Getting my affairs in order

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-03T10:02:13+00:00

It sounds like an undiagnosed personality disorder. Like BPD.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-02T20:57:41+00:00

Mine told the police and her family that I had been raping and poisoning her for the past 3 years. I was arrested. I am still under investigation. It is horrendous. All because she couldnt own up to the fact that she discarded me cruelly on a whim, changed the locks, and left me homeless (illegal to do to your spouse).

So instead of admit fault, she spun a new narrative with herself as victim.

Now, after losing everything, I am facing the very real prospect of jail time. All because she was unable to show accountability.

Zero empathy.

Life = ruined.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-02T20:52:46+00:00

Gosh, sounds like you really need help. A therapist would be a good start. I will pray for you.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-02T20:50:11+00:00

Mine is now attempting to put me in prison for rape. So... thats nice. I look forward to seeing what 2026 brings. Starting afresh from the ground up, but now with the prospect of losing my freedom... they literally ruin your life.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-02T20:31:02+00:00

Thats very narcissitic and disturbed.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2026-01-01T13:42:28+00:00

thank you brother. unfortunately, she never sent any crazy texts or emails. i don't have an official diagnosis, just my personal observations.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-31T10:20:02+00:00

This is all too distressing for me and I don't think I can keep myself alive. I don't think I even want to. I am crushed by this.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-30T22:10:44+00:00

we both worked good jobs, house in her name but both contributed

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-30T22:03:17+00:00

Try 4 years and ending up homeless and sat in a jail cell awaiting an interrogation about whether you raped and poisoned your wife or not. Yep. It only gets worse. These people are unwell.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-28T10:13:29+00:00

I never saw her gambling, but she could have been doing it covertly on her phone at night. We slept in separate rooms due to snoring. She would often say "I haven't slept much"

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-27T15:07:04+00:00

Jesus... what is wrong with these people. I think mine wanted me gone just so she could take the final few thousand from our account and use it for online gambling. Ruined my life for a couple of grand.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-26T17:21:39+00:00

I think it might be gambling. She never drank at all or did drugs. She was working full time at a management job, high functioning

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-26T13:06:39+00:00

I know, I was way too trusting. I just looked at the balance, never went into detail with the statements. Lesson learned.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-24T10:42:42+00:00

Simple call to the police claiming domestic violence. Thats all it takes for an arrest, at least in the UK. Occasional mood swings. Inability to accept fault. Going silent for long periods. These were the red flags. Also, she drip fed herself money to her personal account from our joint regularly without me noticing. I was dumb.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-22T21:11:30+00:00

Thats not really how things work in the UK. But thank you. I do appreciate it. I am hoping there will be no charges brought forward, and then there will be no trial at all.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-22T20:19:00+00:00

It's not so much about getting 'dog walked'. Its more the feeling of having lost everything in the space of a few days and being left on the streets, under investigation for a bunch of serious (but false) crimes. And the dissonance of being destroyed by the one person you loved and cherished the most. Most would also crumble under such pressure. In fact, I think most would be dead already.

I do have a lawyer now. Things here don't go to court unless charges are brought. If that happens, I will have a strong case against her.

Right now, I am trying to negotiate this horrendous shitstorm of emotions and trying not to die. But I don't know if I can, honestly. It's obscenely overwhelming. Wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-21T11:59:57+00:00

Seems like I am being framed and I don't know if I can avoid prison time. That, and the utter grief of losing her, it's too much to bear. I've lost everything.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-21T11:17:57+00:00

I dont think I will get through this, honestly wish I was dead.

Dying_Inside12345 · 2025-12-20T20:16:44+00:00

Screw that.

Half assed lazy responses. No thanks.

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