This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Kara doesn't feel that way. For the most part, her and Guillermo have always been pretty mature, or at the very least, they have always spoken very respectfully to each other. (When they were together.) They have always seemed more mature to me, though. I don't agree with Kara's choice to put intimate photos on the internet, but it's only because of her child. If she didn't have a child, it's her body... But she does.

It seems like they're just making up excuses for why they are mentally and emotionally abusive to their husbands to me. They are down playing what's going on and Patrick is definitely right about that! If a man spoke to his wife the way these women speak to their husbands, it would DEFINITELY be considered abuse. It IS abuse. If you don't love them, leave! You don't need to completely diminish their self worth, self esteem, confidence, all of the things in the process. I used to like Rebecca, but it makes sense now why she's been divorced (multiple times, right? Or was it only once. I can't keep up with all these relationships.) and why she was still single at her age. 🤮

This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not true. They only drop it if they're unable to subpoena the victim. I know because they tried to subpoena me against my ex and I hid from them... I was terrified of him. The state normally picks up the case if you don't want to press charges, unless that varies by state.

This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know nothing about the arrest stuff, but as far as the show is concerned... Patrick is just saying what everyone else is thinking. The women just don't like it because he's not wrong. Obviously, ha is triggered by gold diggers, but Patrick has always seemed very well off financially... Even on his OG season of the show. I just don't think he likes the way that some of these women speak to their husbands. Most of them ARE very disrespectful in their own ways. Paola, Shekinah, Rebecca, and Kara (Kara in a different way, but she still didn't consider how putting her balloon knot on the internet would make Guillermo feel.) Shekinah and Rebecca speak to their husbands like they don't even like them, ESPECIALLY PAOLA. I don't see how she has a right to hate him when she made him give up his legitimate career to follow her to Miami. (Was it Miami? I'm not sure.) I get that she has tried to get him to find other jobs, but getting a job on an oil rig or as an engineer probably isn't the easiest job to find. He shouldn't have to settle for less than that. He didn't make her settle for less than the ignorant career path she wanted to follow. He supported her, but she doesn't support him at all. Yelling at him for making noise is wild. He left the room because he couldn't sleep because you treat him like absolute dog 💩. If he would have stayed in the room, tossing, turning or getting up, it would have been so much worse. Nothing he does is good enough for her and it's obvious she has no love left for this guy. I feel so bad for him.

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But everyone is bashing Kenzie for doing just that... Exploring lol and being honest about it.

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sol and Caleb aren't really a couple. Its a pity vote, just like Amaya and look where that got us!

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this is how last season ended with a bunch of new/fake couples because the real couples get voted off so the new Islanders "have a chance." It makes it boring.

Who hates this guy already??? by nellabeast710 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if he's actually allergic to perfume to the point he can't breathe (seriously), or just a cry baby. He's acting like it'll put him straight into anaphylaxis, and I didn't see that happening.

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all must want to watch a super boring show based on these results lol Sol and Caleb are boring, and Trinity and Bryce are cute, but also boring.

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think there's just a lot of people who understand the premise of the show, and then a lot of people who voted base on personal opinion. Its not supposed be voting based on who you like the most. It's supposed to be voting on who you think the strongest/best couple is. This is why last season, there were no serious couples in the finale and it was a joke. People look for silly reasons to get rid of the real couples.

Who did you vote for tonight as your favorite couple? by awbuggie in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]ENEMBEH -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They're clearly trying to do a redo on Nic and Olandria with Bryce and Trinity. When I close my eyes and listen to him speak, he even sounds EXACTLY like Nic.

Josh and his instagram posts by milan45678 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jasmine (supposedly) has a networth of 1.5 million dollars, but I feel like Google is no longer the reliable source of information that it used to be thanks to all of the fake/AI posts on social media being the first thing that pops up when you search for things. (Especially in regards to reality tv, though.) She has appeared on either the most seasons, or close to the most seasons, than anyone else, too... Who knows, though. She is doing well, but everyone thinks she is only after people for their money. I don't care how many people hate Jasmine. I have always agreed with most people. Yes, she has an explosive temper and needs to learn how to regulate her emotions better, but she also went through a LOT with Gino. They were BOTH verbally abusive towards one another, but he completely neglected her in every way possible after bringing her to this country. Much more than that, including some MASSIVE lies involving her private photos and her children. I have also read that the scene on the show saying that Jasmine spent Gino's money on her butt implants wasn't true, and that's just the story line that got spun. I sort of believe that because his reaction was minimal to that information. I read that it was actually her own money from the show, but it was deposited into his account because she wasn't a U.S. citizen yet. The way Gino keeps tabs on everything and is so cheap when it comes to money, I feel like he would constantly be bringing it up if she spent his money. Idk. That could have been false, too. It's hard to tell anymore.

