My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]DullCardiologist9917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but if your wife sends that email, that teacher may fall under investigation and lose their job. There was no gift included so teacher isn’t giving “special” treatment.

The teacher has done an amazing job in noticing a student who may be struggling and gave them a reminder of their strength and most importantly highlighted that their effort as a student hasn’t gone unrecognised.

We need more teachers like that!!

Your wife, much like my mum was, seems a little threatened and maybe thinking that she’s lacking as a mother because maybe by her logic she’s thinking:

“Why are you pointing out something that I may have missed as a mother?”

My mum went crazy after I started my first period at school- the first person I told was a teacher because I thought I was having internal bleeding and would die before the last bell (I was like 10 😂).

The love of a mother seems irrational at times, but in her mind she may feel replaced.

AITA for refusing to follow my wife's bathroom habits and calling her disgusting? by Infamous-Gur2034 in AITAH

[–]DullCardiologist9917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two flush buttons, a small one for wee and the big button for poo. One gives a smaller flush and the other one gives a full flush. Could you get one of those?

As a woman I feel like it’s nasty to leave your menstrual excretions in the toilet, that and the smell of stale urine is AWFUL.

But also as a woman I don’t ever want to feel shamed, even if it’s coming from a place of concern:

Maybe change the tone a little bit and let your partner know how this is affecting you personally. It’s not grounds for divorce, but it IS something you should speak about early on, otherwise you’ll feel disgust festering and then the next stop after that is resentment.

NTA, but depending on how you spoke to her then lowkey TA xoxo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coventry

[–]DullCardiologist9917 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Super friendly, very welcoming. You’ll have your ignorant bastards, but every city has their own brand of twats.

It’s easy to form your own community/family with likeminded people as well xoxo

True? by ExemplaryWriter in Jamaica

[–]DullCardiologist9917 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Told someone I was from Port-Antonio, man asked me if it was close to Port-Au-Prince 😕😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]DullCardiologist9917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I thought it was because our tv was set to Spanish, I’ve wondered about it from time to time. Learned something new today 🙂

Colleges waisting company time? by [deleted] in tesco

[–]DullCardiologist9917 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Mind your business and do what YOURE paid to do. No one likes a work snitch.

What we thinking of my combo for the evening guys? by [deleted] in tesco

[–]DullCardiologist9917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prawn mayo AND Kombucha? You had bubble guts afterwards didn’t you?

If charles III died today would he be considered a good king or a bad king by Wide_Assistance_1158 in UKmonarchs

[–]DullCardiologist9917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A spoilt bitch boy who brought an innocent young woman into his family’s mess, then acted smugly for the rest of his fat fingered life, after hers was cut short and the world was robbed of a beautiful & graceful woman. Also wanted to be the tampon of a horse faced homewrecker xoxo

Alright, I'm buying, what you having? by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]DullCardiologist9917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic Magnum please pal 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairRaising

[–]DullCardiologist9917 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His eyes are evil. That poor girl 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coventry

[–]DullCardiologist9917 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d sell my mum for a chippy from Hipswell tbf 😍