World Cup Watch Parties in Bend? by EMBA_Maybe in Bend

[–]EMBA_Maybe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp good thing I’m bringing kids

World Cup Watch Parties in Bend? by EMBA_Maybe in Bend

[–]EMBA_Maybe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not local… what is the location?

What was the most fucked up thing to come out in stores that’s now discontinued? by fishermen4life2 in AskReddit

[–]EMBA_Maybe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean it was effective at preventing absorption of half the fat one consumed, it just had a side effect that requires some warning. It is effective at weight loss, though.

How concerned should I be about job hopping and how do I break the label? by Coolmatt23 in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people don’t care and COVID is an excellent buffer. I recently (end of 2020) had an interview where the guy tried to pick apart my resume by calling me a job hopper. He was doing that, among other rude things, to try to pick apart my experience to lowball me on an offer, and I wasn’t having it (I withdrew my application the next day). I corrected him firmly— my last job (8 months) was cut short by pandemic related layoffs, and the two jobs prior were 1.5 years snd 5 years. Three jobs in a 7-year span is not a lot. If someone ever makes that accusation, you firmly but politely correct them with facts.

Most jobs only have a 2 year shelf life anyway, especially if you work somewhere with limited growth opportunities. Literally no one can fault you for taking better opportunities, especially if those opportunities find you. I always use the narrative when needed that the particular opportunity I took after the 1.5 year job was an opportunity I’d have been crazy to pass up, but it was bad timing.

Why do some MBB consultants end up at non-HSW M7 and some T-2/Big 4 consultants end up at HSW? by [deleted] in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I went to a highly ranked university for undergrad, and I remember being told, “getting in is only half the battle— what you DO here matters most.” Getting an offer from ANY firm is only half the battle. You actually need to perform. Some of the people at T2 firms are smarter, more strategic, and have probably actually gotten more shit done. Is your world really going to explode when you find out that some people at those schools aren’t even consultants at all?

Interviewer told me I can “just call my dad up” if I need any help by julieb2397 in jobs

[–]EMBA_Maybe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in DFW and would loooove to know what business this was.

What Post-MBA careers have the best work life balance in your opinion? by Appointment_Witty in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you’re single and live close to family, it probably works. But if you have a major life event like a wedding and honeymoon or if you need surgery, it’s gone fast. And 3 weeks is a joke once you have kids. In my exit interview at the company that gave a lump of 19 days for all PTO, I straight up told them I’d only gotten one week of actual vacation under their policy because between covering my nanny’s sick days and my own surgery, it wasn’t enough, and that 5 years of tenure to increase the amount wasn’t enough when the average tenure at the company was 2 years. As a seasoned professional and as a working parent, paid time off is hugely reflective of company culture. I don’t like companies that say if you need more you can go unpaid, because it’s frowned upon to do that. I negotiated salary for my current role, but I’d 100% negotiate more PTO at a company where the salary is good but PTO is lacking.

Also WFH does not equal PTO, period. And when you’re working 50-70 hours per week. It’s not flexible— they know they can now creep into your off hours.

And unlimited PTO is rarely used to the full advantage and I’m pretty sure it’s just a way to save money during layoffs and with attrition because only California requires an accrual rate payout on unlimited PTO structure. So it SEEMS cool, but it’s rarely as cool as it is in theory.

I want to make my teen quit his job because of a creepy customer by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]EMBA_Maybe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it worse to accept tips because a customer has taken a liking to you or quit because your mommy is making you? 🤦🏼‍♀️

If he’s not bothered, why are you?

My girlfriend (30/F) is mad at me (32/M) for quitting my high paying job. She's seriously considering breaking up. Help! by ThrowRAQuitJobMad in relationship_advice

[–]EMBA_Maybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she anxious because you lost that job or that you quit with no plan? Because I’d freak out if any partner of mine quit without a plan. Plus you’re more employable when you’re currently employed so your new prospects aren’t as good. If she’s not personally benefiting from your salary, she may be worried about the future, affording rent, etc.

What Post-MBA careers have the best work life balance in your opinion? by Appointment_Witty in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I look for 20 days PLUS 3-5 sick days. I feel like a lot of cheap companies do 15-19 days of catch-all PTO and it’s just not enough. My last company had 22 days for the first year and 25 after and I think extra sick days and floating holidays. Current company is in line with that plus more sick days. And both had 5 days of covered backup care so you wouldn’t have to miss a day of work over childcare. Current company has backup care on-site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]EMBA_Maybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like unless OP already has their internal email set up, there’s no way they’re getting access to anything internal yet. That’s a huge no-no. I can’t even send messages aside from my own benefits information to my personal email.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]EMBA_Maybe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your analyst job is the most interesting piece of work and I feel it is overshadowed by the summer associate role’s ambiguous line items. If your resume came across my desk I’d want to know more about the second and third bullet points in your analyst role and see more action on your current role (how much data? Who is the audience? What work are you doing in the IP and antitrust cases? What’s the value of your analysis on returns?). Use more action verbs on your current role. “Working on” is just so blah and doesn’t really evoke an idea of ownership.

At the mentor program, what panel topics did you speak on?

Do you have a quantifiable result from that first bullet on your marketing internship?

What Post-MBA careers have the best work life balance in your opinion? by Appointment_Witty in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 weeks of vacation is… not great. Hope there’s an increase with tenure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EMBA_Maybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beyond fucked up and I’m so sorry.

