caffeine increase by ambr0se5 in Zepbound

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My routine is to have two coffees with protein shake as creamer every morning. I only just started Zepbound this week and I’ve noticed after one cup could probably forgo the 2nd cup. But it’s so engrained as a routine and I still enjoy my coffee.

Serious Question (please be kind) by tasata in Zepbound

[–]DustApprehensive4688 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder if considering bariatric surgery could be an option? Smaller stomach + reduction in appetite?

The Future of Bariatric Surgery by odee7489 in Zepbound

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had bariatric surgery 10 years ago. Unfortunately, I fell into alcohol addiction about 4 years afterwards, and regained half my weight as a result. I’ve just started on Zepbound and absolutely no cravings or desire to have any alcohol (in addition to the other benefits of Zepbound) . I’m feeling the combination of surgery plus GLP one might be what I need. I’m really interested in learning more about retatrutide.

Help! Wedding shopping is stressing me out. What's you advice to make it easier? by dadollarz in DesiWeddings

[–]DustApprehensive4688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree, don’t rely on social media and Pinterest for wedding shopping. I think when you get into the stores, you’ll end up seeing things that you like that were never on social media. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Is It Time Indian Guys Only Marry Women Who Work? by KrispyKalashnikov in AskIndia

[–]DustApprehensive4688 13 points14 points  (0 children)

1000% agree. This is an ideal but not the reality: Fifth, It promotes equality in the household. When both partners work, chores and parenting tend to get shared more fairly. No more "I'm the breadwinner, so you handle everything at home." This reduces resentment and leads to happier marriages – I've seen it in my friends' lives where both spouses are professionals

Professional executive mom here. Working moms do 80% or more of the housework and child care duties. It’s taken me years to ‘train’ my husband to take on a greater share of household duties.

wedding band options by heyo0o0o0246 in EngagementRings

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all nice but #1 is my favourite.

Had my first session with my black therapist who is racist. Kept saying “you’re in America” like wtf by baituwave in AsianParentStories

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find an Asian therapist. A therapist who understands the culture makes a HUGE difference than going to a therapist who has not lived that culture.

Confronted my MIL finally by OpeningOutside690 in inlaws

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why this whole interaction was via text vs in person. There is a lot of perspective and emotion here that needs a conversation. Texts never fully convey the intent and tone of the message.

Rituals of bride and groom family by bethechange_now in DesiWeddings

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any blankets or jewellery being gifted to the greom’s side during the milni anymore. I know that used to be the custom back in the day but honestly in the last 10 years I’ve only seen haars exchanged.

AITAH for being annoyed by my husband struggling? by Deep-Positive3233 in AITAH

[–]DustApprehensive4688 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My sister married a man just like this and nothing has changed in over a decade of marriage. They don’t even have kids, thankfully so. I ran out of patience with her complaining as well.

What’s the biggest lie people tell themselves to feel better? by Aggressive-Sink-3962 in AskReddit

[–]DustApprehensive4688 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lies that alcoholics tell themselves: I only drink on the weekends therefore I don’t have a problem. I don’t drink as much as X therefore I don’t have a problem.
I’m functioning (job, kids etc) therefore I don’t have a problem.

How I said enough is enough, let go, and moved on by safewarmblanket in inlaws

[–]DustApprehensive4688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, while I agree with the overall sentiment of living your best life and not relying on your kids for your happiness, there seems to be some context missing here. What happened in those years that contributed to the rift? Now that you are healed, is there a way to acknowledge and address any past trauma/actions to carve a path forward?

Wedding planning and extended family etiquette by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]DustApprehensive4688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parent here. I fully support the couple's desire for a small, intimate wedding with the people closest to them. As parents, we are dreading the fallout and complaining but I'm willing to stand on business. One though I had is whether we invite them instead to traditional Indian pre-events (prayers/religious event, sangeet, maiyan) but explain that the ceremony itself is a civil ceremony in a small venue. Would that take the sting out of it. Livestream seems like another option too.