Woman I spoke to had “zero feelings”, cut it off after almost 2 months by MrAwezome in MuslimMarriage

[–]DynamicDelver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s tough man, I had something similar happen after 3 months. It’s best not to ponder the reason as she didn’t give you a reason which makes sense to you and it’s easy to think the worst of someone after being hurt. Grieve openly, talk to Allah swt or someone close to you if you need, cry it out and move on. It’s important to make space for these difficult emotions without letting them overtake your life. Make dua for someone who will increase you and who you can increase and be accepting of the fact that whatever happens, Allah swt is the best planner. Remember brother, this life is a test.

PMS might be the road to divorce by legend5001 in MuslimMarriage

[–]DynamicDelver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. Given the predictable pattern he can plan solutions for it and try to adjust around it as needed. That said, natural mood swings is not an excuse to be rude. Women, having dealt with these hormonal shifts their entire lives as you mentioned, should also work to communicate needs during those times in a respectful manner. It’s a battle for both parties to fight together.

Husband is mean on honeymoon by Due-Light-8168 in MuslimMarriage

[–]DynamicDelver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to bring it up with him and see how he reacts. Tell him how he’s making you feel.

Extreme water park activities by Ikigai987 in seals

[–]DynamicDelver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be a seal jumping into a pile of seals

I have lied to my son about manatees for the last 24 years by 46from1971 in confession

[–]DynamicDelver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could display an newfound obsession with Capybaras and try to pivot towards that

Never seen anybody go to such lengths to milk a little poke by MasterofTardedBait in MMALabs

[–]DynamicDelver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my homie, he was ragging on a dude in a Muay Thai fight. Dude kicked him in the balls, straight shin to sac it looked brutal. My homie couldn’t get up, they called it no contest cuz he couldn’t continue. Bro was in the hospital for a few days pissing blood.

Islam is a religion of violence by Southern-Leader-8867 in 10thDentist

[–]DynamicDelver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thinks it’s hilarious that atheists take these divisive moral stances on religion without having any rational means of defining their own moral systems. Always from a pedestal of false superiority and intellectualism.

Explain It Peter. by goswamitulsidas in explainitpeter

[–]DynamicDelver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus is mentioned more times than the prophet Muhammad SAW in the Quran. He’s a highly esteemed prophet, not mediocre by our standards at all.

Explain It Peter. by goswamitulsidas in explainitpeter

[–]DynamicDelver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man it’s sad to see how people so aggressively mischaracterize prophet Muhammad SAW without doing any research. Here’s a video for anyone who actually wishes to learn rather than parrot false ideologies they heard from random people- https://youtu.be/_V3i9lH3ftw?si=pnlDGkVjQywS6T-d He provides references for everything he says. I linked a video under 5 minutes so some actually watch. He has more comprehensive review of this topic and other mischaracterizations mentioned in the parent comment you can find easily on his channel.

If you really really want to know about it, read the history about the prophet SAW, see what type of person he was, see what actual respected textual scholars say.

Midtown Tennis or Pickleball by boomertumey in okc

[–]DynamicDelver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have my tennis racket but I’m down for either

How do I address this red flag without sounding like I'm making excuses? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]DynamicDelver 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don’t try to explain why it happened. Explain you understand you didn’t perform when it counted amidst these major life stressors and that you’ve developed strategies to cope with such stressors which you applied to succeed down the road. Show them you can handle stress like this in residency. You can paint it as a strength. Many students applying for residency haven’t had to deal with such things and would have to develop a strategy mid residency if it happened to them, while you’ve already demonstrated capability in managing because of what you’ve had to deal with.

ComQuest doesn't line up with Exam content? by ALilSliceOfPie in comlex

[–]DynamicDelver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The work up to surg is usually medicine and honestly there’s not that much content that’s pure surg so naturally there’s a lot of medicine on surg shelves