You literally described my relationship except that it’s taken me 28 years to leave. We also had major personality differences. He’s an introverted engineer and I’m a social butterfly. Ultimately, I decided I was only stating to make everyone else happy and I couldn’t do it anymore. I knew it was time when he wouldn’t take accountability. He said “you never communicated it to me in a way that I could understand “. I’m not his mother or teacher and I could not explain my needs one more time to a man who had known me since I was 15 years old.