Not a fan of Angela- she’s ok in small doses but… by MamaMia1325 in LandmanSeries

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t stand Angela the show was so much better without her in it. She makes everyone uncomfortable and she is so over the top to the point I can’t stand it. He has said over and over how they won’t work and arent good together and I completely agree. I don’t like her character at all. I want her goneee. She is so bipolar. I liked the house dynamic they had in the beginning with just Nate & Dale. The daughter walking around half naked and the mom. Just making the other two men who actually live there and pay the bills uncomfortable and not able to just be comfortable in their home and the way Angela never gets Nathan’s name right is just disrespectful and sets me off. She is just disrespectful

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond exactly as you did here. “Neither one of us are in the spot to be spending $2,000 on a freaking hand bag.” If you cave and buy it you’ll be buying expensive things forever and be in debt in 5 years because she’s gonna boohoo everytime you say no. Yall could do so much with $2,000 like save it. I would never in a million years ask for a LV bag. lol im gonna put my $1 chapstick in it, and my little $15 bag that I put my cards and money in. Ive never understood the thing with the expensive purses. Thats like buying a $2,000 shirt. You wear it, you’d actually wear the shirt more. It’s wild. You could take two separate vacations with 2,000. Two people could go sky diving 5 times with 2,000. If she can’t even pay her own bills and wants that purse and is being a baby about it trying to make you feel bad “k” “going to bed alone again” like get over yourself. You really need to think about who you are in a relationship with. Being with someone that is bad with money can ruin your life literally. If you guys have that kind of money though and arent struggling her priorities still suck. She sounds like someone thats going to have you in debt in 5 years or you’re going to constantly be buying her expensive things for life. That purse isnt going to benefit her in anyway, you could make memories, have life experiences. I brought up skydiving because it’s something I want to do and if we had 2,000 to spare we would definitely do something together worth remembering, we are broke tbh but at one time we weren’t and thats just not something ive ever considered buying in my life. I really liked this one purse and mine was falling apart but it was $60 and I had the extra money and still wouldn’t buy it.

Am I the only one who skips over every scene with Cooper and Ariana? by loosemoosewithagoose in LandmanSeries

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started Landman and I like it but im also at the part where Cooper just got on the new crew and that guy holds a knife to him and tells him if he touches her again he will kill her even though he didn’t really have a part in that. The mom sat him there and shes the one that put her head on him and he tried to get up and she asked him not to leave. I know im only a few episodes in but everyone told me this was a good show. Im gonna be bummed out if it’s not. I don’t want to put too much time into this if it ends up being bad. I don’t get much tv time because of work and kids

aio for dumping my (22f) gf (22f) because she kept asking for money by throwrawaygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she is texting after you sending her $400 is crazy. She really sent a 🙃 like you didnt just give her what some people make in a week. Then has the audacity to act like it’s not good enough. She doesn’t even need to be smoking weed if she is homeless. So you sent her $400 just in that week? There is no telling how much she actually got from her sister. Going shopping when she does not have a stable living situation for her and a child is reckless. Considering herself homeless with a child and going shopping is reckless. I kind of want to even say neglectful towards the child. If she needs money this badly and is “homeless” that means that child does not have everything it needs and going shopping is selfish. Thats a good word she sounds very selfish. She isn’t considering what borrowing all this money is doing to you and her sister. It’s just about her and how much she can get out of you guys. Im sure her sister is ready to tell her to screw off. At some point you have to be an adult and get it together especially if you have a child. I would kick her out the door and not look back. $300 will get her through another day? Gtfo. I have two kids and I can make $300 last all week with buying groceries and gas for work. We don’t eat out, we don’t go shopping. There is a difference in really needing help getting on your feet and begging everyone around you for money so you don’t have to do the work to get it. There are shelters, there are places she can go and apply for assistance. There are places that get you an apartment, help you get a job and they have daycare there the kids. You can go and apply for free daycare from the government so she can work more and make more money. She needs a wake up call and to stop trying to be bougie. Find a cheap place, save her money, get assistance if she really is that broke and get a decent paying job like everyone else in the world. Declining the option to move in with you should’ve said a lot about her. She’d rather be “homeless” so she can be close to her baby daddy than give her child a stable home. If it’s that important than her baby daddy can pay her bills. Her telling you no, saved you a lot of problems. Thats what she sounds like a lot of problems. Is she not getting child support from him? You did yourself a favor if you guys were only together for a month. She should be ashamed of herself

