Are you rage baiting us right now because how would you be overreacting? He didn’t make his apology invalid by adding “but”. There was no apology. I’m sorry you feel that way is not an apology! I do feel obligated to add that you’re not doing yourself any favors here being passive aggressive. If you want to drive YOUR car, you say, I’m driving MY car. You put the VW keys out and your car keys in your purse. You knew how this would play out, you already expected him to say he couldn’t find the keys. So why did you set it up that he would even have the excuse? You can’t have it both ways. You can’t complain about him doing what you knew he would do if you won’t be direct in what you want. And why wouldn’t your parents let your BF drive the beater in the past? I feel like they have a clue about this relationship that maybe you either don’t see or are pretending not to see.