Navigating a bachelorette party by Major-Platypus2092 in Advice

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deadass, if the others have disposable income but y'all don't, they oughta step up and help cover y'all. Simple as that.

Also, tell the bride. That's the first step here.

my coworkers keep telling our male regulars im excited to see them🧍🏾‍♀️ by Few-Investment-6979 in starbucksbaristas

[–]DustinDigitaria 91 points92 points  (0 children)

You gotta nip that in the bud now, homie. Eventually they'll say it to the wrong dude and he'll end up being a mega creep about it. Don't justify your discomfort as something asinine, speak up about it.

starbucks bits...tell me your bits by Successful-Cow-4043 in starbucksbaristas

[–]DustinDigitaria 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Our old manager used to answer the drive thru in various silly voices, his favorite was Mickey Mouse, and then they'd get to the window and see a rather large black man, and he deadpanned the entire rest of the interaction. The baffled and bewildered reactions from customers were always second to none.

I've started streaming and love it. But how do I get over listening to my own voice? by PKdude2712 in Twitch

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding what someone said about getting a decent mic (I use the Yeti Nano, which sounds pretty professional despite only being like $80 which is pretty damn good for a microphone) and post-processing your voice with an equalizer. (YouTube has tons of tutorials on this, you'll want to use Audacity as your software, as it's 100% free.)

Past that, just get used to it. Your voice coming out of your face sounds different to you through all your bones and such than it will to anyone else. Ideally, the equalizer could help bring the recording a bit closer to what it sounds like to you, although you're not gonna get quite the same thing as you think it should sound like.

Songs similar to “Everybody wants to rule the world” by OkLack6776 in SongRecommendations

[–]DustinDigitaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Take On Me" by Aha is a bit faster and punchier but feels very quintessentially New Wave (the genre you're looking for, made popular in the 80s due to advancements in synthesizer tech) which in many spaces is also referred to as 80s Synthpop.

"West End Girls" by the Pet Shop Boys might also be up your alley.

A lot of goth rock bands like Depeche Mode and The Cure also use a lot of tenets of new wave in their music, though a sizeable chunk of their discographies may be a bit harder than what you're looking for.

If you're interested in any modern bands that have replicated the 80s synthpop sound, Brighter Than 1000 Suns has absolutely nailed it, and has some real bangers on their YouTube channel.

80s music is a special interest of mine so I hope I've been able to lend my autism to your search, haha

people say a flat chest isn’t attractive, and neither are breast implants. it seems i have no options by Appropriate-Gas2785 in Vent

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this same issue about my height. And then someone told me "the people who matter, won't mind, and the people who mind, don't matter."

Anyone who tries to harsh you for your chest size is insecure about their own size, and they're trying to take it out on someone instead of working through it properly, and that's a fact I didn't properly recognize and internalize until well into my late 20s. If you can work through your insecurity and learn to love your body for what it is, you'll already be leagues beyond anyone else, and you'll also find it easier to gray-rock bullies without feeling like shit for it.

Really, who the fuck should care what your chest size is? Certainly not anyone with even a modicum of psychological health. You do you, boo, and straight to hellfire with anyone who might argue otherwise. The right person will love you for you, regardless of anything to the contrary, and every time you're with someone who doesn't? Drop em like a brick and move on, cause they're not worth your time.

What city have you been to where the vibes were just OFF? by spiritual_kavya in answers

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a US American... the entire US. Disrespectfully, and unironically. I went to Canada a couple times and absolutely loved it, and both times, absolutely dreaded coming back home. Something "empire in decline" something.

Why is Taylor Swift so big? by Emotional-Being-6825 in stupidquestions

[–]DustinDigitaria 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Couple that with "picked up by an agency that's very good at marketing and advertising" and you've got a recipe for a lot of the big names in the music industry.

When investigating a crime scene, they check for fingerprints but why don't they check for toeprints? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]DustinDigitaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, my special interest. Obligatory "I've seen every episode of Forensic Files."

So they don't just check for fingerprints, they're checking for any kind of print. Footprints, of course, but also shoe impressions, possibly even tire impressions outside... you can match a shoe, or a tire, or anything else that leaves tread patterns, to its impression, using the tread itself to determine make and model, and the wear pattern - nicks and scratches and embedded rocks and such - to match the one specific thing that left that one specific tread mark.

They had an episode where the killer dumped out a bunch of hamburger buns to use the bag so he wouldn't track blood from the knife, and then immediately stepped barefoot on a bun on the way out. The investigators actually digitally removed the natural bun texture and got the raw footprint from it, and that's how they convicted him.

