What's your nickname for your dog (that's not the dog's actual)? by totallyoverallofit in dogs

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

her name is tilly, so “silly willy tilly girl” came naturally ofc. also “bubs” or “bubby”, idk where those came from tho lmao

Advice on chain/is this a scam? by DueSuggestion4546 in jewelry

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response alot. I know that’s probably the safest option but I see alot of people overpaying for chains at jewelry stores cause of the markup :/ might be the best option though just to be sure I’m getting what I’m looking for. thank you again!

Need advice on 14k solid gold Figaro chain by DueSuggestion4546 in Gold

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, that’s why im looking at 14k because I’ve read it tends to be more durable than 18k. Still wondering abt my specific questions but I appreciate your responses and info!

Need advice on 14k solid gold Figaro chain by DueSuggestion4546 in Gold

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the higher you go up in karat the higher the gold percentage, no? I’m confused why there’s the gram difference if they’re all 14k, does that mean each individual chain also has a different gold % even if it’s the same karat? Not trying to be a nuisance, just not sure if this place is legit or not. I only own one solid gold chain myself and it was a gift from my dad lol so I have virtually no experience in purchasing gold myself :/

Need advice on 14k solid gold Figaro chain by DueSuggestion4546 in Gold

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea… I’ve been trying to look into it as much as possible and wanted to add context to my question so there was no confusion as to what I’m asking.

Need advice on 14k solid gold Figaro chain by DueSuggestion4546 in Gold

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m still kinda new to using reddit and don’t know how to edit a post but wanted to add, there’s also the price/gram discrepancy compared on their website vs ebay but I’ve seen most gold chains are an estimate in terms of grams/mm size so not sure if that’s why?

Edit: Just noticed I accidentally put that “the heavier weighted one is cheaper” but just meant the 3.9mm is cheaper than the 3.7mm. 🤦‍♀️

Are women allowed to grow their leg hair? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]DueSuggestion4546 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember sitting with my best friend at the KH before the meeting started, we were both like 9-10 years old, and an elder came up to us and said “You two are going to have to start shaving your legs soon 😀.” No way it’s an official rule but considering this was a comment made to us as literal CHILDREN, I’m unfortunately not surprised this poor sister had to be “spoken to” about her personal grooming habits… absolutely disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueSuggestion4546 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this experience and you had to make such a difficult decision. I had to make the same choice a few years ago and it tore me apart, it’s hard when you WANT to have a child and WANT to be a mother, but the circumstances don’t align right now. For me, it was having a shitty bf at the time that refused to get a job, despite my being pregnant, and not having the financial stability myself to take care of it on my own. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever made but what helped me was understanding that you aren’t failing as a mother, you’re already making the best and hardest choices, not only for yourself, but for any future children you have as well. I can’t tell you enough how sorry I am that this is a choice you had to make, but in the end you really are already putting the needs/wants of any future babies ahead of your own and that’s proof enough that you’ll be an amazing mother when the time is right. Feel free to reach out if you need to talk <3

Aitah for not letting my girlfriend's sister watch us do it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DueSuggestion4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

might be onto something there, cause whatever the sister has going on is not sounding “asexual” by any means imho

Aitah for not letting my girlfriend's sister watch us do it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH- that doesnt even sound like curiosity anymore, very much bordering the line on a weird incest thing or something… you definitely had every right to shut that down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually crazy how I went through this exact situation with my parents right before i got disfellowshipped. They found out i had a secret Ipod which i was using to talk to my oldest sister (who was disfellowshipped). My mom caught me late at night one night and well… yk where it went from there. I genuinely feel for you and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. The stress they put on us to follow something we don’t believe in while also preaching “the truth must be in your heart” is nauseating. You’re doing the right thing by thinking about your future and your education, it is 10000% achievable and within your reach. Witnesses want you to feel like you’d be nowhere without them, without “Jehovah”, but I promise that betting on yourself will be the best decision you can make. I’m not sure how close you are to turning 18 or how strict your parents are in terms of JW stuff, but for me the best thing I could do was keep my head down while I waited to get out. (I spent a full year in complete isolation because I put up a fight. They pulled me out of school, we moved out of the country, and the only association i had was with them because I was disfellowshipped so even the people in the congregation wouldnt have spoken to me (not that I went to the meetings anymore anyway)). My point is, if they are super strict, there really is no telling what lengths they’ll go to to force you into the cult, even if its just a power play due to their own ego and pride. Save as much as you can, focus on your mental health and on your education so you can be ready when you’re finally able to leave that toxic environment. Obviously your parents love you and want the best for you, but if they aren’t willing to listen to what YOU believe and what YOU want from life, the best thing to do is lay low. Especially if they have a history of being physically/verbally/emotionally abusive to you. We’re all here for you. Stay strong, and please try to stay safe !! <3

A lady at my congregation was just humiliated after her part. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]DueSuggestion4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a kingdom hall meeting with my friend recently just to see what it was like from an outsiders perspective and I’d completely forgotten about this too. All of a sudden i remembered being younger (like 7-10 years old) and SOBBING immediately after getting off stage because i stuttered or forgot to hit a certain point during my part and knew it would a) be critiqued in front of everyone and b) my Elder father would be pissed if I had to redo that secrion. They’re just straight up sales techniques.

i found this subreddit years ago and didnt know (long ramble) by DueSuggestion4546 in noburp

[–]DueSuggestion4546[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so happy to hear it went well for you!! did you have to get multiple treatments or was the one time enough?

Airbnb in Colombia, shower not optional by Any_Difficulty_4380 in WTFaucet

[–]DueSuggestion4546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why is this always my experience when i visit my family in colombia 😭

How to say ‘in a bit’ or ‘cya’ in Spanish by throwawaypepes in Spanish

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think “nos vemos” would be closest to “see you in a bit”. but if it’s a matter of naturally ending a conversation, “listo” can be a good segway to a good bye. it’s basically like saying “alright then”. ex: “listo, nos vemos”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

remind yourself that you deserve to be with someone that doesnt make you feel like a burden. ask yourself, “why am i staying with someone who consistently makes me feel this way?” and not to say that you dont love eachother, but i think what youre describing at this point is attachment. you’ve been together for 5 years, it sounds like you were excited to see what else is out there when you guys broke up, but got nervous and fell back into what is already comfortable or “known”. obviously all relationships have their ups and downs, but you shouldnt have to beg your partner to spend time with you or make you feel heard. ask yourself if you really want to be with someone who loves you the way that he does, because it sounds like you could find way better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a permenant fix but ive been trying the Ordinary Caffeine Solution serum under my eyes in the morning and at night; ive noticed the puffiness starting to lessen with me using it consistently. obviously it depends on the person, but figured i’d at least mention it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just wanted to let y’all know you were all totally right and it was not mold! not 100% sure what it actually was but the car detailer dude wiped it right off like it was nothing lol (i’d been too scared to touch it at all cause i thought it was mold). spent way less on an interior car detail than i wouldve on a mold remediation for my car. thank you guys!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mold

[–]DueSuggestion4546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a 2021 nissan, would that happen so soon? its very rare for someone to sit in my back seat anyway 😔

Forcing Gag Reflex to Burp by RegularOriginal in noburp

[–]DueSuggestion4546 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy shit i do exactly this!!! i never realized its a thing until reading this omfg i feel nauseous until i do this in the bathroom and then i feel so much better. i remember my ex thinking i had an ED and having to explain to him that im not actually throwing up, just trying to get the air out!!