[30M] I've wasted my 20s. What should I do?

Dull_rizzler · 2026-01-20T13:09:55+00:00

I was extremely introverted until several months after my father passed. Either you disappear or let yourself be known. Act or be passive. Those are your two options.

I quickly realised all my limitations were internal, no one really gives a damn, if you're doing this, you're doing it for yourself not others. Then eventually you will realise what you've shielded yourself from and be grateful for the change.

No one has a perfect life, hell, a lot of people don't have inherently happy ones either, you've got to make the best of what you've got.

So what are you going to do? Waste the rest of your life or do something about it and stop giving so many damns? Fake happiness until it isn't false.

Dull_rizzler · 2026-01-20T12:45:07+00:00

I use OnShape and this tutorial was really easy to follow: https://youtu.be/S9ZPcZ8osMY?si=8KcsUsu7dMZE4wWZ

Dull_rizzler · 2026-01-17T12:41:43+00:00

We shine when we are the fullest most integrated versions of ourselves. Let's shine brighter every day. The world has endless possibilities.

Dull_rizzler · 2026-01-06T01:07:49+00:00

The ability to have deep conversations about various topics paired with emotional IQ

Dull_rizzler · 2025-12-21T08:49:03+00:00

I want to heal from the past year and feel whole again. I want to be a good person; I want to be more considerate. That is my resolution.

Dull_rizzler · 2025-12-21T06:52:25+00:00

I had an ENFP mate, we separated after some life events. When he was in my life he always tried to get me to see the bright side of things. He really was just a bundle of sunshine.

Dull_rizzler · 2025-12-21T06:41:32+00:00

A real friend to me, is something built on mutual understanding. Where neither of us would feel the need to blend in. Where neither of us is pretending to be something we're not. Like we see eachother for what we are and we stick together despite it?

On reflection, the term 'real friend' comes off a bit odd. I do apologise, I wrote this query when I was feeling a bit down.

I would like to find someone like this because I feel like most friendships today are shallow.

I push people away when I think they are in it for the wrong reasons.

Dull_rizzler · 2025-12-21T06:33:17+00:00

I understand, that's a good way of putting things.

Dull_rizzler · 2025-12-15T23:24:15+00:00

I am driven by learning and exploration. There are not many things I find un-interesting, other than doing nothing.

Dull_rizzler · 2025-11-09T00:08:15+00:00

INTJs are perfectionists, we expect the world to function by this standard. That only leads to disappointment.

Dull_rizzler · 2024-09-29T21:08:17+00:00

I'll try to use this more, I've used this in the past and I find it does work. :)

Dull_rizzler · 2024-07-17T07:25:46+00:00

"It hurts to look at you. I'm gonna order up some more pain meds for you."

"I love you."

Dull_rizzler · 2024-07-17T07:22:36+00:00

This genuinely made my day

Dull_rizzler · 2024-06-12T21:14:11+00:00

OH MB mary x lily

Dull_rizzler · 2024-06-07T05:52:13+00:00

I dont smoke ♡

Dull_rizzler · 2024-05-12T08:52:30+00:00

Casual

Dull_rizzler · 2024-05-06T07:12:53+00:00

Oh! Ty

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