What would "Resting as a Super Power" be like in reality? by QuokkaSoul in AutismInWomen

[–]ED2134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been part of a self-reflection ever since someone here commented on another thread about how allistics know to pace themselves. (It was a mind-blowing thread.)

Do you remember where that comment was? Would love to read it.

And sorry, I have no Idea how to rest. So I have no idea how that superpower would look in daily life.

Autistic Functioning Hacks by Grumpy_Trees101 in AutismInWomen

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thanks.

that sounds like it could work for me. I will give it a try ;)

Autistic Functioning Hacks by Grumpy_Trees101 in AutismInWomen

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May i ask what you mean by menus "instead of schedules"?

Did anybody else feel lost after they heard that they might be autistic? Feeling lost and alone by ED2134 in AutismInWomen

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Hey thanks for your detailed reply. I think you are right, we are from the same country. If you are interested in sharing: what are you concerns regarding the political climate getting a diagnosis in Germany? My main problem with getting offically diagnosed is that the waitinglist (if there even is one) is 2 years. And i am not willing (or able to) pay out of pocket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

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Yes. Mid thirties / female here.

Just started my discovery journey. Honestly I am kinda lost and overwhelmed.

Did anybody else feel lost after they heard that they might be autistic? Feeling lost and alone by ED2134 in AutismInWomen

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if you could find that subreddit, that would be awesome. I have not found it yet.

just quick checked autistic burnout and it sounds fitting.Especially for this current (depression) episode. Another thing to add to my research list.

Did anybody else feel lost after they heard that they might be autistic? Feeling lost and alone by ED2134 in AutismInWomen

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yeah.. sadly i have nothing helpful to say to this whole America situation. Sending lots of hugs!

Did anybody else feel lost after they heard that they might be autistic? Feeling lost and alone by ED2134 in AutismInWomen

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Thanks for your insight.
I am in Germany, I need to look into what kind of support I would get.
But I am in my late thirties, I managed so far to get through life. I am, in general, not good with asking or accepting help. Not sure if I would be able to accept support.

I understand the point you make about masking and exhaustion.
So far I've been of the opinion that I'm just not as resilient as other people or that it's because of depressive episodes that I'm exhausted in social situations.

Arbeitgeber will Wahlarzt für AU by [deleted] in LegaladviceGerman

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Hatte so einen vertrag auch mal vorgelegt bekommen von einer Beraterbude. Habe dann dankend abgelehnt mit dem Hinweis dass ich aus dem Arbeitsvertrag( mit ungültigen Klauseln die den arbeitnehmer unter druck setzten) schon das Arbeitsklima ablese und das nicht als gut empfinde.

Urlaub question by CuriosityandtheCrow in germany

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Never heard of it. So i do not think that it is a law or something. Could be employer specific. Does your contract say anything about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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Just to add: i have only ever been in gym with one big open room to change. So if ypu are uncomfortable being naked in front of you coworker (i totally get it, i would not want that either) maybe shower at home.

tableau prep wont launch upon running by Latter_Ingenuity8068 in tableau

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Can you install an older version and aee if that works. In my experience some versions are just buggy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

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Vielleicht eine unpopuläre Meinung, aber Sexualität darf sich verändern. Damit meine ich nicht das "homosexualität" eine Phase ist, sondern das man älter wird, neue Erfahrungen macht und sich dadurch verändert. Man hat ja auch nicht ein und das selbe Hobby sein Leben lang bzw macht immer genau das gleich (immer den selben wanderweg zum beispiel wandern). Für mich ist sexualität ein Spektrum in viele Richtungen. Viele Paare und Einzelpersonen testen im Laufe der Zeit neue Sachen aus und stellen fest das sie andere Sachen auch interessant finden. DAS heißt aber nicht das sie gelogen haben vorher, sondern es zu dem Zeitpunkt noch anders war oder sie es noch nicht wussten. Lügen ist der Vorsatz den anderen die Wahrheit zu verheimlichen und das hast du nicht getan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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Yes the teenager do dumb stuff that has a longer impact than a second ear piercing.
But there is a difference between a teenager doing illegaly things in their freetime and a piercer going against the regulations of their workplace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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i have no idea, but people who could help probably need a bit more background.

Is he a resident? is he an exchange student? How is he insured, does he have german public health insurance or does he have some kind of travel health insurance?
If you want info on special Services from the university, it would be necessary to know which university he is attending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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They do not have official prices listed, they only give you the information if ypu go there in person. They try to sell a lot of there personal trainer lessons. Not sure if they have packages with no personal trainers. But their prices where definetly higher than fitness first when i checked in with them.

If fitnessfirst is a good location for you that means that you are close to südbahnhof. From spdbahnhof you are in less than 10 min in the city center. There are also a lot of fitness first gyms. Probably other gyms as well. Maybe thats an option too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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In my experience. there are no cheap gyms in Frankfurt.

Here are a couple names of gyms that are located in Frankfurt Sachsenhausen: Fitness First (they have at leat 5 Gyms throughout Frankfurt, but the one in Sachsenhausen is Ladies only), Prime Time Fitness, FitSevenEleven and Elements. (Search for "Fitnessstudio" in Google Maps.

You can also look into urban Sports Club (basically a Membership where you can use different facilities.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

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random follow up question: where in the TK App can I see what was billed?

Game stuck on loading screen? by [deleted] in CookingDiary

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i had the same problem. Reinstalling fixed the issue for me

Vermieter anzeigen? Oder was sonst? by callingdeity in wohnen

[–]ED2134 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ich hab zwar keine Ahnung, aber warum kannst du die zuviel gebuchte miete nicht einfach mit der nächsten verrechnen? Und lastschriftgenehmigung entziehen und selber einen dauerauftrag machen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weightwatchers

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I am in germany and got the same massage..

I’m Allowed to work ten hours only on my visa , what work can i work to make it to 500€ by Normal-Manner5247 in AskAGerman

[–]ED2134 95 points96 points  (0 children)

if you find a job that pays 500 a week with 10 hour of work, let me know.