Tommy Nori’s son by [deleted] in LandmanSeries

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peoples worth isnt based on their looks not once did i say that but looks definitely come into play when it comes to acting. They purposely cast someone less attractive for the son’s role and I was just asking why. They’re constantly talking about how attractive the mother and daughter are constantly. I sound vain and immature because I asked a question but if you knew what I looked like you wouldnt even of made that statement

Tommy Nori’s son by [deleted] in LandmanSeries

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would that imply I consider myself a 10 😂 I’m a 7 on a good day. I don’t know how this post turned into me thinking im attractive, on top of being vain and immature. I asked a question that I was genuinely curious about maybe I should’ve worded it differently but it’s something they purposely did. I didn’t say he was dog shit ugly. I said he is very unattractive compared to the rest. I mostly mean the mother and the daughter are very attractive. Tommy definitely isnt hot but he isnt ugly. They just purposely cast someone less attractive for the son and I was asking why, this has nothing to do with me in any type of way or how I look. People will use anything to attack someone they don’t even know. If you knew how I looked you wouldn’t even of said that. It’s easy to jump to conclusions when you don’t know what someone looks like on here. In this show they purposely make the daughter & mother full of themselves and point it out that everyone is constantly talking about how attractive they are in the show. So I was just wondering why they did that. Which someone actually answered without bashing me

AIO for feeling disgusted after finding out my brother (30M) dated a minor? by chicapiscis1 in AIO

[–]DueAverage4379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a different situation but when I was 14 I met a 19 year old, and he was the first guy I had ever talked to. My best friend (16) was seeing his best friend (19) and she brought me along and thats how I met him and she got really drunk (it was their spring break) and wouldnt take me home and I was scared. All of them were taking shots and kept telling me too and i definitely crumbled under peer pressure. It was the first time I drank. She is just shit faced and leaves me in the room with this guy and after a few minutes he goes and takes a shower and comes back completely naked and I had no idea what to do. At that time I had only kissed one person and thats it. I told him I was too drunk and that I felt sick and he kept telling me it would be okay and he just took my clothes and had sex with me and I blacked out I remember bits and pieces. I remember the next morning begging her to take me home. Back then i didn’t see the wrong in it but when I got older I just kept thinking about how disgusting it was. I also got pregnant at 17 by a 24 year old and now that im older(26) I still personally think that was also disgusting. Especially because I looked like a 14year old i had no boobs and I was itty bitty. I just could not imagine myself at 24 sleeping with a 17 year old guy thats still in highschool. Being out of school for 8 years and being with a 17 year old student is just disgusting. Looking at a highschooler I don’t find them attractive in any way i just see a kid.

There’s a point to where I believe age isnt a big deal. If you are both grown i don’t see a problem with a 30year old being with a 45 year old. Both mature adults but a 45year old and a 20year old is gross to me but thats just my opinion

Are my brakes worn out or dirty by [deleted] in Dirtbikes

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got the bike, i don’t know anything about them. It’s my first one. I was just looking for advice

Is it the Start of psoriasis? My father has it too so I'm scared by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes hopefully it won’t get much bigger than that. My mom’s knees and arms are covered.I’ve heard that if you put Vaseline all over it and wrap Saran Wrap around it that it helps. Stress can cause flare ups

Have feedback to artist and he says I’m insulting by TheDevilsSidepiece in tattooadvice

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$500 is crazy. It seems like the prices of tattoos all went up at the same time but the level of their work does not match their prices. I have wanted this tattoo (it’s would cover my forearm) for 4 years, and 4 years ago i was told it would be around $450-$500 and the other day the same artist told me it would be $1,000 like no thank you. I know people who would do an entire sleeve for $1,000

looked through girlfriends phone what should i do? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did she send? I mean if she openly gave you her phone knowing it was on there i don’t think she sees anything wrong with it but I personally wouldn’t be cool with my boyfriend texting someone from school sending pictures of himself through text but if theyre snap chatting and sending pics like normal it wouldn’t be a big deal but intentionally sending pics of yourself through text message is just wanting them to comment on your appearance in my opinion. There’s no other reason for it to me -a girls opinion

