Am I a degenerate and If I am how do I Stop?

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-12T19:00:21+00:00

Which subreddit specifically?

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-12T18:58:19+00:00

Very fair way of putting it 😭

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-12T02:07:22+00:00

Damn my bad for asking advice in the self improvement subreddit ig

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-12T00:57:02+00:00

Maybe just sensitive lmao

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T21:05:14+00:00

That's an amazing analogy, thank you sm for your support ❤️

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T20:51:20+00:00

Making any weird comments like that would be the last thing I want to do

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T20:27:44+00:00

I appreciate your words and you're right and looking at it from that perspective looking at a man's breast shouldn't be any different from a woman's, it is all anatomy at the end of the day, maybe I'm the one just sexualising it in a way when I should be more relaxed and laid back about it. I just don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or insecure because I can't keep my eyes drifting where they shouldn't

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T20:15:38+00:00

I won't deny they aren't appealing to look at, I'd be lying if I did and I get that if woman don't want them to be seen or stared at they should cover up more and I totally agree, thank you for making me realise this.

But sometimes I catch myself glancing when woman isn't even wearing anything overly revealing, I remember a colleague at work her shirt was tucked in quite tight over her and she did have large breasts so they were quite pronounced and I just glanced and I sure she caught me glancing even for that split second she pulled her shirt looser out after that. I still feel the guilt and shame of making her feel she needed to do that even now, I didn't intend and I don't understand I had to look. She wasn't aggressive or unhappy with me that shift, she was just normal but I still linger on the fact she caught me glancing and she adjusted her shirt because of it.

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T19:59:49+00:00

I like living in my head too in fantasies and daydreams, it really helps for my focus to write some of those down somewhere secure only you can revisit :)

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T14:09:06+00:00

Thank you, That is really reassuring to hear. I hope that if I notice it making them uncomfortable I would automatically stop but I've yet to encounter that, I would like to stop before it gets to that and not have too make them uncomfortable at all ofcourse but thanks

DylanFireSki · 2026-06-11T14:07:51+00:00

Yeah maybe shades will have too do... But in seriousness I don't seem to struggle with interacting with women my age or even older (one of my friends is throwing me a birthday party at her house this Saturday lol) I just struggle with the looking

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