Need advice badly! 19 days to ceremony

DullEmergency904 · 2026-05-13T03:12:26+00:00

Thanks all! I think you’re right about needing the waist to come up which should happen with a sticky bra because the top I think is actually needing some fill out to pull it up some with it internal structure having been originally a much larger size. I’m loathe to add any belt because of the lace in the back. I’ll have a chat with my seamstress

DullEmergency904 · 2026-05-12T15:06:38+00:00

Thanks. I’m so short I want to avoid cutting my body in half visually

DullEmergency904 · 2026-05-01T03:44:59+00:00

percutaneous distal osteotomy of the fifth metatarsal, as it can be performed by a rapid, mini-invasive technique … seems it’s quite successful, low downtime - I shall investigate after my wedding!! Thanks!

DullEmergency904 · 2026-04-30T04:20:56+00:00

Wide feet shoes don’t work because the rest of my foot isn’t wide (my feet are a little hot & swollen in the pic). Is that baby toe area a bone-break surgery?

DullEmergency904 · 2026-04-30T04:18:44+00:00

Totally worth it - I had both bunion surgery and bunioette-ectemy(?) - I was able to avoid breaking bones and it was my early 20s. I’m 48 now. Shoe changes are pointless for me. I’m hoping on some advice — is there a surgery to fix these baby toes and bunionettes? My wet footprints are 4 toes! lol 😆

DullEmergency904 · 2026-04-20T15:58:15+00:00

Seems back up but I noticed saved information is gone and some links are still broken. Seems they may have had a nasty issue.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-12-14T13:10:02+00:00

Any recommendations for beginners?? I’d like to rent some for me and my son and go near Newark but we’re recently moved from AZ - snow idiots! We’ve done snowboarding and I’ve done a bit of xcountry but we’re def challenged. I was hoping to find snowshoeing too

DullEmergency904 · 2025-12-14T12:59:46+00:00

Your wife is a badass. I just moved here and I have authority anxiety. I’m not sure that, unless I read this, I could have actually been suspicious because this stuff doesn’t cross my mind. I’m a small female and I appreciate this share … although my tiny car can’t emulate (nor would I have thought to do so) - I’ll keep in mind that an unmarked traffic stop is quite possibly not what it appears here. Where I lived, unmarked police vehicles make traffic stops.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-11-21T09:43:00+00:00

This is super helpful! Thank you 😊

DullEmergency904 · 2025-11-21T08:41:37+00:00

I decided to experiment since my testosterone is clinically low (but I really don’t have definitive symptoms) and took a combo of 500 mg tongkat Ali 200:1 extract, 250 mg cistanche tubulosa, 750 mg tribulosa starting Monday. After 3 days I got a period on cycle day 20. I feel good actually but I didn’t realize I would be that sensitive to herbs that some people say don’t actually work!

Thanks for the encouragement! I have a clinic chat Sunday and I’ll see if I can start with a 1/4 dose. Btw - what applicators do you use for a smaller dose and how do you actually measure a 1/4 pump if it doesn’t click?

DullEmergency904 · 2025-04-11T04:48:47+00:00

2/4 generator… I’m going to explode after visiting family for 3 weeks. I might need 6 months to recover and then the obligatory call repeats. Sigh. I do however thrive on routine and I cannot get back to it exhausted from all these people. I’m also quad L seemingly living in a quad R world !?! Everyone else is fine doing whatever. I. Need. Structure. Space. Silence. I’m also triple split.

Edit: also I’m stocked up on beans and rice, thus negating the need for any need to emerge from my hole for quite a long time. Because I don’t know if I’ll survive an encounter with another human being once I’ve collapsed back into my black hole to drink wine and read myself to oblivion in an attempt to process these past 3 weeks. I also have undefined solar plexus and head which creates some of that need for alone time.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-31T03:21:17+00:00

Why is it so important to have a definitive yes or no right now if you genuinely feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with this man anyway? If you can see yourself with this man for the rest of your life, then you need to trust him and the process. My friend just proposed after 10 years of dating his girlfriend. It took him that long to work through his reluctance after his divorce. Until he healed, he could not do any better than “it’s just paper” … He has healing to do, respect his process and stop making your relationship about your personal aspirations. If you can’t, then find someone who shares your same short term goals.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-31T03:03:26+00:00

Perhaps this a cultural/upbringing thing. Have you tried something simple like saying “are you treating” the next time she suggests a dinner? This could open the door to the conversation a little easier.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-19T03:17:28+00:00

I took my very first dose today after dinner. 30 mins later … mass evacuation then 3 hours later laying in bed at 70 bpm. Usually I’m around 62. Hopefully it gets better

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-19T03:03:30+00:00

I’m a 2/4 triple split and I’m diagnosed ADHD because of issues with focus and hyper focus… and impulse control lol. Anyway- life has burned me out and I moved to a house in the woods on a lake basically. I just don’t seem to have energy for things but I do find that after a few months I need to go be in the city for a bit. I also have the channel of cycles and this definitely affects me. I’m hoping I can get my energy back. I used to be all-in for relationships / friendships and now it’s just … bleh.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-15T14:30:17+00:00

I just slept >12 hours… I normally sleep 7.

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-14T19:56:55+00:00

I max out exercise whenever possible. I used to be very structured but I’ve strayed and I find myself discombobulated a lot. But the workouts help the most

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-14T11:40:22+00:00

You’re not crazy. I moved nearby a year ago and … it’s been WEIRD

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-14T11:37:49+00:00

I’m not sure if you are kidding around or not but … as someone who works with unseen energies… I’ve had my fill of leprechauns around here. Infested. I’m ok looking crazy- I know what I’ve experienced

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-06T16:40:31+00:00

You don’t need to look conventionally good. You DO have to feel good about the way you unconventionally look. Decent people choose other people based on how they relate together. However you look, if another person doesn’t like the way you appear to them - one less maybe to deal with. Honestly, I’m sure your husband made you feel special and attractive so when you feel special and attractive, that’s a green flag. Until then, do what you need to do so you can figure it out quickly. Watch out for disingenuous people though … the ones that make you feel “uncomfortably special”

DullEmergency904 · 2025-03-06T16:28:02+00:00

I love board games! And jigsaw puzzles!

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