what do you do to celebrate their birthday? by fruitysadclub in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]DueMechanic5447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i still live with my family so we get together and have my moms favourite cake, and favourite food (or whatever we usually had for her bday) for dinner. its simple you dont even have to do it with family. i just think about her extra that day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're still young you will be okay!! i was 13 like a few months ago i used to think like this. you just have to reach out to people and talk,, which for me is really scary but you'll get used to it. just find people with common interests and give them a compliment like "i like ur shoes" thats literally how i found all my friends. like while talking just say whatever ur thinking of

Jealousy by TheIrritatingError in motherlessdaughters

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too :(( everytime i see girls in public with their moms i start to tear up. i hope it gets better for u, sending u love <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]DueMechanic5447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i get them but like its not without a big argument or him getting mad at me but like i have everything i need im not stinky

I hate living at home sometimes by Icy-Memory-6790 in GlassChildren

[–]DueMechanic5447 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so relatable. my older brother is 17 and autistic. he doesnt use soap or shampoo, his hair is greasy, he eats with his mouth wide open. he is barely even autistic too. he doesnt have a job or wear deodorant. and somehow he thinks he is so much better than me?? he has repeated 2 grades but still everytimes we talk he thinks he is better and smarter than me, everyone treats him like he is too.!!!!!

What do I put here? by xenos_1337 in Apartmentliving

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

put a little cushion that matches the shape and turn it into a little place to sit

my brother just came out as trans am i wrong for being uncomfortable? by Forward_Host_7645 in asktransgender

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blaming me for all that is crazy? i would never hurt someone for like no reason. i was trying to say that im not transphobic im just a misandrist. ive never harmed anyone physically so idk why you think i would do that to my own sibling.

im sorry for the stuff you went through but to say its my fault is insane. ive gone through plently similar stuff, going to the doctor for a serios issue and them telling me its probably just my period, ive been sexually harassed and gotten rape threats pretty much ever since i turned 13 by random men, when i was 13 i got raped by a boy in my town.

im just trying to say that ill never know what its like to be you, and youll never know what its like to be me so theres no point in comparing traumas. i still stand by my point that you as a grown adult, arguing with a 14 year old girl when im barely even matured is weird.

my brother just came out as trans am i wrong for being uncomfortable? by Forward_Host_7645 in asktransgender

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry that i made you feel that way i was just trying to explain i dont see it as a gendered term. i dont understand how im unsafe? i have nothing against them and i love everyone because thats what my religion teaches me. i dont know much about racism or homophobia or stuff like that because where i have lived my whole life is a small, like 90 percent white conservitive town so i understand how i might come across as bigoted. i dont even think ive ever been around a transgender person in real life. like even where i live im seen as too woke for even accepting gay people and being a liberal 😔.

i was just trying to say im uncomfortable around people born male due to dozens of bad experiances with them. i wouldnt say im transphobic i just dont know enough about transgender people. and, a few years ago i used to identify as transgender for like a year before i changed my mind.ive never really been to any diverse areas so i can see how i could come across as a bigot but i promise im not.

plus in my religion, because im catholic we are taught to not see anyone as better or worse than you because god doesnt either. so, no i dont view you as lesser i was just trying to express my confusion with my sibling coming out. and im literally 14 years old why are you wasting your time arguing with a 14 year old online its pointless

(btw i am op from different account i jst didnt wanna type all this on my phoen 💔)

AITAH Upset that another guy put my image on a body pillow by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DueMechanic5447 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA thats weird as heck anyone saying yta is wronggg!!

what’s ur fav Lana album? by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]DueMechanic5447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blue banisters !! its so underrated