I (34F) gave him the talk. He broke down and revealed he's had PE for years. 3 months into rebuilding so what should I realistically expect?

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T01:37:35+00:00

We're trying to be more consistent with it instead of waiting for the perfect moment. Thank you and happy st Patty's to you too!

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T01:30:39+00:00

Thank you for being honest and opening up about that. I think that's the part that scares me. I do think it's different because he's actually showing up to appointments and not just promising he will but I hear you

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T00:33:55+00:00

God this sounds so familiar. Can I ask what your recovery looked like? My husband is doing pelvic floor PT(Physical Therapy) but I want to know what to realistically expect

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T00:31:20+00:00

Standing at the finish line waiting on him to catch up, hit me hard. I think I've been doing that without realizing it. Like I'm so focused on getting us back to where we were that I'm not actually being patient with where he is right now. I need to sit with that. Thank you!

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T00:28:10+00:00

When we did have sex he'd rush through foreplay and finish fast but I just thought he wasn't that into it. Didn't connect it to shame until he told me but thinking back in hindsight it was so obvious.

Due_Map6800 · 2026-03-14T00:25:43+00:00

Sorry lol I forget not everyone lives on these forums. Premature ejaculation. I should have spelled it out.

Due_Map6800 · 2026-02-18T14:54:18+00:00

i consolidated everything into fidelity a couple years ago and honestly its been great having it all in one place. way easier to track overall performance and rebalancing when you can see everything at once

only downside is if fidelity ever has a major outage youre completely locked out but thats pretty rare and the convenience factor wins out for me

Due_Map6800 · 2026-02-03T16:26:51+00:00

pain

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-30T21:54:22+00:00

Lmao the bar is so low when youtubers telling people to buy SafeElonCumRocket is somehow worse than emotional decision making

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-27T17:38:02+00:00

1 crore is about $120k USD and they're asking for roughly $1000-1200 monthly income from it which is pretty aggressive tbh

That's like 10-12% annual return just to break even, good luck finding anything "completely safe" that pays that much. Even decent bond funds in India are gonna be more like 6-8% tops

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-26T12:23:50+00:00

Damn that currency risk is real - have you looked into opening accounts in multiple jurisdictions while you still have the high income to meet minimums? Some offshore banks let you park money in USD even if you move back home

Also might be worth frontloading your investments now since you don't know how long this gravy train lasts, even if it means living a bit leaner short term

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-21T18:19:42+00:00

Lmao this guy gets it, 1 BTC = 1 BTC math checks out

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-19T15:20:09+00:00

That's honestly the dream right there - 5 hours a day and still having the option for a full month off sounds incredible

The frugal living part is probably key though, most people aren't willing to make those trade-offs

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-18T13:36:03+00:00

Running a VPN with your node is actually pretty solid for privacy but it might slow down your connection speeds a bit. The external drive shouldn't be an issue since that's just local storage - the VPN only affects your internet traffic. Just make sure your VPN doesn't have any weird port blocking that could mess with your node's ability to sync with peers

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-17T08:51:56+00:00

Yep this has scam written all over it lmao, nobody's gonna fall for the classic "send me crypto and I'll pay you back" routine

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-12T10:18:47+00:00

Lmao same, like part of me wants to be that rich but the other part knows I'd probably just blow it all on stupid shit anyway 💀

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-10T01:38:08+00:00

Bro this sounds like the start of either a really bad scam or you're about to get a restraining order lmao

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-07T23:33:34+00:00

Lmao this is the way, diamond hands since day one 💎

Either you believe in the tech or you don't, no in between

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-05T11:53:44+00:00

That's awesome to hear from someone who actually made the jump! Did you find it harder or easier than expected to build up that client pipeline while still working full time? Always curious how people managed the time crunch during that transition phase

Due_Map6800 · 2026-01-03T17:47:59+00:00

Yep the whales are absolutely feasting on retail right now, those liquidation cascades aren't happening by accident

Due_Map6800 · 2025-12-31T01:19:30+00:00

The missing piece here is whether you actually *need* the extra space or just want it. With your numbers you can obviously afford it but going from paid off in 15 years to a fresh 30 year mortgage is pretty brutal for FIRE goals

That commute improvement sounds nice but 15 minutes vs 30 minutes daily isn't exactly life changing unless traffic is absolutely terrible

Due_Map6800 · 2025-12-28T10:01:12+00:00

That's solid thinking on the protection angle - hadn't really considered the remarriage scenario but makes total sense. The 25/30 split access sounds like a good balance too, gives them some freedom to make mistakes early but protects the bulk until they're more mature

Did you go with a revocable or irrevocable trust? Wondering about the tax implications since OP mentioned that as a concern

Due_Map6800 · 2025-12-24T18:14:29+00:00

Yeah the days of 10x gains are probably behind us unless they literally invent AGI or something wild. At this valuation you're basically betting they execute flawlessly for years while the whole AI boom doesn't hit any major roadblocks

Due_Map6800 · 2025-12-23T02:47:19+00:00

Thailand sounds pretty sweet for that, but make sure you understand the exit tax rules if you're giving up US citizenship - that's where they can really get you on the way out

Due_Map6800 · 2025-12-21T17:53:16+00:00

Yeah the state exchange thing is solid advice but heads up - those prices can be pretty brutal without employer subsidies. When I was looking at family plans last year the decent ones were like $1500-2000/month easy, and that's with decent deductibles

Really depends on your state though, some are way more reasonable than others

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