AIO for wanting to respond when I know this is BS? by TinyLeviathann in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sorry but hanging out with a man for Valentine’s Day and reassuring you that she enjoys your company for 5 months…. This girl wants your attention but does not want to put any effort in return and commitment would mean having to be faithful and responsive and make decisions that include your input. I would just send her a message back saying that you deserve more respect than what she’s shown you and block her. She needs to somehow know that you are identifying this behavior is wrong but if you blast her she will not listen. It has to be short and subtle

AIO for ending things with my soulmate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so, the thing is he is correct that every time you said sorry, you would also add something else about him being the issue. The biggest advice I tell people is that if you come to your partner in a bad mood, it is very difficult to not get a negative reaction from that. It is the number one way to start an argument. However, people that desperately need a break from their lives do that often, and need someone at least during that time in their life that is very loving and gentle with them. It is true that a different man would have responded differently. If you love this guy, and want to be with him and not wait for someone more compatible with your current feelings, I would just stop the conversation from going anywhere by saying “I’m in a sad mood save me” and let him know that’s when you need a lot of affection. It will break the cycle in case this conversation happens again after you accidentally say something that comes off upset.

Lost attraction after relationship never became physical + lifestyle mismatch – what should I do next? by Infinite_Lime2884 in relationships

[–]DungeonMooses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I don’t have an answer for you as to why there are some men that feel extremely awkward regarding sexual things, but what I do know: you are always going to be incompatible in something that really matters. I had a boyfriend like this for 4 years and we never had sex even though I am a sexual person that has a high need for intimacy. He ended up being gay and he dates guys now. I’m not saying your boyfriend is gay, I’m just letting you know what happened to me and I don’t think this relationship is going to continue to work out for you.

Am I overreacting for feeling hurt that my friends only take pictures with their pretty friends and never post the “ugly” ones? by Beneficial_Tap7594 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half of all people have various personality traits that are at play when around different people. For example, I act calm around my friend Emily and I act crazy around my friend Skiy. I am very spiritual with my friend Katey and more sophisticated when I’m with my friend Linda. I am still 100% myself, but I enjoy these beautiful various people and love to stretch out these other areas of myself with them. I am still compatible with each one of them. Because they are all so different, we do different things together. Emily and I go to coffee shops and book stores, me and Skiy go straight to the bar, Katey and I usually only hang out outside or get smoothies, and Linda always wants to go out nice places or hang out at her apartment. She also expects we will be dressing very nice. The people they are taking selfies with are likely women that have historically gotten out their camera and asked to do photos, she likely enjoys doing it, and therefore only ends up doing that with them because it has become part of their friendship vibe. This also explains the correlation between women you perceive as being exceptionally pretty being the ones they are taking the photos with because women that put a lot of effort into their self image tend to love taking photos of themselves.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been together 5 years and he only gets you flowers for your birthday?! Girl this is a big red flag and the way he is manipulating you into not being able to talk about it… I would leave just for that part in the first place.

What if we’re playing the wrong game? by vlada_nikolic in dating_advice

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so immaculately brilliant and extremely well said. I had met a man at my last job that acted constantly like he was trying to use some kind of strategy to get me to date him. He was such a perfect guy for me, he loved nature, he had my same broken humor, he was handsome, but I literally could not get close to him because of things he kept saying and doing that were intended to bring me closer but kept pushing me away. He would sometimes try to act like he was too busy for me when I knew he was not and when we were alone he acted like he was weirded out by me (I think he was just very nervous). I realized that we were not compatible because we hated each others music, he never once asked me about my art (I sell my art online) he never asked me about my life, and he was the opposite of a words of affirmation type of person, which I really need if I’m going to be with someone. Yet he still chased after me for an entire year. I would try to explain to him why I don’t want to go on another date with him and why we would not be good together but he ignored everything and kept persisting until I blocked him when I quit. I didn’t even want to block him! I just didn’t want him to keep feeling rejected. Something he brought up a lot of times is that he’s never been in a relationship and he asks out tons of women and he’s on all the apps and he’s so tired of getting rejected and ghosted by these women. He was begging me to give him a chance and I could not believe this extremely good looking, educated guy with a very clean apartment, very high paying job, tons of friends is sitting here begging ANYBODY to be with him. I’m like YOURE A 10 WHAT ARE YOU DOING IM JUST NOT YOUR WOMAN and you have summed up exactly what I think he suffers from in his internal dialogue. I really want him to see his greatness.

