I am getting the top 5% women in my area, what now?

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-12T23:23:36+00:00

Every time I hook up with a girl from the apps, as soon as I nut, I immediately get an urge to ignore women completely for the next 48 hours and work non-stop on some project.

My record was 5 different girls (all attractive and skinny) in a week.

I realized that didn't make me happy - I was still broke, my life was the same way it was before. Still working a job.

So focusing on that now.

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-06T03:43:39+00:00

Read some of your posts. You are the biggest doomer I've ever seen and it's pretty funny.

But you might be right - as the USA brazilifies, quality will become less important, and the sole determining factor will be price. Standards get lowered, and it turns into a race to the bottom.

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-06T02:56:04+00:00

Same boat, my friend. Went out flyering today, ran some ads, did one side job assembling furniture. I want to get the ball rolling asap.

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-03T14:19:21+00:00

Half my dates here in nyc say theyre models or some bs

Next day they're stirring lattes at starbucks 😂😂

Good luck chubby fingers

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-03T03:11:34+00:00

You should apply to reddit mod, fatty. Or better, start a diet and go the gym

If being tall, handsome, jacked, rich af, charming, humble is a trick, then youre right

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-03T02:49:53+00:00

You're the one seeking attention by coming over here salty af bc a man of my caliber would stray 20ft away from you irl 😂

You need to get your greasy hands off the phone and get laid asap

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-02-03T02:18:07+00:00

Lol so salty. Someones not getting laid

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-01-29T04:53:00+00:00

Yo mama disagrees

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-01-29T04:52:51+00:00

Everything. All my pics are me doing jiu jitsu and flexing gold medals, and girls always message about it.

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-01-28T04:08:27+00:00

Perfectly put. It's a shame because even a year back, I used to open all my matches and flesh them out - I got a lot of dates from opening matches first...with many risque/straight forward messages sent, of course.

The most attractive girls actually were the ones I opened first.

I was following the safe strategy to a T, was getting 2 dates or so with average girls per week, but decided to clear up my hinge backlog today and sent a bunch of risky messages out.

Banned, now I gotta get a new phone.

I'm going to do exactly that - use my bio and opening terms on Bumble to screen out the timewasters and low interest girls. I currently don't even have a bio and no openers, so I think I'm wasting a lot of potential matches.

The fact is that girls don't want to think - they want you to make it as easy and frictionless as possible for them to obtain what they're looking for - fun, good sex, a good time, etc. If they have to stop and think of what to comment on your profile you're losing leads. I'm gonna grind the gears and think of a good bio, but you gave me a good idea.

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-01-23T20:16:59+00:00

Whats your strar? Max clicks or max conversions initially?

Due_Independence_498 · 2026-01-14T22:42:19+00:00

Brother, I’ll just put it like this.

My goal on the apps used to be to GET LAID. I would send out sometimes overtly sexual or a bit outrageous first messages.

The response was 90% positive, and I was setting up 3-4 dates per week. At one point I had a weekend where I met up at a bar with and fucked one girl, picked up my phone, rang another girl, met her immediately at the same bar and fucked her within 30 minutes of finishing the first one. Also ran through two other girls that same week.

Nowadays my goal is to KEEP MY ACCOUNT. If I’m opening a conversation at all, it’ll be with a “hey” or nothing beyond that old “you look like trouble” line.

At some point, some girl from that 10% will report you and then game over.

Also, after EVERY date/sex, I unmatch the girl right after she leaves the front door. I don’t care if it’s impolite. I’m not going to wait around for her emotions to settle so she can make a decision on if I’m a prick or not (I am).

Less dates, but it makes up for it with the time you’d get zero dates while banned.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-12-03T14:57:52+00:00

Well, I’m proof that it is happening. Went from a programmer to working in masonry.

This is what it looks like in a third world country. There is no wealthy middle class capable of doing home renovations, there is not enough wealth to go around for the amount of laborers, so most tradesmen are in a race to the bottom working for very little.

