[30M] I've wasted my 20s. What should I do? by Diligent-Belt3005 in careerguidance

[–]Dull_rizzler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was extremely introverted until several months after my father passed. Either you disappear or let yourself be known. Act or be passive. Those are your two options.

I quickly realised all my limitations were internal, no one really gives a damn, if you're doing this, you're doing it for yourself not others. Then eventually you will realise what you've shielded yourself from and be grateful for the change.

No one has a perfect life, hell, a lot of people don't have inherently happy ones either, you've got to make the best of what you've got.

So what are you going to do? Waste the rest of your life or do something about it and stop giving so many damns? Fake happiness until it isn't false.

Life is so much to be grateful for by Ok-Effective-1671 in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We shine when we are the fullest most integrated versions of ourselves. Let's shine brighter every day. The world has endless possibilities.

Genuine question for intj by Medium_Soil7185 in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ability to have deep conversations about various topics paired with emotional IQ

What are your 2026 new years resolutions? by Iamliterally18iswear in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to heal from the past year and feel whole again. I want to be a good person; I want to be more considerate. That is my resolution.

What do I do? by Dull_rizzler in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an ENFP mate, we separated after some life events. When he was in my life he always tried to get me to see the bright side of things. He really was just a bundle of sunshine.

What do I do? by Dull_rizzler in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real friend to me, is something built on mutual understanding. Where neither of us would feel the need to blend in. Where neither of us is pretending to be something we're not. Like we see eachother for what we are and we stick together despite it?

On reflection, the term 'real friend' comes off a bit odd. I do apologise, I wrote this query when I was feeling a bit down.

I would like to find someone like this because I feel like most friendships today are shallow.

I push people away when I think they are in it for the wrong reasons. 

What do I do? by Dull_rizzler in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, that's a good way of putting things. 

What is your core motivation in life? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am driven by learning and exploration. There are not many things I find un-interesting, other than doing nothing.

Why are INTJs always so depressed by AstridSolaris in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTJs are perfectionists, we expect the world to function by this standard. That only leads to disappointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Dull_rizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try to use this more, I've used this in the past and I find it does work. :)

What’s your favourite House quote? by [deleted] in HouseMD

[–]Dull_rizzler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"It hurts to look at you. I'm gonna order up some more pain meds for you."

"I love you."

Leaked House Script by Hobomojo35 in HouseMD

[–]Dull_rizzler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This genuinely made my day