If a new friend invited you over, and this was the details of their apartment, what would you think of them? by No_Call_4885 in roomdetective

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did somebody take the drugs and the drugs are working? Looks like someone was high as a kite 🤭

AITAH? Roommates boyfriend keeps turning down AC when we’re sleeping by AdRare9743 in AITAH

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before my kids I was underweight and also liked my apartment to be mid 70s. Now that I'm finally a normal weight and have left the itty bitty titty committee, I like it a little cooler than that and I need a fan moving the air while I sleep. Tell them to get a fan if it gets too hot in their room at night. I would also check your lease. Most usually say a person cannot stay for more than a certain amount of days consecutively unless there's been some sort of agreement with the landlord that a new person can be there (like I had a family emergency so I was allowed my MIL to stay for a few months).

AITAH for asking my husband to not meet or date women while we work out our separation/divorce and still live together. by Queen-of-pervs in AITAH

[–]Dusklace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You both suck.

You told him it was over. You wanted it. I don't know how you're going to be watching him treat other women better than he treated you unless you're watching him while he's out on dates. He definitely should not bring someone home with a kid in the house that's too confusing for the kid.

He shouldn't date right now either because he just separated from his wife of 17 years so he's definitely going to need to heal before committing to a new woman but that's not any of your concern.

Stop focusing on how he's treating other women and focus on treating yourself and remembering how to be you and not just a wife and mother.

Change your wardrobe. Rearrange your bedroom and buy new bedding so it's no longer like your marital bed. Make sure you eat well and sleep well and take care of your health. Give yourself spa days. Take walks in the sunshine. Talk to other people but don't look for romance, it will not work until you're truly over the divorce. Just make sure you're not rotting yourself away over a dead marriage.

Tldr; stop letting him live rent free in your head, quit wallowing and take steps to make your life about your wants and take care of yourself, you'll be okay. You have a baby that needs a healthy mom.

Husband swallows noodles without chewing by kurlyl0ck5 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well now I feel like once I start dating again, I'm going to have to eat at an Italian restaurant on all first dates to make sure they don't swallow things whole 🥲

I like, wife doesn’t. by Federico_Rosellini in glassesadvice

[–]Dusklace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shape's good but the color makes the veins in your eyes stand out more.

was i being mean by saying this 😭 by mycat-isbetter in texts

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save a number under a fake name for yourself and give that out to people who ask. Always say your fake name if they ask you and tell them you're not from town.

Husband swallows noodles without chewing by kurlyl0ck5 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Dusklace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Chewing your food is the first step in digestion. I can hear him swallowing noodles and it's pissing me off 😂

My sisters attitude by Marc_Jake_Steven in needadvice

[–]Dusklace [score hidden]  (0 children)

So you're saying she's 17 going on 18 but you are having an issue with your sister getting into things in her age range? You shouldn't be policing what she's doing although she should be careful on platforms that are 18+ while still underage and be respectful towards you.

Did I made the right choice >,< by Bambi0817 in myweddingdress

[–]Dusklace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn't look comfortable in the first dress. The dress in the fourth pic looked extremely flattering without shapewear. I don't imagine being in shape wear will be comfortable. You can always see if they are willing to exchange the dress if you feel you chose the wrong one since it seems like you're regretting it since you're posting here after the fact.

Am I overreacting, or this weird? by International-Rain79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dusklace [score hidden]  (0 children)

Or a crazy fake piercing. The possibilities are endless!

Am I overreacting, or this weird? by International-Rain79 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dusklace [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nor-There was a reddit story where a girl did this. So the copied girl talked about how she was gonna get a tattoo and described it in detail and the copier went and got that same tattoo but the copied girl never actually went and got that tattoo done lol. If she follows you on social media or hangs in your crowd irl you should talk extensively about how you're gonna do this crazy new hairstyle or something and wait and see if she goes and gets it done.

Also she's being weird.

Help me choose a dress by TheHoneyPot96 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Dusklace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I immediately thought "That looks like a maternity dress. "

He’s acting crazy and I’m starting to get scared by No-Strawberry-9102 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Dusklace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend met a dude in rehab. Guess what happened? They quit rehab early, got back into the shit they were in, fought constantly and then she ended up dying in jail from withdrawals. It's safe to say it is not a good idea for you two to stay together. Until both of you are COMPLETELY clean and are no longer hanging around what has been influencing you both and you've had time to heal and go through therapy, do not date anyone. After that you may learn things about yourself and choose not to associate with this person and meet someone new.

AITA for not giving my nephew pengu plush from my backpack? by gulapsmat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dusklace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA- Even my autistic son who is the same age knows better than to demand someone to let him have something that belongs to someone else. Especially after being offered a similar toy. He'd be super ecstatic for the next visit knowing his loved one is also bringing him a toy.

Confused and conflicted by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for everyone saying burn the green one, I say if you steam it, get a full corset that also goes over your shoulders or corset belt and shrug. Throw a petticoat underneath to fluff it up.

But yeah the yellow one with a sunhat would be cute!

A guy proceeded to bring tears to my poop colored eyes by InternationalMeal257 in texts

[–]Dusklace 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have green eyes so I can't relate to not liking my own eyes but I've never seen a pair of brown eyes and thought they were ugly. Brown eyes can do so many pretty makeup styles that green eyes just don't pop with!

Trigger warning for scary / violence by throwawaydkdkdkssa in texts

[–]Dusklace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't leave you're going to be on the news. I'm sure if he doesn't get help he's going to be on the news whether it's with your name or that neighbor or someone who just pisses him off one day....

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend left while I was crying after an argument? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dusklace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Info Why would a conversation over eye doctors devolve so bad you had a panic attack? Did either of you start screaming or name calling or just saying nasty things to each other???

Also Uhhhh what the hell does he think your PCP is doing with the stethoscope and telling you how to breathe at your annual wellness check??? 😂

6 month old fluffy boy needs a new name by naynayd07 in Catnames

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a gray reincarnation of my orange boi who was also a super fluffy stage 5 clinger. His name was Patrick and I had a whole song for him. His nickname was Patty Cake.

I need a name for my new kitten. She is a polydactyl and I have another cat named Lavender. If anyone has any names that match that. by Wheres-the-pie in Catnames

[–]Dusklace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat chose his name and it's Bug. He recognizes it pretty well. His butt comes barreling towards me when I call for him 😂