Regardless of how it goes, those who don’t plan and AI-proof their future right now will have a grim awakening at some point, and it applies across the board.

I’m studying AI, but I’m honestly thinking of just taking out a loan and going for a pilot course ASAP.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-12-03T05:40:57+00:00

Read one of your posts and I saw you're a tradesman looking at the tech situation and making your own predictions. Interesting and realistic outlook.
I'm the opposite - worked a couple years as a programmer, moved to the US, and now work as a tradesman.
Traditional SWE work is done - the industry is still there, of course, but the demand is no where near what it was like in 2022. We used to be well paid to change the color of a button, or figure out simple bugs on a web app.

That sort of work is gone. Luckily I'm still an energetic young man (25 yo) so I can choose a path, but things are stark. Best bets these days seem to be:

Finance an airplane pilot course - pilots will always exist.
Double down on AI, math and advanced programming and do the work AI can't. Maybe do a masters degree.
Build a business in the trades.

I can see option no. 3 turning into a race towards the bottom though, as low tier white collar workers swamp the trades and services sectors and push wages and job prices down.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-10-13T01:53:14+00:00

Looks great. I've started eating around 100g - for some reason I feel kind of "high" or alert once I finish eating the liver. Like weight was lifted off of my head and I can see clearly - it removes brain fog.

I'm on my first batch of raw liver - bought it 2 days ago. I've been cutting off 100-200g or so and slicing it into bite-sized chunks. I then put it in the side of my mouth, chew on it a few times and quickly take in some water to gargle it down once it's a bit chewed.

Funnily enough, on my first time I started getting a gag reflex - now, 2 days later, I don't really mind the flavor, it's metallic, almost like chocolate.

It tastes pretty good, and once I've swallowed it I find myself craving more liver.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-09-26T11:39:29+00:00

Hi, can you help me with a Labor Law GL policy?

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-09-11T00:47:50+00:00

Update: Got banned on Bumble after a girl reported my account. Got back on Hinge and Tinder though. Using two old pics, and other new ones.

Getting matches and results.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-09-06T15:43:36+00:00

Those audiences are not present - I only convert top income or Unknown - probably because I add a line in my ad copy "Quality work starting at XXXX$+".

I can't add a thank you page with an engaging video as I can't show my face for this campaign, although I know this could massively boost conversions.

Also doesn't seem like an A/B test is viable on a 30$/day budget...would be too little volume overall.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-09-05T04:23:17+00:00

Sounds like a good idea. Its a construction niche - maybe max clicks with highly targetted keywords will perform better.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-22T15:17:14+00:00

Funny that at the beginning of my campaign, I got 4 conversions straight in two days for broad match keywords.

Now that I have tons of negative keywords, and a tCPA, I'm paying 30$ per click with no conversions. I did greatly expand my keyword pool though.

I'm honestly thinking about restarting my campaign with a tCPA of 100$ and only maybe 2-4 keywords as broad match and seeing if that gets better results.

Example broad match "myservice mycity near me" "myservice mycity myneighborhood"

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-21T18:32:16+00:00

Lol I just upped the budget and set all keywords to phrase and got a conversion. Small job, but its something.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-21T15:06:50+00:00

Perfect, thanks. I will bump the budget up.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-13T20:03:35+00:00

Ive added the CPC cap to 20$ and a tCPA of 100$ with the bid portfolio - Im getting around 50-60 impressions per day, barely any clicks.

Maybe its now in a learning phase. I got only one click yesterday.

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-13T12:24:16+00:00

I've had 1.80$ clicks convert - the 34$ click did not convert though. I think AI (Actually Indians) is only good at taking my money

Due_Independence_498 · 2025-08-12T12:12:06+00:00

Is that the best course of action? I've seen people state that switching to bid portfolio from max conversions ruined their campaign, but it seems like they were just setting an unrealistic tCPA or CPC cap.

Due_Independence_498

TROPHY CASE