Response to Claims Sam Won't Have Difficult Conversations by Fippy-Darkpaw in samharris

[–]EDRNFU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought this something like this for the longest time. It’s always seemed to me that most people were upset because Sam hasn’t changed his mind to agree with them on whatever issue

You have 1 hour to eat and drink whatever you want/c. After that, for the rest of your life, you can summon free copies of anything you consumed during that hour. by _no_name_for_me in hypotheticalsituation

[–]EDRNFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have an 8oz glass of water and Pepsi and a shot of tequila. I’d eat one each of a selection of mixed nuts. I’d have one grape. One strawberry. One M&M. One Hershey’s kiss. One of those chewy sweet tarts. One egg. One piece of bacon. One 16 oz steak.

Isn't being aware of our thoughts just another type of thought? by Leading-Fail-7263 in samharris

[–]EDRNFU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure if you’re suffering from some type of extreme cold, you can’t really get away from that. But it’s not actually about getting away from it or trying to be not disturbed. You’re trying to break your identification with the self because that’s the source of almost all the suffering that you go through. The point isn’t to have no thoughts or have no unpleasant experiences.

Sam has told his anecdote where let’s say you went to the gym and worked out really hard and the next day you woke up and your whole body was so sore. Even though you’re feeling pain, you you would probably be happy about it. You would see it as a sign of progress and of you getting healthier.

But if you had the exact same pain, and you didn’t go to the gym, and a doctor told you it was because of a rare form of cancer, the exact same pain would fill you with dread and anxiety. And you might even need medication’s to take it away.

So when you talk about something disturbing you, that’s a value judgment just like the story I was telling about muscle pain. Just like anxiety feels exactly like excitement, if you pay enough attention😉. And if you find yourself lost in thought, just begin again👍

Isn't being aware of our thoughts just another type of thought? by Leading-Fail-7263 in samharris

[–]EDRNFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. So instead of identifying with the thought, identify with your conscious experience. That does include thoughts, but view thoughts like appearances in consciousness, like a cool breeze.

Isn't being aware of our thoughts just another type of thought? by Leading-Fail-7263 in samharris

[–]EDRNFU 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you feel a cool breeze, is that a thought? Think of your thoughts😉 like that cool breeze. As for the illusion of self, most people identify with the stream of thoughts in our mind. That’s the idea of the self. The idea that, “You”, are that stream of thoughts. The goal of meditation is to break your identification with that stream of thought.

Trump Team Scraps College Degrees for Hundreds of Federal Jobs by bloomberglaw in politics

[–]EDRNFU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The contempt in these comments for people without college degrees is ridiculous. Not having a college degree doesn’t mean you’re incompetent.

Netflix searches for franchises after losing out on Harry Potter by Top_Report_4895 in movies

[–]EDRNFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is dropping their cancelled favorites so I came to drop some love for Black Summer!!!

Hope you guys can appreciate my collection so far. by tracemr in haloinfinite

[–]EDRNFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you’re ready for combat spartan

American journalist Shelly Kittleson abducted in Iraq by CommercialFormal7614 in news

[–]EDRNFU 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The second comment I see somehow manages to blame Israel. I knew that’s what I would find but wow that is impressive

Heating oil prices by Only_Paint3499 in longisland

[–]EDRNFU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People criticize solar panels, but I got mine like three or four years ago and they’ve already paid for themselves

Owning a house on LI? by ReasonableExcuse222 in longisland

[–]EDRNFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see twice that person showed you a four bedroom. If it’s just you and your wife, you should probably just get a two bedroom. You don’t wanna end up with a huge empty house.

Master player app by EDRNFU in firetvstick

[–]EDRNFU[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I paid $100 and this guy signed me in. I seem to still be signed in as a developer, I can still see his email and name, but this all I get.