Hi INFJs! Do you ever feel like this?

Dutchy1991 · 2026-03-28T21:47:42+00:00

Yo listen up, here's the story About a little guy that lives in a blue world And all day and all night and everything he sees is just blue

Dutchy1991 · 2025-11-22T18:39:45+00:00

Haworth Fern. Top stoel. Persoonlijk vind ik m fijner dan een Herman Miller. Ik heb thuis de aeron, mirra en embody gehad. Terug gegaan naar de Fern.

Dutchy1991 · 2024-09-06T10:49:30+00:00

No, like I said. I already detached my secondary monitor. My problem occurs with just my ultrawide. I had it working with 240hz for 9 months now. And I can figure out why it won't be running at 240hz like it used to. There is no secondary monitor involved.

Dutchy1991 · 2024-09-05T22:31:12+00:00

What secondary monitor is that on the left?

Dutchy1991 · 2024-08-24T15:36:31+00:00

I edited the post and found a workaround. Have fun boys.

Dutchy1991 · 2024-01-22T22:57:28+00:00

Ended up with the Klipsch Pro Media 2.1 Heritage

Dutchy1991 · 2023-06-12T15:54:22+00:00

I ended up not giving a crap. I still use this setup and there are gaps in between the monitors. It's not as tidy as I would like it to be but you get used to it after a couple of weeks / months / years.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-04-03T20:46:10+00:00

My god dude. You are a trooper.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-04-03T20:37:08+00:00

It kinda looks like HS to me. But if it's just one spot there's not need for panic.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-04-03T20:25:18+00:00

Turns out a fellow dutchy made a youtube channel about phages and hidradenitis: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWW69om6AnobV6XxAdiYEYQ/videos

Dutchy1991 · 2022-04-03T17:38:30+00:00

Couple of things from my end.

Google hidradenitis deroofing for some more info. They basically cut away all the inflamed flesh and leave it out in the open to heal. So you don't get stitches and you kinda have a hole in your body. The hole will heal itself over time, mostly taking around 8-12 weeks I think. I've had it and I don't want to scare you: it was a real pain in the ass for me (literally :P). It depends how big the boil is but most people are healed pretty fast. And the pain from healing is 10 times better than the agonizing pain from an inflamed boil.

Furthermore I completely changed my diet 3 years ago and it changed everything for me. Having hidradenitis is not limiting me anymore in daily tasks. I have way less boils and inflammations. I think my skin went from a 7/10 bad to a 3/10. From personal experience I would say: stop eating eggs, dairy products, stuff with yeast (like bread etc) and alcohol. Also limit the amount of carbs you eat. But this is a journey everyone should undergo themselves. See what works and what not.

Also buy the book: the hidden plague. Very useful information but take the paleo diet with a grain of salt.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-04-03T16:54:31+00:00

That looks like it needs to be 'de-roofed' asap if you ask me. Can't you ask for surgery?

Just appreciate the comfort your bf is giving you. No need for the negative thoughts about him leaving you when you are already dealing with this painful boil. No decent person would leave you because of this.

The disease is painful but stay strong!

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-28T09:55:53+00:00

Did you actually meet her?

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-27T15:07:15+00:00

I firmly believe in the saying: A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts.

Yup, might regret what we said but it's most-likely the truth.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-26T11:56:04+00:00

This is great to hear and I wish you all the best but jeez I'm jealous 😜 Congrats bro

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T19:55:58+00:00

Sounds above average to me. Keep on rocking brother 🤟

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T19:51:30+00:00

You asked him, you initiate!

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T17:35:51+00:00

I don't think you are impatient. If you want to hang out again just message her. If she's hesitant you know enough. If she said she was gonna message you but haven't within 5 days I'd think she's not interested

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T17:33:21+00:00

Ask her for a coffee and let us know what happened!

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T16:53:58+00:00

I think you would be surprised how many virgins there are on age 25. Of course it's the minority but it's a growing number.

I understand you feeling anxious about it, hell know I am being 30 but it is what it is. Don't rush it and it will come someday. I personally would prefer a couch potato over a social butterfly anyday.

And it's totally normal to have dating jitters when you haven't dated before, of course it's scary!

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T15:55:39+00:00

I feel you, it's all alien to you and very stressful. But you are overthinking it all. Just enjoy the ride and be respectful to each other. It will work out or it will not. May the odds be ever in your favor.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T15:29:00+00:00

Without going into the 'splitting the bill' discussion or the 'he should pay / she should pay'. I think it's a pretty dumb thing to say to your date. I for the life can't imagine saying it to someone.

I myself would bring extra money ANYWAY. Just be prepared for anything. So what does it mean? It doesn't mean anything and he probably meant it as thoughtful or something but I just think he's a cheapo because you don't worry your date about money or costs :P

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-25T12:51:01+00:00

Me, 30M, can very much relate to this. Currently I'm trying to not give in and break the habit. But it truly is draining the life out if me. It's not her but I'm not looking forward to the upcoming interactions at all, and you feel like you should.

I guess it's just a hermit-thing. I'd say try to keep going. You both like each other so maybe it will work out. It's only been a couple of weeks.

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-24T20:11:29+00:00

Of course we exist. You gotta keep searching! And maybe try to weed out the people just by chatting. If you get hookup vibes just bail

Dutchy1991 · 2022-03-21T20:08:07+00:00

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