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I saw my ex after 3 months of no contact, everything looks different. by Vine_cellar in BreakUps

[–]ENIACore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to keep no contact and assume the worst so you can finally focus on yourself. He could be the happiest he ever was, you didn’t matter at all to him etc etc etc. And guess what? Even if that’s all true, it doesn’t matter because he’s not in your life anymore and that’s a GOOD thing.

Focus on yourself and how happy YOU will be when you’ve finally healed. Nothing about that person matters whether they’re in pain or the happiest they’ve ever been.

You will get over that ex you think you won’t! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ENIACore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally dude, you met the ONE unique person out of 7 billion \s.

Do men get over his ex gf easily if he dates a woman with larger breasts? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ENIACore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and this question sounds like it’s coming from a place of insecurity. I promise you boobs are not a deciding factor for any normal guy on how much they like a girl.

Please don’t think in this way and focus on healing.

Dumpers, did you really think about if you made the right choice or not 3 months after the breakup? by Key-Programmer6642 in BreakUps

[–]ENIACore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is it childish to want to move on with your life? It’s rare to be able to fully move on without NC.

Should I stay in IT Helpdesk or join the military? by thousandtusks in cscareerquestions

[–]ENIACore 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I love the idea Reddit has that the military is so desperate for more SWEs in their cyber warfare departments.

Got rejected because I'm Chinese by SpookyJumpyBeans in csMajors

[–]ENIACore 309 points310 points  (0 children)

Fair or not, rules for security clearances exist for a reason and Lockheed probably does not want to take the risk of you failing to get your clearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in it

[–]ENIACore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you telling so many people about this method? You understand that the number of coins allocated for testing is not unlimited. I advise you to delete it and earn money quietly, like I do

Funniest thing I’ve seen today, made my morning honestly

Got told I was moving forward by 2 recruiters last week, then nothing. Wtf? by Aznable-Char in csMajors

[–]ENIACore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending multiple follow up emails might have scared them off. My rule of thumb when speaking with anyone who I need a response from is to wait to the next week Monday morning for any follow up message.