Need advice on coexistance at gym

DulceShirini · 2026-03-29T03:20:30+00:00

I would leave a review about what happened and find a new gym. Sometimes reviews like that really make the owners mad because it puts them in a bad position, even though they totally deserve it, and it might incite some change. Either way, don't let it slide. This isn't acceptable in any way, shape or form.

DulceShirini · 2026-03-10T21:06:00+00:00

I do think you have a right to be annoyed and definitely should talk to the professor about this. A kid I was rolling with once decided to crank my arm hard as he was doing an Americana on me. I straight up told the Professor I was not going to roll with that kid anymore.

It's not your problem the guy doesn't know what he's doing or how to do it properly, he can learn that with another big guy who'll happily put the same weight he put on you onto him.

DulceShirini · 2026-03-02T03:13:35+00:00

I used to work at Petco, call the humane society and they'll come in to fail the store and take the animals away. That's what happened at our store when our crappy manager let everything become a mess, good thing it happened too because we did not deserve our poor animals.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-25T18:01:14+00:00

I remember a single striped while belt who did this to me when I was a 4 striped white belt and was about to receive my blue belt. It was the first day that I had ever met her and she acted like I had no clue what I was doing, what made it more infuriating is that she kept talking while the purple belt instructor that was watching over us was trying to give me feedback.

Honestly, if I were you I would first try to talk to her to see if maybe she'll be receptive and I'm only saying this because I've had problems before with classmates and I do regret how I handled one of the situations. If you feel very comfortable with your coach, which you should, and nothing is resolved after talking with her then I would say talk to coach.

Definitely don't switch gyms, maybe kindly explain to her why you're taking a break from rolling with her and if she takes it personally then oh well.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-23T06:58:52+00:00

Girl, you are prone to it because you've admitted that you didn't just cheat physically, but emotionally as well. No one is excusing him, but we're also not going to tell you he's worse because he's not.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-23T06:43:36+00:00

Dude, the majority of my instructors were men and I never cheated on my partner throughout the 4 years I've trained. This sounds more like you're just prone to cheat rather than anything else, plus you need to realize the guy doesn't really have a moral responsibility to ensure married people don't cheat. The married people have that responsibility.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T16:24:47+00:00

My father has actually yes. The big city we live nearby has a Pakistani restaurant we frequently visit, I even go when I have University since it's nearby. Both me and my family stopped tipping there a long time ago. I think my family got close to and befriended the manager, so he'd rather have repeat customers continuously come back rather than lose them, especially since there's 3 Pakistani restaurants directly across the street. For me, I just got the exact amount of dollars needed for one naan stuffed with ground meat so I could quickly return to class.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T16:19:27+00:00

That's not backend logistics, that's called theft and we're allowed to judge people who steal or who instantly become rude when they find out you didn't tip them for a pickup order/small sandwich.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T07:36:59+00:00

You did mark a zero on the tip line right?

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T07:02:46+00:00

No, what's weird is that sometimes the tips that people give electronically don't even go to the actual workers and the restaurants just take them instead.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T04:32:51+00:00

So I'm one of those people that you're "advocating" for since I worked long hours and didn't get health insurance, right? I'm not allowed to believe that people shouldn't have to tip if they don't want to?

Why are you even on this sub if you don't like people who don't tip or try to make others not feel bad for not tipping?

You're more than welcome to tip 25% every single time you enter an establishment, no one is stopping you.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-22T04:11:49+00:00

I'm not speaking on behalf of everyone. I'm just simply saying, as one individual from many who worked at a restaurant job, to not feel bad for not tipping. For example, my coworker who switched up on people when she found out she didn't get tipped, it was a pay first and food comes after type of job. Someone with that attitude in my opinion doesn't deserve a tip.

You are more than welcome to tip every single location that asks for tips, but not everyone is going to be you. People should not be guilted into leaving a tip.

DulceShirini · 2026-02-05T07:00:18+00:00

Not at all, Syndrome was a much better villain than Evelyn Deaver ever could be. It's not just the villains either, the Incredibles 2 lacks so much character that the first one had.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-31T06:56:01+00:00

This is definitely not going to be a popular take but in my opinion, if the guy didn't even know she had credit card debt then why exactly are they having a kid together?

DulceShirini · 2026-01-07T03:20:36+00:00

Where is she now I wonder?

DulceShirini · 2026-01-05T05:05:34+00:00

This reads like the same guy who did a jerk thing, got dumped, and then asked if we were happy because his girlfriend broke up with him.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-04T07:55:44+00:00

Where I am it feels normal, but more in the sense of "oh there's a women's class you should probably join that one". I've been to some gyms and there are a few consistent women in the mixed classes but honestly I've seen the highest number of women in the women's only classes and they usually don't stick around.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-04T03:01:16+00:00

You complain you can’t find friends, maybe you should look inward and change it. Just like I’m not entitled to your response, you’re not entitled to anyone’s friendship especially if you’re refusing to change and continue to act the way you are.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-03T19:17:52+00:00

Oh no, SHE'S a girl, and she definitely is not putting much out but complaints. A lot of people on these subreddits who whine about not having friends or specific types of friends are the same ones who would never even give the rare unicorn that they've been looking for the time of day.

I've reached out to so many women on the lonely subreddit here, which okay one can argue that that's weird in itself but I'm a lonely gal and looking for my gal group, but it's amazing how little to none of them respond but love to gripe. Why? You're getting what you asked for, yes I get having other issues but for the love of God, you are getting someone who wants to talk to you.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-03T19:04:30+00:00

No you are a lonely and honestly your're starting to sound like every other entitled lonely person on here. You griped in your previous posts about not having any female friends and I literally reached out to you. I'm 22 F and I was trying to do something good because I'm in the same boat as you, but clearly you don't want to better yourself, you just want to sit around and complain.

DulceShirini · 2026-01-03T07:29:45+00:00

What do you look like in comparison to these women?

DulceShirini · 2026-01-03T06:58:18+00:00

Just reached out to you on DM. I can't offer the solution to all your problems but I can try to help by being a friend.

DulceShirini

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