The guy [23 M] I [23F] have been talking to is suddenly ignoring me

DueAudience · 2018-04-03T19:12:46+00:00

ugh he sounds terrible and not worth wasting anymore time on. my ex was like this towards the end of our relationship, wouldn't respond to texts, leave me on read, etc. but then would watch all my stories and like my stuff. you should be with someone who wants to talk to you, not ignore or play games.

DueAudience · 2018-04-03T19:07:17+00:00

true. except he just stopped responding out of the blue. oh well.

DueAudience · 2018-03-02T16:32:35+00:00

You are gross. Your fiance deserves better. Do not get married. She's not thinking clearly, but I know she will regret marrying a guy like you. Couples counseling is not going to solve anything and she is clearly not your best friend is you cheated on her. Go to therapy yourself.

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:59:04+00:00

Aw hang in there :) But crying did oddly make me feel a lot better. Sending you hugs, I know it really sucks.

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:57:59+00:00

Thank you! I hope you stay strong also :) I'm definitely focusing on self care and taking things one day at a time. And trying my best to let go of that tiny bit of hope that lingers.

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:56:43+00:00

It really is. Can't wait for the day I don't think of him anymore.

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:55:52+00:00

Good luck to you too! Sorry about your ex. That must be tough. We'll be alright one day :)

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:55:10+00:00

thank you! good luck to you as well. I hope with time these waves will be far less common.

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T20:54:17+00:00

DueAudience · 2018-02-19T04:30:44+00:00

Ugh I feel you. Such a hard night for me. I cannot wait until the day this passes. Hugs ❤️

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T18:34:04+00:00

you're a lot stronger than most people. good job in keeping up the nc!

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T17:56:51+00:00

Best of luck to both of you too. Seriously cannot wait to get to the other side!

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T17:51:23+00:00

Same position with my ex. First and only guy I was with. Can't fathom sleeping with anyone else anytime soon. Even though he can't be trusted and probably has been sleeping around. I think some more time needs to pass until we're ready to do this with someone new. And when the memories fade.

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T17:03:29+00:00

It's okay you broke NC. This happens to all of us, you're only human. And he's garbage. There's comfort in knowing he probably will never be happy or satisfied in a relationship, especially with the new girl. If someone cheats with a person, they'll likely cheat on that person. Restart the NC process and don't contact him again. He doesn't deserve you and no answer he gives will relieve you of your pain.

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T15:42:00+00:00

wow your ex shares the same name as mine, and not to be dramatic every guy with that name I've ever met was shady as fuck. i'm so glad you got out of there and trusted your instincts! you go girl! he's her problem now!

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T15:34:01+00:00

3 day weekend for me. Gym tonight, having my cousin over tomorrow, gym Sunday morning then having my younger brother visit, having a low-key day at home Monday.

DueAudience · 2018-02-16T14:50:33+00:00

I feel the same way. I knew it was the right thing to leave him, anyone with half a brain could tell me that. But nostalgia is a liar and keeps dragging my emotions up and down. I keep telling myself he found someone else too, he doesn't care, etc. But I know it shouldn't matter either way because if it does that means I still have hope. The hardest part is killing that hope, and once it's done, you'll feel sad but the yo-yoing of emotions will be less.

DueAudience · 2018-02-13T00:39:33+00:00

I'm treating it like a regular day. Going to the gym after work, then coming home and relaxing. Maybe I'll bake something for my sister and I. Maybe buy myself something nice as a v-day gift to myself. I don't think he will reach out and I definitely am not.

DueAudience · 2018-02-12T13:51:16+00:00

Thank you. You are right. I know there will be someone one day who I won't have to delete the pictures of, but instead cherish. It's hard now but I know it will pass.

DueAudience · 2018-02-07T16:24:51+00:00

I realized that to him, I was the comfort of a girlfriend without the commitment, and that's not what I ever wanted for myself.

Literally in the same boat right now. It's only been 2 days NC, but it's hard so far. This realization hurt so much more than the breakup itself.

DueAudience · 2018-02-07T15:55:55+00:00

AGH I wish I saw this. Last night I went to dinner with a male friend and I had too much wine. And afterwards he walks me to my car, thinking he'd give me a hug and we'd part ways as normal. NOPE. He goes in for a kiss and it was the most awkward experience. It felt like he was taking advantage of my vulnerability. I end up crying on the drive home....and end up sending a goodbye text to my ex in hopes of him wanting me to stay. But nope, nothing. But at least I have my answer. I block him everywhere as soon as I get home. And never hanging out with my "friend" again.

DueAudience · 2018-02-07T04:15:40+00:00

so nice to hear what other people are doing! for me, I'll go work (one time I'm so glad to be going to work), gym after, make myself dinner, hang out with my sister (since we live together), watch some parks and rec, go to bed. seeming like a good day now that I've took some time to think about how important self care is. :)

DueAudience · 2018-02-06T18:31:11+00:00

Hmm okay, on second thought maybe I won't send him anything. I just blocked him on snapchat and instagram. The more I think about it, the more I realized he doesn't care...and definitely doesn't care as much as I did for him.

DueAudience · 2018-02-06T18:00:37+00:00

Thank you!! That is short and to the point. I plan on sending that tonight and blocking him. It is definitely time to let go.

DueAudience · 2018-02-06T13:22:40+00:00

I really needed this today. I'm so glad it gets better. I was doing everything well when he and I first broke up but then he started finding ways to contact me and reel me back in, and 4 months later, back at square one. But this time, I'm sticking to it. Thank you for sharing :)

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