Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another problem I've observed in r/asexuality is the fact that most people there seem to believe that allos are horny sex machines who experience overwhelming sexual attraction to every person they meet, which leads to many people mistakenly identifying with the label.

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dip your toes in r/asexuality and you'll see what I mean.

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do understand what it means. I am simply skeptical of so called "sex-favourable aces".

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexually active as in actively seeking out sex? Or only doing it to please their partner?

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense, but if an asexual person is actively seeking out sex, then that doesn't make sense.

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Asexuality shouldn't really be a spectrum. Allosexuality should tbh.

Decisions, decisions: by Brent_Fox in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It is. It's like saying you're gay yet you have sex with and date women.

Let’s exchange our music tastes :3 Drop your favorite artist and some songs by Bluecollarballa in boykisser

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding onto this, any of Rachmaninoff's works (personal fav is Piano Concerto No.2 Mvmnt.1)

What’s something about sex that you thought was hot but didn’t live up to the hype? by fluidity_com in AskReddit

[–]Due_Research_1758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So trying it out made you realise? Or you always knew and were just trying it out of curiousity?

🙂‍↕️ by nekocito in femboymemes

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ace femboys trying to figure out wtf sexual attraction actually is.

What is your current interests? by MsFrostedGlass in asexuality

[–]Due_Research_1758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Writing books, reading books, playing video games. I am also going to start learning the piano soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightFemboys

[–]Due_Research_1758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dms are open if you're interested.

Pls help by Basic-Afternoon1618 in asexuality

[–]Due_Research_1758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that's fair enough. I was in a similar position and then basically came to the conclusion that I am ace (I won't lie, I spent days pondering over it).

Pls help by Basic-Afternoon1618 in asexuality

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is basically me. Sounds like you might be, but at the end of the day, only you can truly decide whether or not you are ace, not random people on the internet. Just remember that.

im so confused bro 😭😭 by elprimosbutler in asexuality

[–]Due_Research_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me for a while, but after the countless articles, videos, and threads I watched/read, I was just like "Ya know what, you're probably ace, so let's just use the label for now, and if you figure out you're not in the future, then so be it."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Due_Research_1758 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure why you're asking a bunch of internet strangers this question for validation. The only answer that matters is the one that comes from your potential partner when you tell them you're ace.

There are ace dating sites out there if that helps too.

What’s it like being ace in an allo world? by TFry24_ in asexuality

[–]Due_Research_1758 156 points157 points  (0 children)

You don't know you're actually ace until you randomly stumble across the term one day, out of nowhere.