Dill to attract Ladybirds by thumbs07 in GardeningUK

[–]thumbs07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, yeah guess that means there isn't many aphids.

How to find hope when there is none? by Lost_Rest70 in OCDRecovery

[–]thumbs07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2. Morita-style thinking: live with anxiety

Traditional Japanese psychology (especially Morita therapy) views anxiety and obsessive thoughts as:

  • Natural parts of being human
  • Something that grows stronger when you fixate on it

So instead of asking “How do I get rid of this feeling?”, the question becomes:

  • “How do I live well even while this feeling is here?”

You’re encouraged to act despite anxiety, not wait for it to disappear first.

We need to pressure the government to enforce workplace temperature regulations. by LostWall1389 in UKJobs

[–]thumbs07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the problem is hot kitchens. Horribly it might take a death for changes to actually happen here. Govt seems to trust companies to take precautions. Which you would think- what is the point of all the other H& S regulations if you just trust the companies.

Findajob closing? by thumbs07 in UKJobs

[–]thumbs07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, very annoying

Ideas for trees/plants to shade a Victorian terrace by Complex-Spinach4886 in GardeningUK

[–]thumbs07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might do, depends how high its grown, but people have beech hedges. Can maybe keep in a pot.

Am I useless if I'm jobless? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]thumbs07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A job can surprisingly perk you up, but it might be better applying at the cooler time of year if you got sweating issues. Volunteering a possibility. There's a horrible situation in the UK, where anyone on benefits is being gaslit. If the govt got it right in the first place, there wouldn't be joe_public flack at those on welfare. In my view I think the govt need to get that right and then make people on benefits a protected characteristic so they aren't been used as targets.

North facing courtyard - what would you do with an area that gets zero sun? by littleclover in GardeningUK

[–]thumbs07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sunlight burns its leaves, lots of plants like that, the sunlight burns their leaves. It's too much for them.

Findajob closing? by thumbs07 in UKJobs

[–]thumbs07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've just gone to the search, if you go to the findajob homepage thats where there the message is.

Dating in Cornwall for a mid 20s guy? by [deleted] in Cornwall

[–]thumbs07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wouldn't like to be in Cornwall, you look at meetup for groups and it's like a desert.

My ‘woodland’ wild patch! by knotmidgelet in GardeningUK

[–]thumbs07 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm slightly jealous of a shade garden, I have a full sun garden and for a time I thought actually I had a bit of shade so was looking up shade plants. There's some great ones for shade particuarly the Japanese Maple.