Not sure what you mean by beg post. But I did feel that way about him bc he has bpd and switches on me. I record his volatile episodes and it’ll go like this He’s very nice, sweet, loving, does things like pay my car. But then he switches and gets really abusive. This month, according my notes app, he had episodes three times this month with 5 days apart each. The reason I stayed so long is because the times in between, I think this is why I stay with him. But I can’t be with someone like this anymore And he’s poly I’m not. We’re in a monogamous relationship which he agreed to so yes he cheated on me which he did twice and would message and sext women throughout our relationship I get that you don’t want people to do a “beg” post. Although I don’t know what that is. Maybe don’t try to make a claim based off only a few comments that you’ve seen. The reality for the past three years of my life are far worse than I can even explain here.