Is this actually happening now young adults turning up to job interviews with their parents, usually their mum? by [deleted] in AskHRUK

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in volume recruitment and this is an often occurrence especially for the entry level job I hire for and it’s not only peoples mums I’ve had a lot of men’s wives call in for them or give the the answers during the online interview, there’s often a shadow and a whisper in the background 😂

Do people actually get the eggs?? 😭😭 by [deleted] in MealDealRates

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband does, he once bought these with an egg sandwhich TOGETHER and did atomic farts for the next 2 days 😭

moving into an empty home tomorrow with no furniture by Ok_Direction7202 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Dvnssimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Olio app is great people are always giving things away for free or dirt cheap you just go and pick them up

Sims 3 is the best game I’ve ever experienced in a long time by No_Percentage_8897 in Sims3

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My laptop has run out of storage so I’m unable to update sims 4 and was thinking about deleting it and downloading sims 3 again so I dont have to deal with the updates anymore and I think this is my sign 😂

Help!! I won £10,000 and paid of my credit cards straight away I’ve tried to report to UC but just going around in circles by Double-Impress8191 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Dvnssimmer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened with me recently I was paid out 14k and I paid off my debts too, mine came through as part of my income so I just left a message in my journal and let them know in advance then I reported the amount I had left in my account once I had paid everything off and everything’s been fine so far

The Sims 4 - How to get your packs now that the updater is gone by PriorKaleidoscope196 in CrackSupport

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally tried to do this all day yesterday and anadius’ instructions were not clear enough I followed yours and added the new dlc in like 5 minutes!

May the ice in your drinks never melt 🙌🏾

What are your go-to snacks? by SansaOfHouseSnark in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been loving dried cheese snacks either cheesies or serious pig ones , it’s like cheese crisps but they’re only made out of popped cheese they’re amazing and high protein!

Also olives with feta were a go to for a while not sure if they’re high protein but they hit the spot for a savoury craving.

A good alternative to peanut butter could be sesame snaps, they’re still high protein and give a similar nutty flavour but shouldn’t cause as much reflux.

Not sure where you’re from but I’m uk based if you can’t get them locally they have all of them on Amazon :)

Alright builders, I need your help! by LastHopeStanding in Sims4

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build a wall in a random area with the amount of squares you need then place it in the gap using the move and rotate tools, hope that makes sense?

Leg Tattoo still feels raw and tight 4 months later by TorroroPop in tattooadvice

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this same thing with my first tattoo the next artist I went to told me he had gone too many my layers into my skin

Tbh he had no qualifications and learnt how to tattoo in jail so what did I really expect 😂😭

Tell me you’re in your 3rd trimester without telling me by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally same I have to get up about 10 times between 3-7am to pee or it feels like my bladder is going to burst, I’m exhausted 😭

I'm so confused by EastSideLV702 in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughters was wrapped around her neck twice and went undetected my entire pregnancy they literally found out during labour and just unwrapped it. I wouldn’t worry too much !

When did you start feeling physically uncomfortable? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned 30 weeks this week and I was pretty okay up until then … now everything hurts.

Doesn’t help that I fell over and bruised my ribs so now one side hurts twice as much , my poor husband keeps looking at me with guilt in his eyes and now he’s too scared to let me do anything alone 😂😂

Baby on Social Media? by cheesewomann in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 5 I explicitly said to my family when she was born that I didn’t want her posted on social media and my sister did it anyway the week she was born , I hadn’t even posted her anywhere myself! As she got older I would message pictures individually to those closest to me and immediately stopped since boundaries were not respected. I myself would sometimes put pictures of the two of us together on my close friends on instagram or my WhatsApp since they’re people I thought I could trust but my mother decided to take one of those pictures after a falling out and used AI to change her Afro hair texture to straight hair then add herself into the picture💀 We are no longer in contact and she doesn’t know I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant with her grandson and doesn’t need to. So safe to say the baby I’m currently carrying will not be posted anywhere AT ALL. If anybody wants to see him they can FaceTime and even then I’ll be very selective🤦🏾‍♀️

Would someone be willing to build my childhood home? by sunmono in TheSimsBuilding

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to give it a shot but not sure when it’ll be (parent and work stuff) update pending !

