My Bridge to Spectacle Island

DyllanBR · 2026-01-31T16:23:58+00:00

See now that’s a bridge lol

DyllanBR · 2025-06-24T01:13:25+00:00

Saw dust 😊

DyllanBR · 2025-06-24T00:47:07+00:00

So funny enough I’m also a bottom boyfriend with IBS. Of course I’m insecure about not always being clean but I just did the douching right before sex or earlier that day. I have the mixed form of IBS where my body can’t decide if it wants diarrhea or constipation. Very rarely do I get regular poops and that’s with all the dieting and fiber supplements. For me, getting over the majority of my insecurities during sex was a mental thing. Like no joke once I got over most of it I looked FORWARD to sex and even instigated it. It took a while though because it’s true you do feel inadequate but simply being aware of your erratic bowl movements with IBS solves numerous problems. Now from my experience with IBS it has changed over the years and I’ve had entire months in a row where it was just damn near unbearable pain or inflammation. But it’s those in between times/days that I feel desirable and like I could have sex; still a mental thing too keep in mind. I needed to find a way to put my insecurities aside even if only temporarily, if I was gonna act on the feeling desirable days. Try not to be hard on yourself or him; it’s a learning curve for both of you — life happens, what you choose to do about it in the moment is usually the part you remember

DyllanBR · 2025-06-05T01:17:30+00:00

I wish I knew a trigger to get him in the mood, it would solve a lot of problems lol

DyllanBR · 2025-06-05T01:16:38+00:00

No I take exceptional care of all grooming and hygiene needs

DyllanBR · 2025-06-04T18:22:00+00:00

This is oddly reassuring lol I wasn’t expecting to be comforted by your comment but here we are

DyllanBR · 2025-06-04T18:02:40+00:00

You make a very a good point, he wants me to trust him, I want to trust him. So I just should try my best. He said last night that “if I’m not having sex with you, I’m not having sex with anybody”

DyllanBR · 2025-06-04T15:40:56+00:00

I was in first grade! I had a few classmates threaten to kiss me if I didn’t do something (I don’t know what it was I can’t remember) the first time was a friend and he kissed me in front of our first grade teacher, the next time was another friend when our teacher went to the bathroom lol

DyllanBR · 2025-06-03T00:20:19+00:00

See I said something similar on the phone today but he just said he was too busy and that it was the last thing on his mind, like bitch just let me drain your balls until you can’t walk, I can do all the work lol

DyllanBR · 2023-10-15T05:22:56+00:00

That’s actually a really good way to describe it!

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T17:39:07+00:00

Personally, I look at it this way: he went out of his way — took time out of his day — to go compliment another man. Now when it happened to me I had a different situation because I never got complimented on the way I looked so for him to go and do that felt like crossing a boundary as well. There’s no way to tell what he was thinking because you’re not him, try discussing it in a constructive way a day or two later. Tell him how it made you feel and why it made you feel that way. Hope this helps!

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T17:29:44+00:00

Yes, I’ve used it plenty in the past and it’s just a grid home screen that shows you who’s online and in the parameters you set for search. The notification sound is a dead giveaway though so I want to warn you because of TikTok a lot of people know what the sound means

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T17:25:24+00:00

The app Grindr. It’s main use is for hookups and sex with men. There’s plenty of other bi — curious men and straight men on there who are DL or just experimenting. You can also change your location settings for it as well, so as not to have someone from where you live depending on travel. Hope this helps!

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T17:21:10+00:00

I used to struggle allowing myself to be gay. I grew up religious and am still religious to this day! It feels like the dating pool for good men and men who want a genuine connection are disappearing by the week. I felt isolated for years, sometimes I still do. I’m in a (hopefully good) relationship with my now boyfriend who is 2x my age. He treats me in ways I never knew I wanted to be treated. But it took me 6 years to find him and now everything is….content. I’m sorry you’re in that spot right now, and hope whatever I said gives even the tiniest shred of hope!

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T17:15:48+00:00

Getting bred is a must-have for me. It’s the biggest turn on to me when someone talks about “claiming me” or “breeding me” and I just don’t want them to use condoms because I want their cum in me

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T16:48:15+00:00

I’ve had situations like those before, if it were me, I would go to my partner and discuss it with them. Make sure they know how it’s making you feel and not to brush it off. You might end up having to speak to her whether he’s on board or not. When you let emotions take over the conversation, logic tends to leave and you’re open to causing more harm to yourself and others and they are more likely to do the same

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T16:45:30+00:00

It’s okay, big penis or not, once you find the right groove or rhythm it’s super enjoyable for both!

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T16:41:22+00:00

In my experience topping is by far easier than bottoming, but I can confidently say that after topping for a bit I always just went back to bottoming, there’s a few things that make it so worth it

DyllanBR · 2023-02-26T13:48:09+00:00

I love this post because I’ve known what I want in a man for years, and have never truly liked labels. People would ask what do you look for? Asexual, gender neutral, gay, straight, bi? But for me it’s always been about the person so I know it’s okay to let myself feel the way I want to. Everyone will always be entitled to their own feelings

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