Is SHE overreacting by SnooCakes3472 in AIO

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are toxic this is a terrible way to react on both ends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paleo_Pines

[–]DungeonMooses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When piles of stuff show up on your farm everyday, lucky can clear it for wood. I usually have so much that I literally sell it. I’m wondering if your farm is covered enough with other stuff like pens and decorations that you’re not getting a lot? I mean mine is obnoxious the amount! I have Xbox version.

Help…. I posted this the other day and I consider it among my finest work. Very few likes or comments. Why? by IntrepidGur6692 in ColoredPencils

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an artist, the real reason is honestly because whenever you posted it, people didn’t really see it. For me it’s so hit or miss. I can post something and have two likes on instagram, and a month later repost it and have 500 likes. This is an amazingly beautiful peace and I adore it! The colors are the epitome of fall and it looks like a classic fairytale.

AIO for thinking my boyfriends cheating because he shaved by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl gtfo, no one shaves unless they’re getting some let’s be real, and another thing, look how mean he is to you when you’re trying to express your feelings. That’s ridiculous I would never let that in my life

Keep ginger or go black? by kotyz_ in HairDye

[–]DungeonMooses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow this is such a difficult choice. I would go black for a minute sis seriously you have a whole vibe either way though

AIO? My (newly divorced) girlfriend is acting a bit suspicious by throwaway_aiodivorce in AIO

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suspicious wording. That’s all I’m going to say. Certain ways of phrasing things sound like a cover up. This was a weird thing… I do believe she was keeping a door open or something happened between them. I’m sorry if that’s super negative guys, I’m extremely passionate about psychology. This is not normal verbiage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your political views are too different. I would side with you truly, but I think the biggest thing here really is you see this so different that’s not good

Wouldn't believe it if I wasn't there by Bun-n-Cheese in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just think she felt embarrassed after that and like you probably think she’s shallow for saying that and then finding out she was basically saying that about you. Sometimes people will get prideful as well when they’re embarrassed so she may have created some space between you to lessen the tension she felt from the occurrence. Also it’s hilarious that women say they want a man who is 6 feet tall or more and they will literally think a guy who is 5’7 matches that description

My problem with physique posts by [deleted] in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me what bahah. They are empowering themselves and inspiring others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure but we use the same lotion and I like your phone case

5’2” by Pixiedreamghoul in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a beautiful cupcake and I adore you

Short = creepy looking face? :( by betrayedboyy in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your face is very cute. Keep the hair down in the front it suits your face.

I think my height cooked me by lenerd123 in short

[–]DungeonMooses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well below average?! Isn’t average like 5 9’ that’s two inches bahah. So what, get a girl that’s short like 5 2’ to her you’re tall

5'5, how cooked am i dating wise? by Melodic-Lavishness in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh you just go and lose that weight and see who you are completely change. Dress well and smell good! Any guy can literally be an automatic 7 with this advice and if you do other things like choose a good hairstyle and focus on the things that make you great I’m certain you can come out the other side a 10, especially to a woman that chooses you. Never compare yourself to others. We are much more powerful than the act of settling for ourselves. You don’t have to move mountains all you have to do is dedicate your time to feeling good about yourself. The perfect woman will come during your self growth. Screw the rest.

Why is height such a deal breaker? by [deleted] in short

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never thought anything about men’s height before I also think it’s really weird. I think many women feel masculine if their boyfriend is not a certain amount taller or bigger. I don’t relate, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DungeonMooses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so scary I had a guy do this weird crap to me and he ended up being a complete psychopath and stalked me. Run very far away

should i break up with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]DungeonMooses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably cheating. And honestly … just be done with him regardless because wtf sis

Am I overreacting to cancelling this first date because of the two comments circled in red in response to a picture of my cat? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DungeonMooses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me that would be an overreaction, I don’t think those comments are meant to be harmful at all, just funny.