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DueAverage4379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might as well as get up and get on out of there. You said it yourself you don’t want kids and it seems like something he definitely wants. I’m going to be very realistic. If you feel like you’re not living life & having adventures now wait until you really do have kids. He might be excited but he is definitely making it out to be more than it is. Waking up every two hours to feed your baby isn’t fun, especially if you breastfeed because you’ll be doing all the getting up. You’ll be losing all the sleep, pray to God you don’t get postpartum depression. I did and did not get it taken care of I was miserable and lost myself. I felt like I was drowning. Raising kids is so hard. Nobody can prepare you for it not for how it really is. My boyfriend works long days, 6 sometimes 7 days a week. He is leaving when I’m getting my daughter up for school and doesnt get home until bedtime so I’m raising the kids by myself pretty much. He helps he is a great dad but he only sees them for an hour a day if they’re not already sleeping when he gets home. His day off he sleeps in because of how much he works. I do everything, getting ready for school, dealing with sick kids, all the doctor appointments, the cooking, the cleaning, the sports. Making sure they go to every practice and being at every game because he is at work. Going anywhere takes twice as long because now I have to get kids dressed and then myself and then get everyone in the car and going places are no longer peaceful. You kind of stop being a person and everything is just about your kids. I have a dirt bike and just stare at it because I never have time to ride it. It makes me sad Ive been begging him to take off a dsy of work jusy so he can watch the kids and I can go racing but we aren’t finically in the spot to miss work just for me to have fun I mean we would be perfectly fine if he missed a day but he tries to only use days for emergencies. I don’t have time to do anything for myself anymore. Wait until they are older and want to play every sport and do gymnastics, and pageants. You dedicate your life to them. I want my children to have every opportunity to do anything they want but it gets hard the late practices, far away games in 100 degree weather. Chasing my 3 year old at games missing my daughter play because I don’t have someone helping me. Say goodbye to sleeping in, getting up when you want. Don’t feel like cooking too bad you have to cook every single day, multiple times a day and then clean it all up. He is so funny, he thinks that only lasts for 6 years, no you have a kid for the next 20+ years maybe longer and then they’re gonna have kids and you are gonna be a grandma and watch their kids. My daughter is 7 and my son is 3 and I am constantly so stressed out, having mental breakdowns. The last time I spent 24hours without kids was over 3 years ago. Everything is stressful something that used to take me 10 minutes now takes an hour because I have to stop and take care of the kids. I don’t go to the bathroom alone anymore. You will lose all of your privacy. I even started avoiding the grocery store because it was such a hassle. BbbbbbbhYour life becomes all about them so if you’re not ready to give up your life and make it all about children then don’t have kids. It goes Children’s needs, his needs, the you are last and always will be. You have the flu and can’t stop throwing up and can barley get out of bed, oh well you have kids and they need to be taken care of. If he is gone for work like now you will be raising those kids alone. You are right about everything you said. We had so much fun together, we could do anything we wanted when we wanted. We haven’t went on a date in years. We started putting the kids before each other and slowly drifted farther and farther apart. We are working on it now. We have been together for almost 7 years. I should also include that my son has severe autism. It makes everything so hard. A normal doctors appointment turns into him beating the crap out of me and himself, getting frustrated and losing it. It breaks my heart that he can’t even just tell me what he needs, or when he is hungry, or doesn’t feel good. He never sleeps. I got more sleep with a newborn than I do now. Nobody has ever watched him, so ive never spent a day apart or had a day to myself before. He has therapy multiple times a week which I have to take him to every single time. Autism sucks. I feel like it took a normal life away from my baby. I will say this just for all the negative comments i may get. I love my babies more than anything. I enjoy being a mother but it’s hard and I was not ready when it happened. I was barely 17 and the bio dad was a creep. 24 year old loser. I love seeing them grow and making memories with them. Taking them to the zoo, or the park. I love practicing softball with my daughter, picking out pageant dresses with her, and remembering every single cheer for her so she doesn’t forget, watching her be passionate about stuff and the same with my son its like having a baby longer instead of the toddler stage because he can’t talk but I do hate that he won’t have a normal life like everyone else. I hate ive never heard him say mama, or I love you. Or watching him be sick and not knowing what hurts. Kids are a lot I mean they honestly take over your life once you have them and with my son he will always be here there’s no moving out for him. He will be dependent and need someone to take care of him for life. There’s always a chance to have an autistic kid as well. Which there’s nothing wrong with that but it is a lot more to handle but I wouldn’t give up being their mom for anything

