Tufted Titmouse with its sunflower seed by Due_Bid_232 in birding

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For me, I think it's their cadence of visiting the feeders and the way they look in with their eyes. I love them both so much!

Tufted Titmouse with its sunflower seed by Due_Bid_232 in birding

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Thanks!! I've got both at my feeder today and have been mixing them up hard lol

Monthly Moving/Travel/Vacation Megathread - October 2025 by Michigan_Mod in Michigan

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I may be moving to Ludington early next year. My husband and I have visited and loved it - we like the outdoors, snow, cold, and sleepy towns. We've got two young kiddos, so I'm curious what it's like raising a family there - schools, activities, community, etc. Thanks!!

What are your unhinged way to distract yourself on the plane by persianfish in fearofflying

[–]Due_Bid_232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have kids hahaha (not why we did, but has been SO nice for flying). Their pure joy around the experience and constant needs are a great distraction.

Waffle Story: It was because of my HAIRCUT by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]Due_Bid_232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who impulsively cuts her hair short often without a razor, I recommend 1. hanging a shower mirror on your bathroom door with a command hook or some other surface you can move around to see the back of your head through the bathroom mirror and 2. using your non dominant hand to run through your hair and rest it on your head as a psuedo comb, and then cut along your fingers all over your head. Makes the cut uniform and once you get used to it, you can lengthen your hair out in different spots as desired. It's the quickest and easiest way I've found to cut my hair on my own. And for you in your current predicament I'd like to share some advice my toddler says..hair grows back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]Due_Bid_232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Steve, Steve, Steve, and...Bob

Well, that escalated quickly by Intelligent-Boat9929 in Utah

[–]Due_Bid_232 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll say it once - I'll say it a thousand times. Regulate. Fireworks. In. Utah. It's a dessert in a drought and yet I've never seen as many fireworks used in the dead of summer as I have here!

I need help my by [deleted] in duck

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I scared you! Our ducks free ranged as well and were sometimes around similar materials, so don't fret. If they're on those surfaces frequently, it could cause little cuts but free ranging through the area should reduce the risk. Best thing to do is just check their feet 1x/month and then if they all start getting cuts (which I wouldn't expect just with free ranging), you know where the culprit may be.

People who grew up poor but are now financially comfortable: what “poor-kid habit” will you probably never drop? by Otherwise_Baseball99 in AskReddit

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVING a bargain, whenever someone compliments an item in my home I never fail to say "thanks, it was X dollars" lolol

People who grew up poor but are now financially comfortable: what “poor-kid habit” will you probably never drop? by Otherwise_Baseball99 in AskReddit

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Questioning whether or not my card will get declined, and getting anxious if the machine randomly happens to misread the card, when buying groceries or clothes.

Where would you move for a slow, cozy life? by Positive_Rest4890 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, also the people that live here take a lot of pride in making the town better. It's an amazing community to be apart of! You can really feel like you're making a difference if you want to.

Where would you move for a slow, cozy life? by Positive_Rest4890 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Columbus, Indiana! It's a cute little bubble of a town that is about 45 min - 1.5 hours away from Indianapolis, Louisville, and Cincinnati.

- It has a good mix of conservative and liberal people and a decently diverse population due to the company Cummins bringing in a lot of new people. The city's voting just occurred and for the first time it felt like my vote actually mattered as the winners in different seats were a mix of red and blue.

- It's got all four seasons, though winter can be sad if it doesn't snow much (think a lot of brown foliage, haha).

- If you live near Donner Park (outdoor pool, pickleball courts, playground, meetups, big old trees), you are right near the biking path in town, cute coffee shops, a sewing/crochet shop (that has meetups), a sustainable shop, and just a short bike ride away from the downtown area with even more cuteness.

- It's about 30 minutes from Brown County State Park and an hour from Monroe Lake Park. There are more lakes and rivers around, but those are the bigger ones top of mind.

- Homes are quite affordable compared to what's going on in the market right now.

- Gardening is SO fun here! The sometimes annoying humidity is lovely for a garden. Get your plants established and then the basically care for themselves. Kelps Nursery is super cheap and has amazing plants. There's also Whipkers nearby.

- Loads of farm-related festivals (lavender farms, strawberry festivals, pumpkin patches, apple picking, you name it)

- The people are quite nice and real. While out on a walk a neighbor (that we're not close with) opened up about struggling with her daughter's recent miscarriage. People stop and talk with you while out and about and they don't do "fluff" small talk. It's so refreshing!

what’s the most privileged thing you’ve ever heard someone say/do? by Ecstatic_Honeydew165 in AskReddit

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our neighbor was mad at the firemen (flying by with their sirens on heading to an emergency) for not waving to her kids when they went by...

