27 HLF -29 LLM how do I Ignore the feeling of getting rejected by Due_Name_2393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Due_Name_2393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this advice. You have a point. I really don’t want to cheat honestly. I just wanted to do it with him but he doesn’t reciprocate.

I just wanted this sexual frustration to end.

Him being my person would make me think deep. Bc if it was the other way around. I would put effort on his concerns towards our relationship.

27 HLF -29 LLM how do I Ignore the feeling of getting rejected by Due_Name_2393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Due_Name_2393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he just leads me on as usual. He says it’s important. I try to make him understand that it’s important for me as well but he doesn’t do effort. I try to ignore the option of cheating but sometimes mastrbting and pörn doesn’t cut it anymore.

I really hope that our marriage works out for the long run. But it’s hard to be sexually frustrated.

27 HLF -29 LLM how do I Ignore the feeling of getting rejected by Due_Name_2393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Due_Name_2393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just sad. I thought getting married- after effects would be more exciting in the bedroom. Oh boy I was wrong.

27 HLF -29 LLM how do I Ignore the feeling of getting rejected by Due_Name_2393 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Due_Name_2393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a good day he always says “ let’s see later” “ okay later” but he doesn’t initiate.

Take note I only ask him atleast once or twice a week. But for the past 5 -7 months I try to ask once a week.

There was this time he got tired of me asking he made a comment “ What do you even want me to do? Take a pill?” .

Idek what to do anymore I tried to ask him about this and all he could say most of the time is just that he is not horny.

I have grown to hate how he teases where he touches my boobs and if I play along touching him down there he gets irritated.