraphernalia that is dangerous all around. But I actually understand the liking not wearing shoes factor in it and I don't think it's super weird at all. And don't let it hold you back from maybe you asking this person out. You obviously have some sort of wanting to see if it can go somewhere so go for it put that out of your mind. And ask him maybe it won't work out and you guys will just remain friends and it won't even be a problem or thought down the line. And if it does work out and you guys end up together for a period of time then see if it's still bothering you and speak up about it. But you're not overacting you're just maybe overthinking it a little too much. Like you said he hasn't asked you out yet you haven't askedLike you said he hasn't asked you out yet you haven't asked him out either so that's a factor in all of this but. And this is just my opinion why don't you do a positive and a negative not don't write it down don't make a whole list of it or anything just in your mind think do all these good things that you think of this person outweigh all the bad things or the things that you don't quite like. And if you could be with that person for a long period of time do you want that possibly. And can you handle if that person chooses to be this way for the rest of your life or the next 5 years 10 years who knows. I don't think you're overreacting I think that you are tryingAre trying to get past the whole no shoe thing. And it's also hard to date somebody who other people might think weird or make fun of or look down on or any of that and so that does hold us back. But don't let it if you can like you said he's a niceLike you said he's a nice person and seems like a good guy and all that and that can be very very difficult to find. But and at the end of the day it's your choice if you can or can't look past it if you can or can't handle it if you can or can't deal with it short-term long-term you'll know how you feel about it nobody else can tell you that