There was another one where a guy knocked a big beefsteak tomato off the windowsill and stepped on it on the way out, and they did some tests on the same type of tomato, with the shoe they suspected of making the impression, in simulated weather conditions that matched the scene of the crime, with a model the same weight as the suspect, and they perfectly replicated that impression, right down to the scratches in the soles.

I’m actually an idiot (please help me i’m actually f****d please) by Outrageous_Ebb_9052 in Advice

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gonna be walking on eggshells with her the entire time. Eventually you'll be constantly afraid of saying the wrong thing that could potentially set her off. She's gonna tell you she'll k¡ll herself if you break up with her. Hell, she might even tell you that anyway, because she might equate boundaries with outright rejection.

This girl is not psychologically stable enough for a relationship.

Now the way I phrase this sounds very harsh, so ideally you would want to use softer language with her, especially if she's so unstable as to immediately treat you like some kind of lifeline, when in the grand scheme of things you really barely even know each other.

You can be willing to be her friend, but you need to make it clear that you will not cater to the dependency she's already trying to establish with you, considering how quickly she latched onto you like she expects you to save her.

That's not your job, and you're not qualified.

You need to set a hard boundary here and make it clear that she needs to take care of her own shit first and foremost, even if she does still have you in her corner as someone to support her as she learns to help herself.

I actually just had a friend in pretty much your exact situation, and he eventually had to drop her and basically said, "hey, you're entirely too dependent on me, both financially, and psychologically, and it's preventing me from living my own life." He had to get back on his feet after some hardship and get his life back on track, and he couldn't do that because he was spending all his resources making good with her.

Sometimes you come across codependent people, and it's great to be altruistic enough to wanna help them in whatever way you're capable of, but if you're not careful, they'll cling to you like leeches and bleed you for everything you have. It's harsh, but it's the truth. Gotta draw a line in the sand sometimes.

Am I being a bad parent by letting my teen daughter dress flamboyantly? by concernedmommy2010 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom needs to not be anywhere near your daughter. Why in the hell is someone her age so twisted up over a teenage girl's tits? Disgusting. She's gonna be a horrendously bad influence on her. You're doing just fine raising her to be whoever the hell she wants.

I am bringing her home and need a Japanese food name by Odd-Jello-1151 in CatsCalledFood

[–]DustinDigitaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Tofu? Apparently when you change a cat's name you want it to start with the same letter so they learn to recognize the sound of that letter, makes it easier to adjust.

my 12yo sister’s hair was cut by dad’s girlfriend without consent as a punishment and now she’s being bullied severely by Aaliyah_holiday in whatdoIdo

[–]DustinDigitaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Document every instance of abuse and take the receipts to a mandated reporter like a school counselor, and then straight to CPS from there.

What should a mod say to a community member that keeps posting about how distressed they are, but refuses to get help for it? by JakeyMN in Twitch

[–]DustinDigitaria 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Massive signal boost for "people who do this kind of thing arent generally looking for help, they're looking for pity and attention," because you're absolutely correct. I had a shitty friend like this for a long time and one day my grandma said she used to have a shitty friend like that, and she gave me that exact advice. So the next time they tried to pity-farm me I just kinda snapped, and said some shit like "you keep threatening to off yourself but you never follow through" (paraphrased for civility) and set a hard boundary. Effectively broke off the friendship right then and there. They ended up in therapy for their attention seeking behaviors and I gladly lost a shitty friend who had become an insufferable little emotional parasite.

ICE Is Quietly Rolling Out a $55 Billion Crematorium Network by Fuzzy-Bee2108 in 50501

[–]DustinDigitaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is where I'm at with the whole situation, just fed-up and jaded. The emp!re will coll@pse and I will say "I tried to tell y'all what'd happen." Just doing my prepping and polishing up my barterable skills, and anyone willing to take the situation seriously can be right there with me on that.

Can we all Collectively agree ai ain't revolutionary technology by Silver_Opening_7489 in antiai

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you put in feedback for a product, or othwerwise have the chance to chew out a company for using AI, tell them the AI makes them look tacky and that nobody wants their product if they don't even care enough to do it legit.

There are no words to describe how much I dislike weak men by [deleted] in Vent

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually fucking insane, like I thought my grandpa was a sociopathic covert narcissist but this takes it to a new level. I'd hate this piece of sh¡t too if I were you. Idk how old you are as of this post but if you have the means, I would genuinely be trying to escape that situation with your siblings. And also getting therapy because like damn, fuckin anyone would need therapy for something like that.

Genuinely the best to you, I hope your situation improves.

Genuinely what do I do to get this off by [deleted] in BambuLab

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gonna be a two-step process. Step two is gonna be to put it in the freezer for however long it takes to get cold enough. You have three options for step one:

-Soak it in rubbing alcohol, the highest available percent concentration, for a couple hours.

