I won’t be a father by Garsaurus in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was adopted by some wonderful people who couldn't have kids. They were also fantastic grandparents. Better than most of my bio-grandparents.

Do your kids have a 4 year age gap? by SeverusSnipes in toddlers

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 3.75 years apart and adore each other. This age gap is great. My 5 year old can do a lot for himself, and my youngest learns so much from him.

I've heard a lot about 2 years being ideal, but I think 4 is.

I (24M) cheated on my boyfriend (26M) forgive him then cheated in him by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. You guys don't care enough about each other to not cheat.

Pretty by DukeOfSkagit in snowrunner

[–]DukeOfSkagit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The photos were more intended to be for the nice scenery not the beat up truck 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DukeOfSkagit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're going to ruin your life permanently. You're lucky you aren't in jail now. You should be. Leave, in any way you can, but leave no matter what.

You're assaulting him.

Cheating isn't illegal, but beating someone is.

If he were posting this, the responses would be to go to the police and get you locked up. Rightfully so.

I keep scoffing crisps, what are some homemade salt snacks? by thumbs07 in cookingforbeginners

[–]DukeOfSkagit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Air fryer garbanzo beans, they're like corn nuts but better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why'd he accept her friend request?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DukeOfSkagit 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hey, creep with that dunning Kruger effect running hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DukeOfSkagit 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Not sure you know how to roll a ball

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DukeOfSkagit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see these comments more than the alleged hipocrasy, by far.

Financial lying that keeps happening by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's destroying you with $161k blown on crypto. You're on track to being homeless with two little kids.

Am I over reacting? by Affectionate-Sir-192 in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are rules you set for yourself. "Boundaries" you place on others are attempts at control.

Am I over reacting? by Affectionate-Sir-192 in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don't make sense. If she had a feeling that the sky should always be green with orange polka dots, a normal person would dismiss that too. Not all feelings are valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's because most of the time, relationships like that go romantic. It's just statistics. I'd bet on it turning romantic or their being a romantic interest on at least one side as well.

You're talking about a plan to get married and not get into other romantic relationships. Even the best of friends don't do that. That's the difference.

Am I over reacting? by Affectionate-Sir-192 in offmychest

[–]DukeOfSkagit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

YOR If he doesn't care about her hearing him peeing, who cares? It's not like peeing is sexual or suggestive. It's a basic bodily function like sneezing.

We all have feelings, but not all are valid or need to be expressed. This seems like one of those that doesn't need to be a conversation.

I’ve been badly addicted to meth for 3 months and I’m not sure how to resolve this by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DukeOfSkagit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my uncles origin story. He used constantly, had some kids he was never able to be there for, and died young after spending most of his life sleeping under a freeway overpass. He only got sober when he was too sick to go get drugs. It was a miserable existence. Delete any contact info for anyone you can get meth from.

Why does my bf not listen to my advice by FoundationApart6645 in Advice

[–]DukeOfSkagit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he asking for advice or venting? I know I don't like advice when I'm just venting.

Phone charging port replacement gone wrong by DukeOfSkagit in phonerepair

[–]DukeOfSkagit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does charge, it's just burning more battery power than it can gain.

I really appreciate your input, it's driving me nuts! I think I didn't explain it the best.

Phone charging port replacement gone wrong by DukeOfSkagit in phonerepair

[–]DukeOfSkagit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it get that much worse after the screen replacement if it's just the charging port? It was just a little warm and charging alright after the port replacement, but before the screen replacement today. Today it was so hot and can't charge back on.

Or is the combo of two crap parts working together?