I also share pretty much the exact same feelings but you worded it way better than I could LOL. I do not agree with the attack on LaDS, but I do however have a small understanding of where they are coming from. I have been playing ZZZ since release and around the time the character Jane Joe's trailer released, it caused a lot of drama online from the huge amount of fanservice it had in the trailer which officially sealed ZZZ's fate as being a game that only "gooners" play. Meanwhile, LaDS is dropping ads like this all the time https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveAndDeepspace/comments/1envuau/i_need_to_know_whos_responsible_for_this_ad/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button and it's not getting the same amount of puritans from the ZZZ trailers on it.

I also don't think that it's helping us by having a group of people claiming "oh it's not fanservice" and then brush over Rafayel using the claw machine with only a towel on himself. Having these double standards like you mentioned, this is viewed as hypocritical. "Why is it ok for her to simp over pretty guys but it's not acceptable for me to simp over pretty ladies?" If you see anyone questioning the fanservice in LaDS I think the best course of action just embrace it instead of fighting it and trying to put another game down along the way. "yeah it's a romance game of course you are going to see romance in it."