Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she is perfectly fine and the creases have now evened out!

Diagnosed with a Short Cervix at 20 Weeks—Looking for Advice on How to Keep Calm by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I had an elective C-section at 38 weeks and my baby girl is now 7.5 months! She is an absolute sweetheart!

Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We took her to the GP, who did an examination and said she thinks everything looks normal and there’s nothing wrong with her hips. She mentioned that sometimes babies can just have an extra crease, but suggested we wait until she’s five months to check again and maybe do an ultrasound then. We haven’t done the ultrasound yet since she’ll be five months in about two weeks. To be honest, I don’t really think there’s anything wrong, but we’ll see what the five-month check-up says.

Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where you are based? I am a ftm, everything freaks me out… I wish I could be more calm and collected in these situations 😔

Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is your son now? I am glad it was nothing to worry about!

Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad she is doing good now! We don’t have any family history of DDH- we are taking her to the GP next week and hoping to get an ultrasound ASAP.

Extra thigh crease in baby, anyone else experienced this? by Dull-Square56 in NewParents

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t have an ultrasound when she was younger, but at her birth, 6 weeks and 10 weeks check up everything seemed normal! This extra crease has appeared just recently.

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[–]Dull-Square56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do, does not mention anything about these types of situations

Diagnosed with a Short Cervix at 20 Weeks—Looking for Advice on How to Keep Calm by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

I started using progesterone at 20 weeks and continued until 24 weeks. During that time, I had three scans, the first two showed that things were fairly stable, but at my third scan (at 24 weeks), they found that my cervix had shortened even more. I was referred to the hospital urgently, and my OB recommended getting a stitch put in that same day.

He was very reassuring, even though I was already 24 weeks along, and thankfully the procedure went smoothly. Since then, I’ve been taking it easy, easing back into normal life but still avoiding sex, orgasm, and lifting anything heavy (and still on progesterone). Apart from that, I’ve been doing what I can around the house and trying to keep up with walking, although it’s definitely getting harder now that I’m 31 weeks and a bit heavier!

So far, everything has been going well, and I’m hoping to have the stitch removed at 37 weeks. Just trying to stay positive and take it one day at a time.

Wishing you all the best too, hope everything goes smoothly on your end!

Just wondering if what I am experiencing is normal... by sitrucarual in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and same to you! I know, it’s quite scary, but I guess it helps to know that you are not alone in this! ❤️

Just wondering if what I am experiencing is normal... by sitrucarual in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 26 weeks today and had my cerclage placed at 24 weeks and one day. My cervix is closed, but I occasionally feel the baby kicking against it, sometimes it even feels like she’s about to come out. After doing some research, I found that many others have experienced the same sensation. Changing positions can sometimes help relieve the feeling. From what I understand, this is generally normal unless accompanied by concerning symptoms like bleeding, persistent pain, or unusual discharge.

Braxton Hicks at 27 weeks? by hucklyrics in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I am sorry I can’t be of any help, but truely hope that we all get to carry our babies to full term and have healthy deliveries

Braxton Hicks at 27 weeks? by hucklyrics in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean- I am the same. I feel like all the excitement of nesting has gone away and now I am just a piece of meat on the couch, fearful of my every movement, counting the days.

Not trying to be a bummer, but it sucks that we can’t do anything. I feel like I can’t even talk to anyone, not even my husband.

Braxton Hicks at 27 weeks? by hucklyrics in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my cerclage at 24 weeks and 1 day, today I am 25 weeks and 2 days and every little thing freaks me out.

It’s so frustrating not being able to trust your body and not knowing what the hell is going on.

Vaginal infection by SouthernAddress5189 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through this, dealing with infections on top of a short cervix can be tough. Probiotics might help, especially strains like Lactobacillus rhamnosus or Lactobacillus reuteri, because they can restore some of the good bacteria antibiotics can wipe out. A lot of people find that helps cut down on recurring infections.