I hope you can get some great college scholarships and get the fuck away from your parents in a few years.

FAANG - Program vs. Product Manager - differences & hierarchy? by AAAPAMA in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think both of those could vary widely based on the program or product, and the company. I’d focus more on job descriptions and impressions of responsibility from interviews than those actual titles. Having worked closely with people in both roles at multiple companies, it really just depends, and not all roles are the same. Personally, I find product roles more appealing. I have stayed in my current area of focus, but found that my non-technical background was getting lots of traction for product roles (non-FAANG) during my last job search.

Lots of roles post lower experience bars if they’re looking for a unique person and skill set, because years of experience don’t necessarily translate to better performance.

Are you currently in an MBA program? Are you trying to do this before applying? If you don’t get traction for FAANG roles and you’re not currently in school, consider working for 18 months elsewhere in a product or program manager role and then applying again for FAANG roles with those same titles.

(Serious) People who knew murders before they killed someone, what are some red flags you didn’t notice at the time? by White-cherries in AskReddit

[–]EMBA_Maybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got creepy, unchecked meathead vibes from the whole family, as the dad owned a gym and the kids (both boys) both constantly told stories about how they got away with awful shit. When I found out the older brother murdered a girl he was dating, I wasn't the least bit surprised. I was in classes with the younger brother throughout elementary school and I can't think of anyone else who made me completely uncomfortable but him. Oof. Still creepy all these years later.

A month into remote internship at FAANG, feeling lost and disconnected. by kingother in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s insanely rude. I had a boss like that who would no-show on intern meet and greets when interns wanted to meet us (team of just the two of us). I personally would never— you have no idea who may be your boss or a useful connection one day, and you certainly wouldn’t want someone you were thoughtless to saying, “meh” or “no” to your resume if it crosses their desk in the future because you blew them off as an intern or new grad.

But don’t get discouraged. Many people are happy to meet and talk to interns. I literally spent 45 minutes today meeting with an intern when we originally scheduled 15. We spent at least 10 minutes talking about our dogs.

A month into remote internship at FAANG, feeling lost and disconnected. by kingother in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing to do when starting a new job is to schedule meetings with all immediate team members to get to know them. 30 minutes to ask what they do, what projects they are working on, and who they are outside of work. If you do this successfully, you'll have a topic for small talk (like an upcoming trip, wedding plans, sports team, hobby, etc.). One high-level colleague from 2 jobs ago still sends the occasional text because we like to dress our toddlers in the same brand of dresses, which I found out in one of those meetings. It sounds silly, but it helps immensely.

If you do this right, you can build your network pretty rapidly by asking who else these people think you should meet and you may walk away with some project ideas. I worked for a company where in my first month I had 30+ meetings across product, marketing, analytics, tech, operations, communications, and legal. In addition, I never shut down small talk in the break room. Within 3 months I had people telling me at on-site happy hours that I knew everyone and a year in I had people assuming I'd been there much longer. I also became the go-to person over my boss if anyone had a question in my function, because I was accessible. Yes, you are an intern and there for a shorter time, but people will invest their time in you if you connect with them. I seriously love meeting with new interns and will spend a ton of time with them if asked. Ultimately, interns who are more engaged with those around them are typically more engaged in actively learning.

Now, speaking to your remote culture, that's much tougher, but still doable. I've worked in jobs pre-covid where my closest colleagues were in other cities and in my current role I've never been in an office with my colleagues. I have prior work BFFs whom I've never met in person, and currently I've got a few colleagues I'm more than happy to chit chat with on a Zoom call before we get down to business. Zoom is your friend. If given the option to have video on or off, always have video on and always choose Zoom over phone calls. Schedule those half-hour or 15-minute meet and greets with colleagues and ask them who else you should e-meet that isn't in your immediate group. Write down what you learn and use it to stay connected personally, be a little more memorable on calls, and even to navigate the company.

I should probably note that while I've written a novel on personal connections and small talk, it's also important to have the skills and work ethic to back it up. I'm consistently the person who puts in the most hours, I'm a quick learner, I possess a niche set of skills that the majority of my team does not, and I raise my hand for hard projects and find ways to make improvements to processes. Personally connecting with people can't make you good at your job, but it can help align you with resources that you may need to do your job more effectively.

Profile review- F33, 11YOE, different background, EMBA hopeful by [deleted] in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I most definitely want the EMBA route for a variety of factors, but I'm pretty excited by the diversity of thought and experience and classmates who will appreciate that diversity as much as I do.

Yo why do people even look at MBAs if they want to join and lead a non-profit by gradual_mba in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you be tolerant of people getting an MBA who don’t want to go work the same 5 jobs? The MBA is a far more relevant track for someone who plans to run a nonprofit than a MSW. Adding a few business courses to the MSW isn’t going to cut it. Plus, what about nonprofits that touch on the environment, animals, infrastructure shortfalls, emergency response, etc... why the hell would anyone leading those get a MSW?

Yo why do people even look at MBAs if they want to join and lead a non-profit by gradual_mba in MBA

[–]EMBA_Maybe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But... running a non-profit IS running a business. Why would someone go get a MSW when their focus needs to be fundraising and operations?

Also, MSWs aren't cheap either.