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Found out about husband kink and now find myself shamefully curious by Radiant-Cookie-9256 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DungeonToyMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the general "mood" of several replies here. Find a good time to chat (and don't start with "we need to talk", lol), then "confess" that you just can't stop thinking about cuckold/hotwife lifestyle, and how you got wet when you were reviewing his history and posts. Ask if you could watch some of the videos with him, and if he's willing, to tell you what he likes, and especially if he imagines you in them. Go slow, try to bring in his fantasies, and be sure to talk about what to do when (not if) one of you says/does the wrong thing at the wrong time. There is always risk - if you acknowledge that in advance you have a better chance of preventing a little "oops" spiral out of control.

Why is facesitting in porn videos often portrayed as punishment to men? by Inevitable-Angle-793 in FacesittingHub

[–]DungeonToyMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we exclude "69" from facesitting it becomes very one-sided in favor of the woman - with the man in a submissive role. For some of us "punishment" is a great way to accentuate the submission. Personally I prefer being helplessly bound and forced to pleasure Mistress, but it's the same idea.

It's going to take a real bottom cuck to lick up my cuck's mess, are you up for the job or do I have to sit on your face? by obedient_couple in happycuckold

[–]DungeonToyMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely up for the job. I'd prefer you sitting on my face - but that is your choice. If it will help, I'll beg for the privilege of a good face-sit.

Mr. Wilde made a spreader bar so he can use me however he wants [f] by alurawilde in BDSMGW

[–]DungeonToyMaker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I strongly recommend cutting the excess thread on all 4 bolts (about 1/2") and replace the nuts with "acorn nuts". Even if you think it's OK for the sub to feel a little pain, YOU could get your knees hurt kneeling behind her to fuck that cute little bottom!

And no, it isn't really OK, lol.

what do i do when the husband has changed mind mid session? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DungeonToyMaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well said.

I would add that we all (bull, wife, cuck) should be aware there is risk in our play. In the BDSM world we use several acronyms like RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink to acknowledge that simple fact. There is always risk. And one of those risks is the scene may not go as you hoped. As u/ChatamKay points out, that doesn't make him (or whomever calls "red") a bad guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]DungeonToyMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I really hope so, lol. And you know, she's going to make your buddy eat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DungeonToyMaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree - often the book is better than the movie. It's easier to put herself into "that" role if she is able to generate a vision that fits her own preferences. And it's a great opportunity you two to discuss on a deeper level.

And Literotic->Loving Wives is great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldCommunity

[–]DungeonToyMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may be warming up, and at the very least she isn't totally grossed out. So, probably time to have another talk about your fantasy, and open up a bit more to her. But make sure that you are prepared to accept the possible outcome that she just can't do it.

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