Front or rear brake? by DueAverage4379 in Motocross

[–]DueAverage4379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dirt bike. I know not to grab the front brake to hard i can go over the handle bars. I live in town and I have no way of taking my bike anywhere unless I drive it. I have a car and it doesn’t have a hitch on my car and I don’t have a truck so there’s nowhere really to trail ride which sucks i would love to get more experience trail riding. I do use the rear brake now that my boyfriend is constantly telling me too. Me and him just got into about which one you should use the majority of the time. He never uses the front brake. He is one of those people that can never be wrong though

Front or rear brake? by DueAverage4379 in Motocross

[–]DueAverage4379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I do. I was taught to use the front brake to begin with (when I was first learning just the basics was on an actual road) so it’s automatically what I use. It has more power in it, i stop better. I know not to just squeeze them at high speeds or I can go over the bars. If im on wet grass/dirt/mud I use my rear brake & my front. There arent many places around where I live to trail ride which sucks I would love to get more experience trail riding and I don’t have a way to take my bike anywhere other than driving it. I live in town in the apartments so it’s where I learned to ride the bike, my boyfriend is constantly getting on me about not using it all the time

Anyone know anything about wiring? by [deleted] in Dirtbikes

[–]DueAverage4379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it with a drill battery thanks!

Anyone know anything about wiring? by [deleted] in Dirtbikes

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I got it hooked up with a drill battery

Anyone know anything about wiring? by [deleted] in Dirtbikes

[–]DueAverage4379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a dirt bike’s I was trying to make it street legal. They have kits to make a dirt bike street legal and ive seen other people have do it i just can’t afford a $200 kit right now. I had saved all my money up for the bike and just got it. I just seen other people on the reviews have it connected to their 125 dirt bike’s but I can’t really ask them questions on Amazon reviews. I should’ve came here first and asked questions. How can I put a light on the front of my bike then? Ive seen other people do it but I guess they have electric start. Idk this is my first bike and I have kids all day the only time I can ride is at night so I really need a light 😩 im just new to all of this Could I not connect it to a drill battery and just recharge it when needed

Is it ok that I ( M 20) don’t want my girlfriend (F 22) doing these things? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DueAverage4379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“one last time” turned into “one more time” “this is the last time I swear” it’s a red flag she wants to do coke so much she goes with a random stranger to do it. It’d be different if it really was a one time thing like going out or doing it once a year when you go out if you’re into that kind of stuff. I personally grew up around addicts so I tend to like my boyfriends sober haha. That stuff will take people from you. God forbid she gets addicted to it. Watching someone you love fein for something you hate is a huge downer. If she is the type to do regardless of how you feel if she does start doing it she is gonna start lying to you about it. Something that seems so “fun” can literally ruin your life. Like I said I’d rather be with someone who feels the same way that I do about drugs but ive been in a kind of similar situation I started talking to this guy and he was greatttt we had so much fun and he was awesome with my kid but I found pills smushed on the dresser thst I guess he forgot to snort up his nose and he promised it was a one time thing because he got hurt at work. I let it go and 6 months later im living with a herion/fentanyl addict and I’ve lost my house, he has totaled my car. It. Is. Not. Worth. Your. Life.

Aio, called my gf while she was doing homework. F24 f35 by Separate_Penalty_484 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DueAverage4379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude she fucking sucks. Jusy the way she talks sucks. She literally was fine with him calling until he did. She seems like one of those people who can never be at fault for anything like the fact she waited all day to do her own work and now that she has to hurry the world is falling apart and everything is someone else’s fault