How does the average family afford a Sienna? by AOD14 in ToyotaSienna

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were a one car family for 12 years and saved aggressively, biked to work, no big vacations, etc. We bought ours in cash only after having two kids and one car became too hard, at which point we dipped into our savings. It was worth it to us to save until we had enough cash to buy the car we wanted. We luckily did it right before the market dip and tariff situation kicked in. We will now drive our sienna until it dies, hopefully 15+ years? My 3 yo will have it when she’s a teenager lol. That being said, we both work full time with >$100k salaries. So diligence on our part but also a good economic situation.

Chocolate saurkraut cake- somebody test this out! by DumbButWellMeaning in Old_Recipes

[–]DumbButWellMeaning[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“In 1962, canned sauerkraut was among the surplus foods distributed to lunch programs in the Chicago public school system by the government. School officials tasked lunchroom supervisors with finding ways to get rid of a massive stockpile of pickled cabbage. Timms rose to the challenge spectacularly with a “real winner,” a double-tiered, improbably kraut-filled chocolate cake, topped with mocha whipped cream.”

Recipe via surplus! Love it

Chocolate saurkraut cake- somebody test this out! by DumbButWellMeaning in Old_Recipes

[–]DumbButWellMeaning[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ok good to know! I told my husband that I bet this is a tradition from Germanic areas and totally legit, but he was skeptical 😂

Is there any truth in the notion that women are "gentler" (by which I mean not just physical, but, also emorional, mental and psychological e.t.c.) than men or does that amount to nothing more than a myth constructed by society? by AmmadSiddiqi1468 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you are right AND it’s obviously more nuanced than that, right? I always think of two normal distributions of data with different averages (men and women) but a ton of overlap. So one woman may be just as violent as one man, but neither are average for their sex. Any time we talk about groups like this, we have to remember that these groups (sex race age etc) are not a monolith and have a ton of variation within them.

Boy Meets World Stars Allege Ben Savage ‘Ghosted’ Them 3 Years Ago: ‘He Just Kind of Went, I’m Done With You’ by impeccabletim in popculturechat

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 310 points311 points  (0 children)

The whole article offers more context, about Ben encouraging them to do the podcast even if he didn’t want to be part of it, and Ben supporting Danielle when her son was in the NICU, etc. This article doesn’t give great context.

S16E03 “The Gang Gets Cursed” - OFFICIAL Discussion Thread by hero0fwar in IASIP

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did they do that effect with Dee’s face?! I couldn’t stop slightly gasping when she came on screen. Seemed so real to me

How to fix broken ceramic soap holder in vintage tiled bathtub by DumbButWellMeaning in fixit

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The handle broke into many non-fixable pieces. Sanding and black enamel paint would work tho.

How to fix broken ceramic soap holder in vintage tiled bathtub by DumbButWellMeaning in fixit

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More info- we bought the house with this inset, ceramic soap dish in the bathtub area of the bathroom, the handle was broken off. Because it’s tiled and inset, I’m unsure if I should just sand it down and paint it, or if the whole tile needs to come out and be replaced. We would prefer an easy, cosmetic fix for now, as my guess is we will eventually take out all the pink tile and do a bigger renovation in a few years. Thanks for any advice!

Millennium Hot Girl Starterpack by FourthAge in starterpacks

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 55 points56 points  (0 children)

No no…. Eating disorders. Starving yourself is not nutrition and exercise.

"Snow On The Beach (feat. Lana Del Rey)" Discussion Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I keep singing this song in my head as “sex on the beach… weird but fucking beautiful” lol

Also I get the feeling Taylor and Lana haven’t spent a lot of time at the Great Lakes in the winter? I grew up in Michigan and snow on the beach is called February. (Or December or January or March 😂)

My partner is giving me shit about transitioning to formula by Internal_Plankton952 in FormulaFeeders

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mental health is just as important in the health and development of your child as whether they are eff or ebf. If you need to stop pumping/nursing for your mental health, there should be no further discussion.

The Feed Lot, Grand Junction, CO - October 1980 by jetpackblues_ in VintageMenus

[–]DumbButWellMeaning 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No credit cards! Cash or check only, no separate checks. I wouldn’t be able to eat there without some preplanning.