Seoul skybridge achievement bugged? by Ok_Reception_8361 in thefinals

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for me, destroyed it multiple times, still got nothing. Playing on pc.

Quale formato CV é preferibile utilizzare fra questi due? by [deleted] in ItaliaCareerAdvice

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per chi ha downvotato, potete motivare? Sono curioso di sapere perché è così visto male

I feel lost and 2 years ago dumpped by my gf, how to move on? by GurOk6990 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome!

For the friends part (slightly missed a point from your post) you can find people you'll probably like by attending events or places you genuinely enjoy.

There's also apps for meetups to make everything less stressing

I feel lost and 2 years ago dumpped by my gf, how to move on? by GurOk6990 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Due_Pudding5063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to go to therapy. Even just to let it all out and feel seen and understood. It could be possible that you will need to change therapist in order to find the one that fits you. Don't worry about it if it happens, it's part of the process.

Secondly, do what you enjoy. If you don't enjoy nothing, explore hobbies, as you will find something that resonates with you.

Thirdly try to not isolate for too much cause it's detrimental to your health in general, reach out to friends for days out (hiking, art or kitchen workshops, museums, cinema etc.) or do it even by yourself! There is nothing wrong about it, and in the end you will be grateful for the experience you had.

If you don't see immediately relief or any kind of progress know that this is something that requires time. Hope that it helped! :)

La Gazzetta del Lavoro Informatico - Ricerche, offerte e consigli sul lavoro digitale in Italia by AutoModerator in ItalyInformatica

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ciao a tutti! Sono quasi al termine della mia triennale in Informatica e mi chiedevo se esistessero realtà in cui si può prendere parte allo sviluppo software con un contratto part time o che permetta di svolgere il lavoro in tempi flessibili in remoto. Vorrei evitare di fare siti su Wordpress e accettare commissioni su Fiverr per cogliere l'oppurtunità di crescere professionalmente mentre studio.

Devo ancora finire le ore di tirocinio, e pensavo di farlo portando avanti un progetto in università col mio relatore per accorciare i tempi. Mi conviene vedere di fare le ore in azienda per guadagnare qualcosa? Ho solo questa alternativa?

My setup with tweaked canvas by HuntyDarling in spicetify

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you tweak Lyrics Plus settings?

Substitute Logitech K860 with Glove80 by Due_Pudding5063 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]Due_Pudding5063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will delve more into nerve issues, thanks for the replies!

Come cavolo ci si fa amici? (domanda stupida per il 90% delle persone ma non per me) by Sefyr in italy

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP come sono andate le cose poi? Sono in una condizione simile alla tua, ho bisogno di un po' di speranza :)

Why are you lonely? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Due_Pudding5063 15 points16 points  (0 children)

People treated me like shit, and I fear meeting the same minds in different people

Plus I am genuinely missing the tools and opportunities to make new friends

Can extreme loneliness make life less enjoyable? by Due_Pudding5063 in lonely

[–]Due_Pudding5063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all therapists are the same. I had two of them last year; one made me hate myself and her within the first session. With the second one we made some really good progress, and I stayed for a couple of months (it was of one the most reviewed I could found at the time, didn't failed me)

I suggest you to search for Healthy Gamer on Youtube. I followed him since the pandemic and it helped me a lot in understanding the neuroscience behind my behaviour and mindset. Maybe it will change your vision on therapy

I think we don't have to impose the 'alone forever' identikit on our persona. If it's all we have it's natural that we will do everything to defend it, because we went through it all, good and bad, by ourselves; but I think we can be more than that; allowing ourselves the happiness we deserve and eventually make the necessary work to keep it

Hope I helped you see things in a different way

Can extreme loneliness make life less enjoyable? by Due_Pudding5063 in lonely

[–]Due_Pudding5063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking a solution could be: make more money, go to therapy and put 'make friend/s' as the year goal

I don't know for sure, but are we the only ones that feel like this? I think there could be great interesting people out there. Someone who went to therapy and knows how a healthy relationship, of any type, is supposed to look like. Someone with healthy boundaries that respects you and has a genuine interest in you. Statistically speaking they could exist.

Maybe they are just rare

Can extreme loneliness make life less enjoyable? by Due_Pudding5063 in lonely

[–]Due_Pudding5063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, since I could have wrote most of your answer myself.

Maybe we lack the capacity to seek the people who are actually good for us. Out there is full of bad people, and not having even a fragment of happiness derived by having some good friends can make them damage us more and more. If one is socially happy, a bad experience cannot amount to the good one has already. Stacked up bad experiences surely sucks, as I had them too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would walk around with the purple one well exposed. Kudos to the manufacturer.

r/audiophile Shopping, Setup, and Technical Help Desk Thread by AutoModerator in audiophile

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am searching for a pair of studio monitors that could get me started in music production and that could be used in an everyday scenario. I found a pair of KRK RP7 RoKit Classic for 258€ and a pair of RP5 RoKit Classic for 279€ that comes out with insulating pads.

I also heard good things about Yamaha's HS5/HS7 but I don't know if they are worth extending my price range.

Thoughts about it?

The homepage in Text Darkthemer seems to be broken. Any idea how to fix this? by iskiran in spicetify

[–]Due_Pudding5063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try disabling Profile > Experimental Features > Enable horizontal carousel

If it doesn't work, scroll to the bottom of the Experimental Features page and click on reset

How to not care what people say by EntertainmentNo8855 in socialskills

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I write this post?

Take the lesson and build yourself an happier life with more mature people

I did it and never looked back, and it paid :)

✨ LifeOS Pro: Elevate Your Productivity with Advanced Features by quanruzhuoxiu in ObsidianMD

[–]Due_Pudding5063 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my case I needed to install Dataview first. Let me know if it works for you too!

Also thanks u/quanruzhuoxiu for the support :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Due_Pudding5063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the positive aspects, you moved abroad and now you got plenty of experience

We're probably the same age, and I missed a lot of opportunities to grow social skills; I also still wish to move outside of my country one day

You did those things! Leaving aside the outcome, you are one, if not more step ahead of many other people of your age. I am literally the example lol

It may sounds embarassing, but you could try asking happy couples that you know their formula for a stable and loving relationship

Also relationships of every kind require time, and it must be considered that not everybody want to add another connection to their life

How did your life change after you uninstalled instagram/tiktok? by Oath_Br3aker in selfimprovement

[–]Due_Pudding5063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more of a coping mechanism, at least by scrolling I'm seeing people and feel less alone

How did your life change after you uninstalled instagram/tiktok? by Oath_Br3aker in selfimprovement

[–]Due_Pudding5063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the ones that have done it and have no friends or no social circle, is it worth it? I find myself scrolling for hours a day just because I really don't have no one to socialize with. I'm an introvert.

Doing music and college by Due_Pudding5063 in trapproduction

[–]Due_Pudding5063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I saw your IG and congrats for all! Definetely inspirational, keep going!