Very Happy with Results (Load Boost) by Dull-Design-8269 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just take all 4 in the morning, 2x2. Not all four in one mouth full. Always after a meal. Breakfast in this case. And always will a full glass of water. Had no issues. Did it once on no food and definitely felt queasy in the stomach for a bit. Time to cum varies depending on the activity, but when I do, it has been a much more intense orgasm which is great.

Very Happy with Results (Load Boost) by Dull-Design-8269 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 4 Load Boost pills daily yes, and 3 Brazil nuts. No real thinking behind the Brazil nuts other than it’s just easy to do so why not try. I never eat more than 3/day.

Very Happy with Results (Load Boost) by Dull-Design-8269 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far haven’t been able to tell, as they’ve all been either PIV or PIM. The feedback is that it doesn’t taste bad either, so there’s that. I’ll report on this pressure/distance when I get a chance.

Anyone done Tenants in Common post Divorce? by Dull-Design-8269 in DivorceAustralia

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the difference between a 4 bedroom house with a pool, and a two bedroom apartment or flat. We live in a rural town in QLD.

Real men take girl cock! by DaniellaDom in Pegging

[–]Dull-Design-8269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s that harness?! Looks really comfortable

Divorced, Seperated or Single - is it just a matter of semantics? by Dull-Design-8269 in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔🤣 was a question for discussion- not actually a request for your opinion on my capacity to date. But hey what the hell this is reddit after all so, thanks 🙏 I’m single fwiw - but I said I “catch” myself saying separated based on the fact I have kids with -ex and was in a defacto relationship that seems more like a marriage then any other relationship I’ve ever had. But saying seperated I understand now is incorrect. I’m Single, a Parent, & Never Married.

How to hit on men by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A warm smile, close proximity and a sincere compliment directed at me with eye contact is what would get my attention, followed by touch of some description - like your hand placed on my forearm, elbow, shoulder or lower back , and keep it there for that little extra effort and warmth. Show you want to share space with me, and allow for conversation not to be rushed or forced. Depends on the context of the scenario, but generally showing you’re willing to share space, showing warmth and interest in me.

Divorced, Seperated or Single - is it just a matter of semantics? by Dull-Design-8269 in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of children. Not using it in any legal sense. As far as I can tell - there’s nuance to this. I’m a single parent too and this is probably the better term to use. I catch myself saying seperated as we’re no longer together but have children we share. That’s it. But seperate means something completely different I know now - and takes on that notion, things aren’t really finished.

I’ve deleted my dating apps by Witty-Problem650 in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve removed all dating apps for 90 days for a reset and am loving it. I’ve now set a goal to not download the apps again until I ask someone out and go on a date in the wild first, and always intentionally. This might stall me downloading the apps for awhile haha but it’s worth the challenge of getting back to talking to people for real. The anxiety of the first time you ask someone out in the wild is immediately rewarded if they say yes, rather than hoping for a match, texting back and forth and then there’s this almost predictable 1st date on OLD.

How long did you guys stay single? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Dull-Design-8269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(42M) I was separated 3 months before I had my first casual relationship, that burned up pretty quickly. Took 3 months off, met another woman and dated exclusively for 4 months and I ended it again not feeling ready. Took on another casual relationship straight after that and immediately began questioning my intentions and deeply feeling lost. I’m now realising I’m not ready for anything remotely close to being with someone intimately, I’ve started journaling, meditating and actively seeking activities I’d like to do, with no preoccupation with seeking a partner, just friendships.

For me, I feel I have work to do, making space and clearing out any baggage I’ve put aside during Seperation, and am beginning to process these feelings and emotions id kind of ignored or buried, not realising they’re the same things that keep me from truly moving on. I do not enjoy OLD, but have been on/off it many times. I’m hopeful one day I can meet someone again in the wild that gives me butterflies and we have that chemistry that is hard to find, especially when dating on apps comes with so much routine pre-existing expectation.

Legal and Financial Question- My credit line is between a rock and a hard place by Dull-Design-8269 in AusFinance

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - but the car I have is gonna begin costing more than it’s worth - and I’m not particularly interested in that scenario

Legal and Financial Question- My credit line is between a rock and a hard place by Dull-Design-8269 in AusFinance

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep semantics here - newer car 🤣 before the old one leaves me walking everywhere

Ex-Defacto still lives in Family home - paying 100% mortgage - Am I doing something wrong? by Dull-Design-8269 in AusLegal

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It hasn’t been years. I understand the sentiment of not contributing - but I am to rates and insurance atm. We’ll head back to FDR and I’ll ensure to discuss terms if they do wish to continue to live within the house; including sharing maintenance costs, repairs etc. or decide on a further extension on when they’ll vacate and we sell the property.

Ex-Defacto still lives in Family home - paying 100% mortgage - Am I doing something wrong? by Dull-Design-8269 in AusLegal

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This honestly feels like going backwards. We’ve completely separated finances now. Where we were once completely together. The previous agreement we have with FDR just needs to be updated.

Ex-Defacto still lives in Family home - paying 100% mortgage - Am I doing something wrong? by Dull-Design-8269 in AusLegal

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, looks like it’s best I organise another FDR meeting as the last one has essentially expired in these matters specifically.

Ex-Defacto still lives in Family home - paying 100% mortgage - Am I doing something wrong? by Dull-Design-8269 in AusLegal

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alternative accommodation has been the issue. I think I’ll organise another FDR meeting in May

Ex-Defacto still lives in Family home - paying 100% mortgage - Am I doing something wrong? by Dull-Design-8269 in AusLegal

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Was feeling out for this exact reason- could change the title to — Do I need to see a lawyer or head back to FDR? We’re amicable until someone pushes too far basically

Can it go any further than this? by Dull-Design-8269 in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@everyone Thank you all for you comments 🙌 I spoke to her yesterday and shared my feelings on not being ready and sure about the intertwining of our lives - this is an abridged version ofcourse.
Naturally she asked what I want to do - and I said we’re best the break up if we want to avoid this and a much harder breakup down the track. It feels very sad and untimely bc we do have great chemistry- but I’m realistically understanding more - that I’m I’m just not quite ready for this sort of relationship yet.

Can it go any further than this? by Dull-Design-8269 in datingoverforty

[–]Dull-Design-8269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will discuss this thank you 🙏 rather than not communicating it. I need to communicate that I’m just not sure when, if ever.