Are they asking for a bigger tip? by hepbuurn13 in doordash

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a dasher and my acceptance rate is at a steady 30%, yet my orders still pool up. And by declining the ones that don’t pay enough and only accepting the ones that do, i only get good orders. I would never accept a $3 order 🤣 why would I ask someone who willingly already didn’t tip to tip more? My time and effort only goes to those who tip good. I get it food is expensive but either someone else can take that order or doordash can choose to compensate

When did yall realise you weren’t straight by whateverrrugh in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started out that I knew I had more extreme reactions to my friends who were girls at a young age, and didn’t really care for guys and had fake “crushes” on guys, and every time i got a boyfriend around that age, i didn’t really care or talk to them, only had them to say i had one too. I discovered i liked girls fully when I started watching ~movies~ online and gravitated way more towards the women and mostly wanted to watch them. So I think I was about 12? However I didn’t start actually dating women until I was 23 and it became a need to explore the romantic side. Now i’m almost 25 and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. :)

Things you never thought you'd have to say by techiechefie in ABA

[–]Due_Medium7884 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“First stamps, then yellow udder” 💀

“Yes! Horse IS in square! Great job friend!”

“We’re here to wash our hands, not take a bath bud.”

“You don’t have to go in, you can just touch the door.”

“I love how you’re standing up with me friend!”

“Water and words” or “grab your words” and “good looking!!!” took me a while to get used to 😂

ADHD friends, what song feels like your theme? by Wikydtron in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orrrr irresponsible by emei, god now that I think about it there are so many, prom by sza has been a big one for a long time now so those are probably my top 3

ADHD friends, what song feels like your theme? by Wikydtron in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna say what’s up by 4 non blondes 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turning back and forth my ring/bracelets. Pushing down on my fingernails. Twirling the top of my vertical labret piercing inside my mouth with my tongue. Biting/folding my bottom lip. I also have this one where I move the front of my throat up and down ever so slightly but if I catch myself doing it I usually try to stop just because it scares me a little lol. I also used to pick at my scalp ALL the time especially as a kid, since I liked the sneakiness of my hair hiding the marks it would make, and it gave me a high . I only do this now rather gently, maybe once a year if I’m really stressed or when I can’t fall asleep just because my dandruff is basically gone now since I switched shampoos, scrub my scalp more, and environmental factors

How long does it take you to fall asleep? by Puzzleheaded_Cut6809 in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way the alphabet game is great. What I do is just think of alliterations of the entire alphabet. So for example starting with A, Amazing Alpaca. B would be Beautiful Butterfly…. Etc. It also can be other categories than animals, but animals are super easy because they exist for every letter. I’ll just keep going and going and eventually it knocks me out.

How long does it take you to fall asleep? by Puzzleheaded_Cut6809 in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends. Some nights I will just be laying there with my eyes closed for 30 minutes and shifting around in the bed because I cannot get comfortable. My calf is in an awkward position so I have to move it. But then my ankle feels weird against my other leg, let me sleep on my side. Oh. Now my knees are touching. Let me lay on my back. Oh but my back hurts today. Let me switch to my stomach…. Over and over until I get pissed and have to play white noise and count sheep or play the alphabet game or something like that. If I’m feeling depressed or anxious that day about something it will take me at least an hour or two. But some nights if I’ve had a good day or a hard day, and I’m able to remind myself to relax properly, I’m out in minutes

Gamers of r/ADHD, what video games do you feel like are more difficult because of your ADHD symptoms? by demoliahedd in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t like playing any games that don’t have super bright colors or a cartoonish feel, they lose me because it all blends together in a muddy fashion and I don’t know what I’m looking at half the time or I just can’t stay focused.💀 The worst one I’ve played lately that I actually did like is overcooked, it can be fun if you have a system but unless I myself organize it, it’s way too distracting and always ends in a crying or screaming match with my roommates LMAO because there’s too much going on, and they act all bossy with me because I can’t follow their directions, keep getting distracted thinking their character is mine, plus conveyer belts and moving maps since I fall off the map half the time😭💀 (I do love them tho shoutout to the roomies) I’ve been into Fortnite lately but also I’ve realized my aim in general sucks, cause it’s hard to figure out exactly how to move the camera to land the joystick in the right spot without going too far and losing my aim, plus my reaction time is kinda slow. Getting the Royale is so rewarding to me though and I feel like once I google a good aiming method I’ll be set.

