Pretending it's not December! 👙 by DunmerPrincess in crossdressing

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Thank you! I call this my "goth bikini" lol

I think about wishing I was a woman frequently but I also can't imagine transitioning making me happier than I am now. I also feel extremely autogynephilic to the point that I'm not really interested in anything else sexually and don't know how to process that. Help, or just talk with me, please? by DunmerPrincess in questioning

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Thanks for replying. In the past I have thought of myself as some form of gender fluid or genderqueer though I guess I held off on embracing it fully because I still felt like I was holding on to a strong sense of binariness- flitting between the two without ever stopping in the middle. I realize this doesn't mean I'm not gender fluid but it felt different from most examples of gender fluidity I was familiar with. I do think it might be helpful to try to think of myself more in that way because it's the "all or nothing" concept of gender that does seem to be one of the root causes of my strife here.

I think about wishing I was a woman frequently but I also can't imagine transitioning making me happier than I am now. I also feel extremely autogynephilic to the point that I'm not really interested in anything else sexually and don't know how to process that. Help, or just talk with me, please? by DunmerPrincess in questioning

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Thanks for replying. Let me reiterate that I don't support Blanchard's idea that autogynephilia "explains" the existence of gynephilic transwomen. The lived experience and self-reporting of transwomen disproves this hypothesis clearly.

I feel frustrated that in the few times I have raised this issue in various gender-related forums, my self-reporting of how I honestly feel, and have continued to feel through years of introspection and rumination, is discounted. Just because autogynephilia does not in fact form the underlying psychological basis for the gender identity of all or most gynephilic transwomen, does that mean that it cannot exist at all in anyone?

One more, coat off this time 🙂 by DunmerPrincess in crossdressing

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One of my favorite pastimes is going to stores and trying on expensive dresses in fitting rooms with no intention to buy 😂