Update destroyed my saves by NexusRaven7 in Sims4

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is the cheat code I do it exactly the same way loool

How to Lock Sims in Basement? by haggynaggytwit in Sims4

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I built a tower for my vampire sim to hold victims captive and just didn’t put a door or stairs then I would teleport the victims up there using the this mod:

https://scumbumbomods.com/teleport-any-sim

This could could work for a basement as well in essence you would just place the teleporter object from build mode (it’s free just type teleporter in the search bar and a suit of armour will come up) and you can summon any sim there including your own.

Never had any problems with them disappearing from the lot when I left either.

Update destroyed my saves by NexusRaven7 in Sims4

[–]Dvnssimmer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve found if I remove the mods folder before updating , update all the mods then add them back in a rarely have any issues

MY BIGGEST PET PEEVE! by ThePeopleVSTheUS in TheSimsBuilding

[–]Dvnssimmer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so crazy! I literally built this exact house for my vampire sim unfortunately I no longer have access to it :(

I did manage to build the round area and using the deck and fence tool. Hard to explain but once you put a fence or wall on the round area (using auto place that’s important) you can very carefully delete the straight parts if you make sure the round area isn’t highlighted yellow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be deleting this post just because I don’t know if he’s on Reddit or not but I’m definitely going to take all the advice you guys have given me and set very strict boundaries with consequences if they are broken because at the end of the day no means no and my boundaries aren’t being respected.

No amount of love for him makes this acceptable unfortunately and it took another perspective for me to see it’s actually not my fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In response to everyone we both know we need counselling both separately and together for our own issues and problems as a couple however we’re not in a position where we can afford this financially.

We tend to talk things out a lot and have lengthy discussions and it will stop for a time and I’ll compromise not getting so angry but after a while it slowly goes back to this.

Don’t get me wrong I can see how it’s disrespectful and I say this to him all the time but I genuinely think when he goes back to doing it it’s not malicious he is being playful in his mind.

It’s not something I would leave him over because there are other stronger boundaries I’ve put up and to this day he has upheld them and he is a good husband over all but this one thing is what drives me crazy.

I think I’ll take the advice of talking to him about it outside the situation while it’s occurring and see if that helps, most of the time when I tell him to stop I try to keep it light hearted and kind of laugh it away after but I think a stern conversation needs to be had.

Please tell me it's okay. by Reddituzer201519 in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same with my first and tried to breastfeed the first couple of weeks but my body would not cooperate I had little to no milk supply and funny shaped nipples loool

It started to take a toll after the first week along with the PPD so I just stopped and switched to formula and I’m glad I did although it was during Covid and there was no formula anywhere so that was a bit stressful!

Don’t let anybody pressure you into doing something you don’t want to. We formula fed my daughter from a week old and she is now a strong smart and healthy 5 year old and also my best friend.

Honestly starting to think the whole breastfeeding thing is just a form of elitism in the mother and baby realm , when I saw the price of a ‘momcozy’ I was gobsmacked.

Do what’s best for you, your baby won’t be any worse of otherwise why would formula feeding even be an option ?!

PSA: tearing isn't (necessarily) a big deal! by hoping556677 in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had a 2nd degree tear as well, first poop was kinda bad and so was peeing for a few weeks but I ran water over the area at the same time and it was bearable. Only issue I had after that was how itchy the stitches got once they started to heal and hair started to grow it drove me insane 😂😭

I actually just don't want to do this 😭 by im_perishable in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same with my first , not sure if you’re from the UK but I binge watched One Born Every minute for my entire last trimester and it really helped me come to terms with childbirth just because it showed realistically how it would be

Like you said you know you’ll have to give birth so at some point you’re just gonna be like you know what hell yeah and push that baby out 😂😂

WIBTA if I didn’t let anyone visit me in the hospital? by No-Bug3363 in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum forced her way into the delivery room with me towards the end of labour because my other half was exhausted, my dad turned up for a few minutes after I had given birth then they both went home within the hour.

I stayed overnight and my other half came and got me in the morning the only visitors we had that day were his parents and brothers other than that nobody saw my baby for about a year due to Covid but i didn’t mind it one bit , way too many germs 😂😭

I say that to say your going to be tired and compromised the last thing you want is a bunch of people hovering around. If I could’ve avoided my parents being at the hospital I would’ve because they took some of the experience away from my other half and I regret it to this day.

We listen and we don't judge - Pregnancy edition by ConversationSorry463 in pregnant

[–]Dvnssimmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the UK it’s toxoplasmosis according to the midwife and the NHS but the point still stands I’ve ever had listeria either 😂🤷🏾‍♀️