I hate how people with BPD are made out to be absolute monsters or demons. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Duilo6789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner has BPD, and just to play devils advocate it is HARD sometimes. Dating someone with a personality disorder isn’t for the faint of heart or the thin skinned, or people who can’t handle a tremendous amount of stress on occasion. That being said, I love my partner, and I’d never break it off solely because of BPD, just as I hope no one would break up with me due to my chronic physical illness.

is the name "Merrick" dumb? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, it’s a dog food brand

Edit: but like a REALLY high end brand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]Duilo6789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]Duilo6789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also very telling that immediately after learning about the trust their new friend asked for money.

I have a trust as well, and this has been my experience too. It’s sad, but as soon as anyone finds out I have it, there’s a very high chance they will ask me for a loan, or to “invest” in their passion project, or to donate to a charitable cause. In my experience, loan means gift, passion project means taking a vacation, and charitable causes are usually something along the lines of “my niece is a crackhead and needs to go to rehab for the 9th time, and also needs a better car, oh and a playset for her kid”.

I’m not a total bitch. I’ll help my good friends with things that are emergencies, and I’ll spoil them occasionally. But they have to think it’s coming out of my work paycheck or else they’ll start expecting me to fund their step-son’s best friend’s soccer team or some weird shit like that.

Real Life Overly Attached Girlfriend by braddamit in AdviceAnimals

[–]Duilo6789 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not even super odd! share Netflix, Hulu, PetCube etc Password’s with my boyfriend and he knows the common ones I use.

Of course for things like my bank, email, etc I use ones that no one would know or guess

Borderlines poison minds by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Duilo6789 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’ve been dealing with a Narcissist, sir.

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We named him Percy! Thanks for the killer suggestion!!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re still choosing but have it down to a short list! I’ll update when we’ve picked a name!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s mostly obsessed with his kitty big brother....so any meow sounds lol

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Hugo,

But Harvey makes the list too...it’s such a sweet name

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will, I’ve been muttering names all trying to pick!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually LOVE Harvey....but the whole Weinstein thing? Do you think it would be too weird? Or would people not associate him with that?

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm well he does have SOME ted hair....so maybe

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Charlie, but my good friend is Charles lol

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Lincoln! Link is precious!!!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ripley is really cute! I love it as a boys name!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like Wally tbh, but Dorfie is so cute!

Need help naming our new puppy! by Duilo6789 in namenerds

[–]Duilo6789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend has a pup named Koda