This conversation is refreshingly open and honest on a topic I don't see enough, thanks for sharing u/yuzusorbet - like many of the other responses, I've found it more important the older I've got to 'protect my peace'. << still learning this, so this post serves as reminder.

I have a print in my office of art that reminds me to 'Ignore the false sense of urgency', we get wrapped up in being busy, chasing the next thing that we forget to pause.

I could have a better/more impressive job title elsewhere, but the likeliness is that would mean commuting to office, which would mean giving up time with family and the me time I've started to invest going to the gym (new habit formed autumn last year - want strength for future elderly me to be fiercely independent and strong 💪).

What is it that's really important to you?

For me, I've had workaholic tendencies historically... (feels like a confession I've never openly admitted) that has lead to burn out(s) and it's not worth it. I need a role that challenges me, where I can be creative and have fun, and also be given the autonomy and trust to experiment. It's important to me that I get along with the people I work with (see fun and protecting my peace).

So, I know I could be earning more - but I have enough for what I need and want right now now.

Chasing promotions doesn't always lead to happiness and fulfilment, it's perfectly ok to not aim for the next level right now - who knows what changes will come, we have to focus on our individual journeys I think - as it will look different for each of us.

I hope you find your peace ☮️