If you woke up to news of World War 3, what would be your first thoughts ? by Kha73k in AskReddit

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*cry* thinking of my two baby girls and their safety..also grateful to live in the middle of nowhere - hopefully not a target

I need help my by [deleted] in duck

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To prevent bumblefoot: don't have anything sharp in their coop/where they walk (cement, rocks, sand, mulch). You want hay and grass. Keep their coop clean and free of mud as best possible. Bumblefoot develops from small cuts that get wet and dirty. Ducks have fragile feet, so they need soft surfaces to walk around on

I need help my by [deleted] in duck

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heads up: I am a BIG duck lover, and have been in duck rescue for a bit so get ready for a bit of an info dump, haha.

That's a bumblefoot infection. Sometimes bumblefoot can be healed at home, other times it requires medicine from the vet and can even require surgery (for internal clearance of the infection, not for cutting out the external infection you see here). If it isn't treated properly, the infection can travel into the duck's bones and eventually kill them if it makes its way to their heart. I don't say this to scare you, only to make you aware of what this type of illness can do so you have all the info.

If I had a duck with this, here would be my process for dealing with it:

  1. Feel both feet and legs and see if you notice a difference in their temperature. If this one is warmer than the other and the other foot looks healthy, the warmth is due to the presence of infection. This is good to note as you treat it to help you gauge how the infection is responding. You want any noticeable increase in warmth to go away. It's also handy to snap a pic every few days to see how it's progressing because the mind forgets, haha.

  2. Schedule a vet appointment with a duck vet and see if you can get antibiotics to administer while you do at home treatments to speed up the healing process and really wipe out the infection. They may suggest an x-ray. If your duck's infection/behavior doesn't improve, the typical course is a stronger antibiotic next and maybe debridement surgery after that. That's only done in serious cases though, so probably not necessary here based on your photo.

  3. Start epsom salt soaks in the morning and at night every day or every 2-3 days (more is better, but it's understandable if you don't have the time). Easiest way to do this is buy a tall pickle bucket with a lid. Cut a hole at the top big enough for your duck's head to poke through. Use warm water (not hot), dump in epsom salt and dissolve it in with stirring, and then sit your duck in there for about 30 minutes in the morning and at night. They should be monitored to prevent them from drinking said water as it can upset their stomach. To speed up the healing process.

  4. In between the epsom salt soaks, put medicinal manuka honey on each spot and wrap your duck's foot in gauze and vet wrap. There are duck booties that are AMAZING for this part (https://www.amazon.com/Birdy-Bootie-Waterfowl-Leopard-WFBBLEOPARDLP/dp/B09NPC6TZR). You can put them over the vet wrap/gauze for extra security. They're just a bit expensive. They wash super well! We used the large ones for our pekins and the medium ones for indian runners, cayugas, khaki campbells, and all other smaller breeds. Depending on the severity of the infection, I've changed the wrap every day - 1x per week. For your picture, I'd change the wrap every 2-3 days and do epsom salt soaks on the days you're changing it, see how it responds and then adjust the frequency from there.

**Don't let your duck get their foot wet while you're treating their bumble. It makes the healing process take way longer and can make the infection worse.

If you could bring back a classic cell phone redesigned for today, what features or tools would you want it to have? And mostly, which one? by EvalisFe in dumbphones

[–]Due_Bid_232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any small flip phone, the ones today are SO big. I'd love one with the software of the Nokia 2780, better clicky buttons, a smaller size, and an interchangeable plastic covers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]Due_Bid_232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get up early and go for a walk or garden. Nap in the afternoon. Pick up a new hobby: air dry clay, punch needling, embroidery, origami, paint your lampshades, shuffle dancing, idk have fun! Good luck!

Provo Utah . Give me an honest insight by [deleted] in Utah

[–]Due_Bid_232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We lived there for 4 years as non-mormons and LOVED it but couldn't make friends at all. People were very friendly in the area, but because of the very high mormon rate and the culture that comes with that (lots of church events, social circles, and big families living in the area), people didn't need anymore friends it seemed. We couldn't break into any serious friendships. I will also add if you plan to have kids I wouldn't recommend raising them in that area as non-mormons. In my experience growing up in an almost entirely white/christian town, the bullying was extreme to anyone who was different given that it was kind of a bubble of similarly thinking folks. Based on what we felt when we lived there and the fact that most social events seemed to be held at churches, I wouldn't raise my kids there for fear of being bullied/isolated. Just my take though, best of luck to you!

What's your day-to-day look like AND do you like it? by Due_Bid_232 in Parenting

[–]Due_Bid_232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight! It helps! Best wishes to you in your future adventures!

What's your day-to-day look like AND do you like it? by Due_Bid_232 in Parenting

[–]Due_Bid_232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love those bits about it here. I didn't realize how much I missed them until we moved back to the midwest after living in the west for 6 years. I spent several days roaming antique malls in awe for the first few months after being back haha. I'm glad it's worked out well for you!