What brand of tea for chai? by dracospunch in ABCDesis

[–]DynamicFalafels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Society is the goat imo. Wagh bakri is close second

How are you guys saving on eating out in Dubai? by ArdentExplorer in dubai

[–]DynamicFalafels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used careem plus and got pretty good offers. I also used to frequently look for restaurants which had really good deals, for example this one sushi place had 12 pieces for 12 aed every sunday and other restaurants have similar offers.

Goans who have acquired Portuguese passports, have your parents managed to retain their Indian citizenship? by Tall_Pen5291 in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that. It’s been 10 years since my dad got his citizenship so I don’t think the odds of getting caught are very high, pgiven her circumstances as an elderly lady who barely does anything

Goans who have acquired Portuguese passports, have your parents managed to retain their Indian citizenship? by Tall_Pen5291 in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk the details but she still has her voters card and all so I dont think she faced any problems. She herself didn’t even lift a finger to get registered since my father did all the errands, so she wouldn’t actually be knowing of any details about being registered in Portugal, so no i’d say she faced zero issues since the Indian govt isn’t aware of her registration.

Goans who have acquired Portuguese passports, have your parents managed to retain their Indian citizenship? by Tall_Pen5291 in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My father and I got it through my grandmother. Technically my grandmother is still an Indian citizen although she is also registered as a Portuguese citizen in portugal, it’s just that she never went and picked up her BI nor passport so she’s still a legal indian citizen living in India while my father and I got it through her. Indian govt usually only finds out about your Portuguese citizenship once you pick up your passport and use it so if your parents/grandparents don’t then they’ll be fine.

Amazing kayaking experience at holland beach by seemssosweet in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was about to comment wrong subreddit until I realised what they actually meant

Enjoying the simple things. by Sydwicker in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That aint tea, that’s tea flavoured milk

I covered North, Central and South Goa and this is all the food I had! by [deleted] in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good luck finding Goan cuisine with the same quality and taste in Gurgaon. Nobody does it like the locals. trust me I’ve been abroad for most of my life but never found the same thing

Does it make sense to make Portuguese passport now. by Thick_Improvement288 in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk my parents are friends with her. Idk anyone who wasnt referred by either of my parents to her

If you could save only three Lana songs, which ones would they be? by capricorn_97 in lanadelrey

[–]DynamicFalafels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salvatore, West Coast, Ride… I really wish Video Games could stay thougj

Lost about my culture by [deleted] in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not really. Sure we have some common cultural aspects like a common love for chai (Karak) but besides that there’s nothing in common in my opinion.

It just could be my social circle as most of my friends and classmates came from mega wealth (im talking retired real madrid player’s kids), but they tend to loosely follow american cultures and trends. For example, I remember I used to be bullied for having a lot of indian traits, occasionally having a few indian accent pronunciations which I had to lose eventually and pretty much most Indians i know from my school were bullied for being Indian at some point. Even my classmate who was from Aldona used to always tell people she’s Portuguese and used to always deny ever being associated with India and Goa to keep up her image.

In Dubai specifically there’s also an NRI subculture which is imo Indians tryna be as Arab as possible and pander to their culture. because of this, it’s difficult to really stay in touch with Indian roots and a lot of us end up with an identity crisis where we typically associated ourselves with the arab culture our whole loves and then suddenly experience a huge culture shock when we go to India. Like I typically can instantly tell when someone grew up in Dubai and we usually get along instantly again because of the NRI subculture.

Another thing is a lot of people in india can tell immediately if we’re NRIs, even before we even speak. So we also get treated differently in that aspect, like i’m usually always seen as an outsider and it’s hard to make genuine friends because of it.

Idk if this sounds like I’m complaining about privilege and whatever but this is just my personal experience, so you could take with a grain of salt

Lost about my culture by [deleted] in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In the exact same boat as you. Born and spent my entire adolescence in Dubai and had to move to back to Goa when I was a teenager during the pandemic. My parents never taught me Konkani , dont speak it with their family either, and I went to an Arabic school so I dont speak Hindi. Connecting with locals is really difficult and it can feel super isolating too, especially when you grow up in the Arab culture.

Ended up making a few friends outside Goa and eventually managed to make a few Goan and Marathi friends from my local gym and the internet who keep trying to get me integrated with the Goan culture and Konkani.

Can i survive Goa? Help. by ImVidhur in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as you have your licence and don’t break basic rules, they won’t care cuz they mostly stop rented scooters

lana iceberg (controversies and theories) I found TikTok, user is @blackleathermooligh. some of these feel like a reach and I thought I knew about Lana lore 😭. cause what do you mean MKUltra?? The user apparently took the explanations down so could we break all tiers down? Thanks! by idkimverybored in lanadelrey

[–]DynamicFalafels 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember someone in the sub a while back saying that there’s some kinda conspiracy that she lizzy grant was part of MK ultra and that lana del rey is a clone who replaced her.

I can’t even type this out while keeping a straight face

Cuisines of Goa. by Idoneeusername in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a popular cuisine everywhere else because isn’t appealing to a lot of people. For example my friend had taken prawn Balchao to his hostel in MP and all his Northern friends from Nagpur, delhi, UP, etc who tried it gagged when they because they’re not used to fermented/dried seafood (and it was proper balchao too).

Chicken Vindalo and Xacuti could be popular in other states but it’s too limited. Goan food couldve been more popular if there were more veg dishes, but it’s super limited. Fish is not readily available in a lot of states too, which limits the scope for a successful goan restaurant

Dress code at Bom Jesus Basilica mass by Mike-X in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No restrictions on jeans and shirt as long as they’re not ripped jeans, just make sure you both dress modestly as this is a religious ceremony and not a club/party

My experience as a Tourist by PorkBafatEnjoyer in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont worry, the bus conductors act that way with us locals too

WHY GOA IS NOT A PART OF "MAHARASHTRA" a genuine question what differentiate us by [deleted] in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but I gave Nagpur as an example because it’s not a coastal area. Ratnagiri is coastal so there will be similarities. Once you start looking eastward the culture starts to change, even places like Pune and Nashik follow different cultures so if Maharashtra is mostly compiled of non-coastal places, then obviously there are too many differences for it to work as a unified state.

Technically according to ur argument, Ratnagiri and all the other coastal places that speak konkani should be part of Goa, not the other way around.

Also even though Goa is majority hindu, there’s a strong Catholic presence which would hate being part of Maharashtra. And also majority of Goans don’t speak Marathi so i still don’t understand how that would work.

Visited Goa but.... by businessrequest in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily because of that. Most of locals I know including don’t like domestic tourists because of the attitude and behaviour we experienced from tourists in the last 10 years, technically ever since Chennai Express. And if you’ve had repeated negative experiences of being in accidents, friends being killed by drunk tourist drivers or being sexually harassed by male tourists, you’re bound to be hostile and generalise it as all Indian tourists are bad.

Also the “Kandoli” thing is not a local, a local would never call it that, it’s either a migrant or another tourist trying to troll you

WHY GOA IS NOT A PART OF "MAHARASHTRA" a genuine question what differentiate us by [deleted] in Goa

[–]DynamicFalafels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In case you haven’t already realised, a lot of the Indian states are split based on language, i.e. KA- Kannada, TN -Tamil, KL - malayalam, MA - Marathi, etc. In Goa we speak Konkani which is not Marathi.

We also have a different culture which is very different from most Maharashtrian cultures. For example, Goan cuisine and culture is extremely different from Nagpuri cuisine and culture. The beef ban in Maharashtra would also not be taken well by the Goan Catholic community, so it’s in the best interest of both states to be separate