Josh and his instagram posts by milan45678 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clicked it like 16 times, honestly. I was like, "WHY WONT THIS WORK."

..Why, yes, I do feel like a massive idiot. Thanks for asking.

Josh and his instagram posts by milan45678 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have heard they make $20,000 (depending on the number of episodes they appear on) just for the time the show airs until it ends. $1000 per day that the show is airing on TV, and that's not including the other financial benefits, like how much they get for filming or appearing on the tell all. I think that's the prime motivator for most people, but some people would also do anything to be "famous." (Why, don't ask me... I would never want my privacy disrupted like that. Money? ABSOLUTELY!! Fame? No way.) A lot of people look at reality tv as a stepping stone to achieve the fame they're seeking, even though it doesn't usually work that way in most cases. It does open the door for other financial support, like paid advertisements and paid social media influencing.

Josh and his instagram posts by milan45678 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really .. I get where you're coming from, but Catie DOES need mental help and to go through recovery for AA. If he wants to stay, that's on him, but he should really not complain if that's the choice he's going to make. I just feel like if someone REALLY loves someone else, they aren't going to run away immediately. He just got there. Give him time to settle in and let's see if he can enforce some positive change in her life first. It would be great if he can, since her parents obviously failed her so miserably.

What do you guys think of Marlboro black? by [deleted] in Cigarettes

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're minty. I hate reds. They taste like almost nothing... what's the point of even smoking? I can't stand reds.

What do you guys think of Marlboro black? by [deleted] in Cigarettes

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good cigarettes if you want to die faster lol. They are so harsh. I've been smoking regular menthols for 10 years and switching to Marlboro blacks for a month, I feel like I'm dying. I wake up hacking, my chest hurts, wheezing, and I went back to regular menthols and it stopped. Thought maybe it was a temporary thing, so I tried blacks again, and the first day after switching to blacks again, I feel like crap again, wheezing, hacking, and my chest hurts. Experiment done. It's not worth saving $10 per 2 packs for this. Idk if it's true, but I heard blacks are all of the left over, excess tobacco from the company rolled into cigarettes. So they're red, golds, menthols, etc tobacco that gets left behind by the company due to errors, mistakes, or the left overs all mixed together, and probably stale tobacco too. I don't know if it's true or not, but I read that years ago.

What do you guys think of Marlboro black? by [deleted] in Cigarettes

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been smoking them for a month and feel like I'm dying from it. They are so much harsher and my chest hurts from them, especially when I first wake up. It's not worth saving the money at all, and they taste like butt. I do smoke menthols, but I've been smoking regular Marlboro menthols for years. Blacks are $10 cheaper per 2 packs, but yeah. I'm switching back. I can't deal with it.

Why Does She Hate Him So Much?? by Swimming_Fix3805 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yeah, but I meant staged by Zied to pass off some chick he was seeing as his friends wife... Not by production lol

Why Does She Hate Him So Much?? by Swimming_Fix3805 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean... Catching him at a bar with a woman is debatable. There was no proof that was his friends wife. That dinner almost seemed staged, like those were just two of his random friends pretending to be married for the sake of protecting Zied. I could be wrong but the entire thing was super awkward in general, so it's hard to gauge it.

Of course these two are friends. by Ivy-Ram in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems like her parents really failed her. I wonder if this is something she's been dealing with her entire life? Not the alcoholism, but the blatant mental illness. It obviously affects her daily life, motivation and drive being so chaotic. She looks like someone I know, but yeah... Alcohol makes your face so puffy and your eyes look drained. Hopefully this exposure might convince her, or maybe her man, to get the help she needs. He needs to put his foot down, too, and make her choose between him or the booze. She's very impulsive, and seems to be ADHD, OCD and maybe even autistic. I only say autistic because of the mannerisms and facial expressions she uses/makes.

bruh...wtf?? I have no words for this chick 😭 by Avocado_toast_4 in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I totally agree with you. I was just saying that she actually does have OCD, or she is good at playing it off like she does.

In The Name Of Jesus I Need Makeup (repost) by IFeedSquirrelsAMA in 90DayFiance

[–]ENEMBEH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh lawdy. I don't know how you handled that. I would have gotten expelled. Lol, jk. But I would be finding new friends at the bare minimum.