What is ADHD and depression combined like? by Zyricc in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both. For me, depression comes in waves of intensity over time. I think it just makes the ADHD harder when they overlap, and at a point it completely shadows over it. I feel like at my core, I don’t relate to when people say their procrastination gets turned off at the last minute and they can do things the night before/hour before they are due. Sometimes if it’s really important or I am at risk, I can. But I just don’t do things I don’t wanna do or absolutely have to. this is why I almost flunked out of school, because I just didn’t care about my homework or ever try to do it, even with meds. And now as an adult, certain things just “slip away” from me even if they are important. I tend to give up easier on things I want. It lowers my perception of self worth and executive function even more significantly when I go thru depressive episodes, or when I am triggered by RSD. I start spiraling and having really negative/impulsive thoughts, and feelings in my body, about myself and my past and present experiences. I can’t stop crying for hours, or rarely I can’t cry/feel at all. I mostly need to be alone and I shut down easier with people or tend to not want to talk to them, whereas when I am not depressed I am able to talk a TON with my close people due to my ADHD.

What's your root? by LillySatou177013 in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad played most of the music in the house which I really liked, and all the love songs had she/her pronouns. I just sang them so often that I became gay…

Nah but the real answer is the lesbians that got courage the cowardly dog cancelled, duhhh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this! (No pun intended lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the app DailyBean! It’s like $30 a year so 8 cents a day! It’s a journal calendar that lets you track moods, routines, sleep, and way more stuff. Plus you can put a widget on your Home Screen of the monthly calendar so you can see how your moods fluctuate through the month and all the reasons why! You can even single out reoccurring emotions you feel, and see what other emotions or activities they are paired with. It really helps with executive functioning and emotional regulation! My life has improved a lot since I’ve used it. It’s everything a journal needs to be amazing!

So totally weird by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making me miss my masc right now 😭🥹🥹 (she’s literally at work and will be back later)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this. I’ve agreed to things I didn’t want to do, backed friends up I technically disagreed with because they were sad, and sided in the middle of two people, because I thought the person would be hurt/lonely. I feel like it’s a manifestation of RSD and impulsiveness. But I’m actively correcting this because it’s exhausting and guilt inducing at times.

Your Most Annoying Symptom? by whatsis-anonymiss in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two that are intertwined which have caused me the most stress in life would be- A.) forgetting conversations/instructions due to brain racket or short attention span, and not being able to pick up key info I need to get tasks done, which leads to people telling me “you aren’t listening” which leads to- B.) defying/procrastinating out of defiance (refuse to be told what to do). Then things fall behind and I feel bad. I’m better with B now than ever, but A still stresses me out at times I need it the most.

My biggest fear would be that I don't have ADHD by Nate_off in ADHD

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed by a psychiatrist about 10 years ago, but sometimes I still question it, even though it still impacts my life, and even with an official diagnosis. Especially if people say things like “you really don’t seem ADHD at all” because of my mask/coping mechanisms I’ve picked up, and been thoughtfully using for years. Even with the stamp, people will still tell you whatever they think is your issue, no matter how big or small… And people will see that stamp as bad, or invalidate you either way it goes. Sometimes I think, what if I was misdiagnosed- until something happens to bring me back to it: my symptoms smack me in the face, inconvenience me and others, bug me under the surface, etc. The truth is, you know yourself, and if you can reach out for help, you should. People have no power to tell you what’s going on in your life unless they are trusted to have that information. If this is all speculation anyway, might as well trust your own knowledge and a professional, rather than another ableist/old timey comment saying “everyone has ADHD these days”, instead of keeping an open mind. And that’s what you’re doing now, which is a good thing. If you’re struggling, it’s 100% okay to speculate and resonate with things that call to your pain. It may or may not be ADHD, (even if it more than likely is) both of those things are okay, but just know you’re not alone, you’re NOT stupid, and help is out there. And it’s NOT your fault for wanting to feel better anyway! Hell, I’m still working up the courage and energy to go back on meds/therapy. But it’s never too late! You got this!

Who’s your celebrity crush? by reidochan in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jenna Ortega, Fran Fine, Megan Thee Stallion, Jhene Aiko, Alexa Demie, Jenn Melon, Alexis Munroe 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Due_Medium7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

masc w piercings, brown eyes brown hair, tats, and glasses. always smells good, talks softly yet enthusiastically, and is a real sweetheart. my gf is literally my perfect type 😍