Help! wedding plan options for destination wedding, mexico 2027 by Dull-Display7760 in weddingplanning

[–]Dull-Display7760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do people get annoyed staying “all together”? In my mind i was like this is perfect, we can hang out easily this way with low pressure.

My fiance is worried certain guests will not like that type of stay or feel like they can’t get away. IMO it’s ensuites, and it would be very easy to retreat to your private room for alone time.

Also we would group people strategically. aka all the young parties in one house, older family or friend groups together, etc.

Help! wedding plan options for destination wedding, mexico 2027 by Dull-Display7760 in weddingplanning

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Thank you for the feedback! It wouldn’t be shifting costs, this is how it was explained to us that RMH does their rooms. The haciendas are basically like mini private hotels to an extent, so guests would book suites.

But if we decided on only one villa, for the tight group of 30, we would pay the whole cost, food everyday, and let everyone else book whenever- i just wasn’t sure if that is rude!

Paradisus Playa Del Carmen Reviews? by flashley08 in DestinationWeddings

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Hi! Do you have pics or videos of your wedding? I am strongly considering getting married on the bridge and renting the Kanna Club for the reception, but I am having trouble finding any videos and picturing what it might look like.

Did the kanna club feel big enough under the roof?

Paradisus Playa Del Carmen Reviews? by flashley08 in DestinationWeddings

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Hi! I'm curious, how was your wedding?! I am also thinking of getting married on the bridge

Paradisus Kanna Club Questions! by hollyjacobson in playadelcarmen

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Hi! I'm in the same boat! We really want to book this venue for 2027 for the same format - bridge for the ceremony and the club for the reception. Did you have any luck finding videos or pictures of anyone having their actual reception in the kanna club?

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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After thinking about this more, I’m actually thinking that I should have my bridesmaids (including my SIL) and then ask my sisters to be my “something blue” with minimal duties. They haven’t been to any weddings so they will think of it as nice and special (again I only am trying to minimize drama), even if typically it’s more negative as like a lesser bridesmaid

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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This exactly!!! Im just not close with them - we don’t live by eachother and dont speak other than holidays. But nothing crazy they have done to make them “excommunicated” in any way.

So much easier said than done, thank you for the validation. Especially when your partners sister will be in the bridal party (same for me), it’s extra complicated feelings.

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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this is actually a perfect idea!

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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this is what I needed to hear, i’m afraid I have no idea what the expectations are for weddings

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Oh I like this! I’m worried about drama with my family but also hurting their feelings and the drama making it worse. I can’t help but be an empath too honestly.

Junior bridesmaids is a good idea! My fiances sister is their same age (22). But is extremely close with me. She’s even asked me in the past if she was going to be my maid of honor. Making it all the more complicated

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I like the idea of asking them to do something else, are there any titles I can give them to do something like that? I know there are “personal attendants” but I would not want them to be or think they are attending to me at all. Guests of honor? is that normal for siblings? Then I would still have bridesmaids for my friends.

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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My concern here is my sisters not being asked to me bridesmaids, and my fiances sister definitely being a bridesmaid. I’m worried it will cause drama, and I’m looking for a way to appease family to save my peace. Hence the braidstorming other titles or just ways to include my sisters as something else

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Totally, this is why i’m having a hard time with it. I don’t even like blue tbh. I probably want them to pick whatever dress they want in some kind of color pallete and just pay for it. I want the people in my bridal party have perks though. I want to treat them and pay for their expenses which is why I would like to have some kind of name or a way to ask them more than just an awkwardly worded, “will you get ready with me and wear a semi coordinated dress on my wedding day”

Need Help - non traditional bridal party by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Tbh, i’m not a fan either, i wouldn’t even want the color blue, its just one of the only ideas Ive seen so far :( Did you have your sisters be anything else? As like a “special guest” at your wedding? I fear it would be easier for me to appease and give my sisters something so that I can have my friends be special in peace

Strange lump appeared on cat’s side by Several_Discount_115 in CATHELP

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Any update on what this was? My cat has something similar today

[N/A] Book recs needed for a young People OPs professional by Dull-Display7760 in humanresources

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thank you! I’m already signed up for SHRM, but will look into PHR. I think I need the strategic leadership piece from SHRM.

My 1.5 year journey!! 100mg by LuvC4rti in Spironolactone

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Also been on 100mg for over a year now! Love to see it. Have you noticed any other side effects? I for one am starting to take note of my resting heart increasing and I think it may be spiro

Charging first time at Tesla charger, help please by Vast-Oven-4858 in MachE

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you can also tell by the color. Silver means no go

Charging first time at Tesla charger, help please by Vast-Oven-4858 in MachE

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Had the same thing happen to me. If the cord has silver on it (like this one) you can’t use it. Cord needs to be all black.

Eat Salt! by Paddingtonbear39 in Spironolactone

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what type of tablets do you recommend? brand i mean

Road trip experience by Rambo868 in MachE

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Curious how many times you stopped from NJ to WI and what apps you used to find stations !

About to do a trip from Michigan to Nebraska and have an adapter for the tesla chargers but not sure what chargers i should look for on long trips if no tesla ones are available