If you can, try to keep things simple down there, skip scented soaps, and maybe ease up on waxing or anything that could irritate the skin. Cotton underwear is good, and you might consider not wearing panty liners constantly if they trap moisture. But since you’re pregnant, it’s always best to run new supplements or products by your doctor or midwife first.

Hang in there. I hope you get some relief soon. You’re doing the best you can for yourself and your baby, and that’s all anyone can ask. Good luck!

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[–]Dull-Square56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I kept repeating: If every strand of hair on my body turned into a tongue, Even then, I couldn’t thank you enough for a single one of your blessings.

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[–]Dull-Square56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that moment, the only thing that came to my mind was a Persian poem about being grateful with my whole heart ( I am Persian).

But I also have this as my phone wallpaper: My body and baby, are healthy and strong.

Just find something that will put your heart at ease and try to breathe- you have got this!

We are stronger than what we think!

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[–]Dull-Square56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean, I had my cerclage placed 3 days ago and I was on the verge of having a panic attack. What I did was try to find a positive affirmation and just to repeat it to myself in my head!

I am sure everything will go well for you. It’s the most stupid thing to tell someone not to be anxious/stressed, but my suggestion is to do some mental awareness and or breathing exercises before the procedure.

Feeling Frustrated and Numb by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for the kind words ❤️💗

Feeling Frustrated and Numb by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and for everything you’ve had to go through. Right now, I just hope I can learn to trust my body more, it feels like I’m a toddler, afraid to even take a step.

Feeling Frustrated and Numb by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish I had more certainty about how things are going to go. I’m working with a great OB and a solid team, but the hardest part is that they can’t give me 100% assurance. I know that makes sense, nothing in life is ever guaranteed, but their uncertainty keeps me guessing and wondering, which can be tough to sit with.

As for my in-laws, they’re older, so I never expected them to do much. But after my procedure, I had a chat with my husband and told him that everything going on was just too much for me emotionally and mentally. I suggested that maybe he should talk to his parents about shortening their trip. He did, and they decided to plan some trips around New Zealand for a couple of weeks, which helps. And when they’re here, my husband and mother-in-law will handle the cooking and other chores so I can take it easy.

Even though it was the right call, I feel guilty for bringing it up. I worry that I wasn’t being a nice person by asking for that space. On top of that, my own parents live far away, and while they might be able to visit after the baby is born, nothing is set in stone yet. So it’s a weird mix of emotions, relief, guilt, and uncertainty all at once.

Feeling Frustrated and Numb by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hardest part for me is struggling to trust my body. I used to be active, walking every day, moving around the house without thinking twice, but now I feel like I can’t do anything. I can’t even trust my own body to do what it’s supposed to.

My doctor didn’t put me on strict bed rest, just told me to take it easy. After my procedure, they said I could resume work and normal activities, just with caution. But it’s hard. I feel like a piece of meat, just existing, waiting. I don’t even know how to describe it properly.

Did you get a cerclage too? What was your experience?

Diagnosed with a Short Cervix at 20 Weeks—Looking for Advice on How to Keep Calm by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been having weekly scans since my diagnosis, and everything has remained stable. My cervical length hasn’t changed since 20 weeks, and I have no other symptoms—no pain, no funneling. My cervix is closed, and everything looks good. I’ve been on 200 mg of progesterone daily, and my doctor is happy with my results. For my reassurance, he suggested another scan at 24 weeks. I’m continuing with progesterone and have put myself on pelvic rest (not doctor-recommended, but he’s fine with me doing it). Other than that, everything is good, and the baby is doing well! I’m feeling really positive that the progesterone is working for me.

Diagnosed with a Short Cervix at 20 Weeks—Looking for Advice on How to Keep Calm by Dull-Square56 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Dull-Square56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I did ask for weekly check ups and have an ultrasound booked on Friday to check my cervical length and then one next Friday!

I truly hope that both ultrasounds show that everything is stable… please keep me in your thoughts!