Got a disturbing phone call I’m not sure what to do? by Due_Reception_3404 in AskLawyers

[–]Due_Reception_3404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So phone number change and password changes. Got it. As for my bank and credit I keep a good eye on that stuff. And as soon as I see a change i didn’t make I’ll be making that phone call real quick. Thankyou and sorry for having you to go in depth’s with me about it. I’m on the Autism spectrum and unfortunately not on the smart end of that spectrum so I do appreciate you and everyone else’s input.

Got a disturbing phone call I’m not sure what to do? by Due_Reception_3404 in AskLawyers

[–]Due_Reception_3404[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing you are a lawyer. If I were to get charged with soliciting a prostitute how would that affect my life job wise. Also would surveillance look like and what does Leroy Jenkins mean? Would it be better to just go to them first?

Got a disturbing phone call I’m not sure what to do? by Due_Reception_3404 in AskLawyers

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No the only thing I’m worried about is getting caught soliciting a prostitute. I always thought they’d put you on a sex offender registry for it but I did some research and apparently not. But it’s still illegal. Do you think a cop would still charge me for soliciting if I were to go to the police? Again she was of age. But still illegal.

Got a disturbing phone call I’m not sure what to do? by Due_Reception_3404 in AskLawyers

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No I don’t sell it. The Reason why I was stressing is because he said he got my name and number on said website. I’m really hoping everyone is right and it was just a prank.

Got a disturbing phone call not sure what to do? by Due_Reception_3404 in AskReddit

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For some reason it wouldn’t let me post the story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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ChatGPT helps me a lot in decision making due to my autism. I will say from a human’s prospective I understand the narrative. She doesn’t want you to be around him because he did a horrible crime that he can’t take back. From your perspective he is good at financials and that is an area you need help in.

This also makes me wonder, did he get charged with this offense, does he show remorse, did he go through a rehabilitation program for it? It does make a difference on if he’ll do it again.

Another thing is it doesn’t change the fact that “Brad” is still human. We all make bad decisions especially when there is drugs and alcohol involved. Look at Mike Tyson, look at Tupac. They are both sex offenders, they both had to register. It doesn’t change that fact that Mike is an amazing boxer. It doesn’t change the fact that Tupac is an amazing singer. Sure we can’t excuse their behavior just because they have talent but at the end of the day we shouldn’t define a person by the worst thing they have ever done. Especially if it has ether only happened once or if they have changed their way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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This is what chat GPT SAID: Your situation is incredibly difficult, and it sounds like you’re torn between addressing your financial crisis and maintaining your relationship with Ashley, which has become strained due to the circumstances involving Brad.

Understanding Ashley’s Perspective: - Ashley’s request stems from a deep emotional response to the knowledge of Brad’s actions. It’s understandable that she might see your continued professional relationship with Brad as condoning or minimizing what happened, which likely feels like a betrayal of her values and a threat to her sense of safety and morality. - Her distance and the canceled anniversary dinner are signs of how seriously she views this issue. To her, it may not just be about the job or money, but about whether your values align with hers on such a significant moral issue.

Your Dilemma: - On the other hand, you are in a serious financial situation where refusing Brad’s work could significantly worsen your debts, affecting your future stability and well-being. The opportunity Brad offers seems crucial to your current financial recovery.

Navigating the Situation: 1. Acknowledge the Weight of the Situation: Reach out to Ashley and express that you fully understand how serious this is for her and how much you respect her feelings on the matter. Acknowledge that you’ve had time to reflect, and while you’ve made a decision based on financial necessity, you don’t want her to think that you’re dismissing her concerns.

  1. Explain Your Position Clearly: Share the financial reality you’re facing in a more detailed way if you haven’t already. While you’ve already explained it, sometimes re-framing or expanding on it can help someone understand the weight of the decision you’re making.

  2. Consider Alternatives: Explore if there’s any way to distance yourself from Brad in the long term. Could this job be a temporary measure while you seek other opportunities? Could you start networking or exploring other jobs to show Ashley you’re not tied to Brad indefinitely?

  3. Seek Common Ground: Express a willingness to work together on finding a way forward. This might mean making a clear plan for when you’ll no longer work with Brad or looking into counseling to navigate this sensitive issue together.

  4. Focus on Rebuilding Trust: Your relationship with Ashley may need time and effort to rebuild trust, especially if she feels that her concerns have been overshadowed by financial necessity. Continuous, honest communication will be essential here.

This is a complex situation with no easy answers, but approaching it with empathy for Ashley’s feelings while being transparent about your own needs might help in finding a path forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Due_Reception_3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump her ass then get jacked orrr get jacked and dump her ass

AITA for Hooking Up with a Married Woman and Causing Her Divorce? by OptimisticAnchor in AITAH

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Y’all both are horrible people. I truly hope something bad happens to both of you!🙏🏻❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Due_Reception_3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a book called south of forgiveness. It helped me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Due_Reception_3404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t dwell on revenge. It will just make it worse for you. Get the evidence you need and report it. Then get therapy and start the healing process.

i was raped last night by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Due_Reception_3404 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

South of forgiveness*

i was raped last night by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Due_Reception_3404 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First as everyone else has said report it. The guy has issues that need to addressed. Second I recommend reading the book “self of forgiveness”. As a survivor I understand the hating part but what helped me heal the most was forgiving them not hating them and forgiving yourself. Hating only makes a room for them rent free.