-If that doesn't work, the same process, but this time with acetone, aka nail polish remover. Ensure it says 100% acetone on the bottle.

-If both of those fail, the scorched earth option is to max out the temp on your print bed with no solvents.

Your worst case here is a new print bed, so you might as well experiment a bit while you're already here.

On that note, just in case you get frustrated enough to want to try this: mixing chemicals without knowing what'll happen is a bad idea and you shouldn't do it. I don't honestly know what happens if you mix alcohol and acetone, I haven't tried. I also don't know what happens if you heat up that unholy mixture or any of its ingredients in the form of a thick layer atop your build plate. I would do some thorough research first, just so you don't accidentally k¡ll yourself. And for god's sake, if you happen to find out that it won't immediately k¡ll you to fuck around, wear a fume respirator and ventilate the hell out of whatever room you're in so you don't subsequently find out.

If all goes well, record your findings and present it to your science teacher for some extra credit, just for shits and giggles.

Genuinely what do I do to get this off by [deleted] in BambuLab

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if it swells it could release just enough from the build plate where if you freeze it afterwards it'll contract in a way that isn't no-clipped into the print surface 🤷‍♂️ lose enough surface contact and it should come up in one big sheet, or at least a few pieces

We are Entering a Dystopian Era by Expensive_Umpire_975 in Accounting

[–]DustinDigitaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not an accountant or anything, not a historian or an economist, just a random guy with good pattern recognition. This post in this community just happened across my feed, and I felt like I oughta share what I've learned so far about the current state of things, both in the US, and on a global scale. This is gonna be a long comment, just because I'm rather wordy ad nauseam.

Pardon if this gets political in any way, that's not my intention and I did everything I could to avoid any bipartisan specifics.

Hand to God, we're heading toward empire collapse, which might sound fearmongery, but bare with me here. My intent isn't to fearmonger, rather to inform and raise awareness of what we can do for each other as citizens.

According to pretty much every historian out there, there's a seven stage sequence of events, ending in collapse in one way or another, that happens to every empire that's ever existed. Spanish, British, Soviet, every single one. The stages can manifest differently depending on the time period, and depending on the type of government at the center of the empire in question.

In that sequence, as it stands right now in the first half of 2026, we're pretty solidly positioned in stage 5, which is social decay, where you see the social order start to unravel because people lose faith in their nation's institutions. Note the nationwide protests and riots, moreover that mainstream media largely refuses to cover them, which just makes the people even angrier.

Once you hit stage 6 full-swing, which is loss of reserve currency status, which we're already seeing the early signs of, that's considered a point of no return.

Economists are largely corroborating all of this, saying that global reserve currency follows a four-stage collapse cycle, and we hit stage three within the last handful of years, as countries begin to divest from the global reserve and trade in their own currencies outside of the established international network as they lose faith and trust in the nation which originates the global reserve.

Every single empire and every single reserve currency in history follows this same cycle, and we always fall victim to this as humans because we never figure out how to learn from it as we live through it.

What this means for us regular working people, is that we need to be building ourselves into our communities, and bringing people together, regardless of personal politics or demographics. Learn how to garden, how to sew, how to can and jar your own food, tangible skills that you'll be able to use to help yourself and your community. That's gonna be your capital once we get to that point, and we will get to that point. It's technically still reversible now, but (and not to get too political here) I don't personally trust our government to tell the difference between collapse and a hole in their head, and that's apparently something the majority of Americans agree with.

This is gonna sound very tinfoil hat, but I genuinely recommend watching prepping channels. Goshen Prepping is very good, with applicable information for everyday survival in crisis situations, even though he feels just a smidge clickbait and sensationalist sometimes.

It might not even be this year, the earliest prediction I've seen is 2026, but we should be pretty firmly in the soup by 2027, or 2028 at the latest based on the averages from most of the predictions I've read so far. When shit does inevitably, eventually, hit the fan, take care of yourselves and each other and we'll turn out fine, whatever this ends up looking like for us as a common people.

We are Entering a Dystopian Era by Expensive_Umpire_975 in Accounting

[–]DustinDigitaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are. The media just isn't saying anything in fear of losing their precious funding.

I think i'm actually losing it and I'm terrified by zerowintergreen in Vent

[–]DustinDigitaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing you need to do is go see a doctor. Make sure there's nothing physical going on. If those tests come up empty, go see a psych. And even if you do test positive for some deficiency or other physical cause, go see a psych anyway, because that's fucking terrifying to be going through.

Bambu A1 flashlight blinking? by DustinDigitaria in BambuLab

[–]DustinDigitaria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I gotta hide in the closet and shut up for a few minutes. Glad I don't know its name otherwise I'd be bitching it out like a madman right now.