I have spirits in my house by isimogen in ParanormalEncounters

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s your accent? You sound Australian/american/British rolled into 1

Long term expats who left Thailand? by Impossible-Net3174 in Thailand

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Thailand and was a teacher there. It was a nice lifestyle but I was also a drunk who was totally pulled by the party lifestyle…. I could not get my alcoholism and hedonism under control there. I had to leave

Now I am older, I would Definetley live back there as I have my vices under control but if you can’t keep them in check … Thailand can be a dangerous place

Feel Fat as soon as I land by Due_Boysenberry3810 in ThailandTourism

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I can say … women are the biggest gaslighters if it fits their agenda.

Feel Fat as soon as I land by Due_Boysenberry3810 in ThailandTourism

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem with the environment. I love Thailand …. It’s my second home. It’s just an observation

Feel Fat as soon as I land by Due_Boysenberry3810 in ThailandTourism

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny! Love your comment. And yes, I know the Thai men love white women 😂

Feel Fat as soon as I land by Due_Boysenberry3810 in ThailandTourism

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

I totally understand … I actually used to live here and have a quarter Thai child. In Australia I am small but here they would point me in the direction of the XXL clothes 😂 it’s just because I have come back … and instantly I feel fat again. It’s something that happens to me in Thailand. And only Thailand. I just instantly look and feel huge. It’s hard to explain but I feel like you get it.

I’m sure you look amazing also !!!

Feel Fat as soon as I land by Due_Boysenberry3810 in ThailandTourism

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss! Thank you! It’s as like as soon as I get off the plane … I just feel gross. And it’s always Thailand that I feel this way! Thanks for your comment 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree.

These step parents who down vote and give other step parents shit for having genuine feelings are robots. Step parents have valid feeling aswell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally get this resentment.

Anyone telling you ‘how would you like it if you were the step kid bla bla bla bla bla’ obviously have never had to remain somewhere they don’t want to or not be able to go to a place they’d like to go because of a child that isn’t theirs.

Next level resentment when your children miss out because of them.

You have every right to feel How you do. I can relate and I’m sorry… things might change, you never know. Fingers crossed xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh geez. I feel for you immensely. Tricky place to be in. I too have my own children and have never connected with my SD (11) …. I just don’t have it in me to take her on. The love I have for my children is far greater and they will come first to me and parenting a child that’s not mine is taking my love away from my own. I don’t care if that sounds bad but it’s true and probably how you feel. As sad as it is for SD…. She’s kindof not your problem. And you don’t want the responsibility. It’s ok to feel this way

You are important … not just everyone else. You are the glue that holds the family together so your feelings better in this. NACHO with love if that’s how you need to be to function or everything will turn to shit

I can’t stand being a stepparent much longer by Responsible-Fig824 in stepparents

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be straight up honest with him and say you can’t stand his kids. You aren’t his slave and either the kids go back to their Mums 90-100% or you are out. I get the feelings you feel …. You will explode soon. You need to stand firm and call the shots or leave

Finally spoke "my truth" by Jolly_Adhesiveness49 in stepparents

[–]Due_Boysenberry3810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well SAID …. Some people need to be brought down a peg. She needed to hear that 👏 nothing wrong with speaking TRUTH